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FamilyRe: Does Genotype Affect God's Will In Marriage? by OPTOSUN(op): 10:31am On Aug 25, 2021
Now, when we as Christians say "will of God" it doesn't mean or refer to a particular individual whom you prolly took her name for prayers for confirmation or someone you "received" through your dreams. No!

The will of God refers to any true bornagain child of God. So as a Christian, you're only allowed to choose from the circle of the bornagain Christians, which is the only circle God approves of as his will.

Now, to your question. From the will of God ( circle of bornagain Christians), you are again advised to chose someone with a compatible genotype. In fact, compatibility in every aspect. So, if the one you have picked doesn't have a matching genotype, please by all means let go. Even the church will advise you to drop the idea, since there are so many other will of God with matching genotype to choose from.[/quote]What if in the case where God reveal to them strictly to marry each other? And other people also receive same revelation..........
FamilyDoes Genotype Affect God's Will In Marriage? by OPTOSUN(op): 9:16am On Aug 25, 2021
In the case of AS wanted to marry AS. Does genotype has effect on such marriage since it's confirmed to be God's will?
Don't forget there is possibility they give birth to SS
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Tell us the one you've witness
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Your opinion is welcomed
FamilyRe: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by OPTOSUN(op): 10:51pm On Aug 21, 2021
iamL:
If u have a daughter make sure she doesn't marry a bred Nigerian man. Even an Afghanistan nationality is better.

D kind people wey dey this country dey surprise me.
Ewo....Afghanistan?
Hmm
FamilyRe: Husband And Wife Worshipping/attending Separate Church. Right Or Wrong? by OPTOSUN(op): 10:47pm On Aug 21, 2021
deavicky:
if a man that stay at home can be managed how comes different church should problem.
Don't forget men are not the same. Humans act differently. Because it works for someone doesn't mean it's going to work for another person......................
Let's know your reason why it's right for couples to attend different/separate churches. Tanku
FamilyRe: Husband And Wife Worshipping/attending Separate Church. Right Or Wrong? by OPTOSUN(op): 10:29pm On Aug 21, 2021
deavicky:
see ur reason nah does it make sense to you. Is not better for them to go different churches than the man staying at home.
The man staying at home is another topic on its own.
Read the topic abeg
FamilyRe: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by OPTOSUN(op): 8:36pm On Aug 21, 2021
DonroxyII:
Most Fulani go to school in UK and they have jobs in Multinational or International development agencies waiting for them in Nigeria once they land......

They mostly mostly their cousins ... Marriages in Fulani is strictly regulated because you can be disowned by the family if you misbehave by marrying outside!

I wanted to date the sister to one of my Fulani friend from Bauchi State ... She likes me but told me what I stated up there !!
Wow.........
FamilyRe: Husband And Wife Worshipping/attending Separate Church. Right Or Wrong? by OPTOSUN(op): 10:11am On Aug 20, 2021
I don't support it. Spiritually, the husband's teachings, knowledge, belief and doctrine from his church may differ from the wife's church. This can cause havoc between them.
For instance, suppose the church the wife attend support females wearing trousers, while the husband's church is against it.
If the wife create interest and wears it, it may cause serious problem.
FamilyHusband And Wife Worshipping/attending Separate Church. Right Or Wrong? by OPTOSUN(op): 9:39am On Aug 20, 2021
Family issue : Husband and wife worshipping/attending separate church. Right or wrong?
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Does it have any effect on marriage?
FamilyRe: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by OPTOSUN(op): 10:13pm On Aug 19, 2021
jeff1607:
When she sends you out you can't pick anything compared to a Lagos landlord, a constant reminder that she built the house for any slight, you can't argue especially if she has a bad temper. Instead pay for the house
How many people he wan tell say he don buy his wife's house? Few will even believe
Imagine if the wife's family get bad mouth...hmm
Buying the house is shameful abeg
FamilyRe: Share Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by OPTOSUN(op): 5:57pm On Aug 18, 2021
I know of a couple. The wife is Yoruba while the husband is Urhobo. Though they reside in Yoruba land, the wife and children speak Yoruba language only. They don't understand Urhobo. The man can speak Yoruba fluently since he has stayed in Yoruba land for a long time.
Anytime they go to the man's side, they don't cope because they couldn't speak Urhorbo language. While other members are discussing, they feel lonely.
So language diversity plays a role here.
CultureShare Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribes... by OPTOSUN(op): 11:45am On Aug 17, 2021
If you did not marry from your tribe, or any inter marriage that you know, share the experience and lets learn...
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Your tribe and the tribe you got married to and the experience before and after marriage
FamilyShare Your Experience Marrying From Other Tribe by OPTOSUN(op): 9:35am On Aug 17, 2021
For those that did not marry from their tribe, how is it going?
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Share the experience
FamilyRe: Debate: Man And Armed Robbers Prayers....... by OPTOSUN(op): 12:16pm On Aug 15, 2021
HUSTLER001:
what of a scenerio where the armed robbers couldn't succeed in robbing the man because they met stiff resistance from the police? undecided
He was saved by the police
FamilyDebate: Man And Armed Robbers Prayers....... by OPTOSUN(op): 11:58am On Aug 15, 2021
A man prayed that may God not allow armed robbers to rob him while armed robbers prayed God should bless their hustle(both on different occassion).
Eventually, the man was robbed. Is it that God didn't answer his prayers?
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FamilyRe: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by OPTOSUN(op): 6:31am On Aug 14, 2021
DonroxyII:
Lol, he should double his hustle as a Man ... That's what I will do to mitigate future possible consequences and influences from third parties from either families and/or frenemies.... People and factors that take advantage of little crack in a sweet home !!

E.g. he can use the opportunity to learn greater skills as a result of savings from house rent , advance his education, advance his professional competence or learn new skills via diversification .....

He just have to match up ... utilising her as a step ....... if he doesn't, devil will roll its head one day and it can escalate!

If I have a wife earning more than me ... Jesu, my life don over better Niyen because wetin i dey find for Texas in now inside my trousers!
Yeah. Good idea
EducationRe: HND Entry Requirements And B.tech In Yabatech by OPTOSUN(m): 5:22am On Aug 14, 2021
Not yet Yabatech is still a polytechnic
FamilyRe: Pregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Her Husband Had Bought His Mom A Car by OPTOSUN(op): 5:03am On Aug 14, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Where is the rest of the story? undecided
Finish
Abeg put mouth for the matter
FamilyRe: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by OPTOSUN(op): 5:01am On Aug 14, 2021
DonroxyII:
Off we go wetin remain .... But you have to be matured enough to quickly used the opportunity to build your own mansion more better than your wife and take her there ...... if not, the day should sh.it go happen and her female cycle influences random talks .... you go hear weencheesy
Build his own house in one day?
Where will a better house come from when he earn less salary?
Hmm
EducationRe: DIRECT ENTRY Admission. by OPTOSUN(m): 7:48pm On Aug 13, 2021
Damscodammy1:
pls what should we do?
God's grace is the koko
Ensure you confirm your transcript
FamilyPregnant Wife Files For Divorce After Her Husband Had Bought His Mom A Car by OPTOSUN(op): 9:28pm On Aug 11, 2021
Pregnant wife files for divorce after her husband had bought his mom a car. She said "I can't be pregnant and be trekking while your mother drives a car."

What do you think about this scenario?
EducationRe: OAU Vs UI, Which Is The Best? by OPTOSUN(m):
Arrowss:
I love OAU, it's better, well, UI is the best, I am currently a finalist in UI. One of the things I love about my school, which is the best in Nigeria, is that, the students don't brag, we lie low most times, you hardly hear unruly behaviours off and off campus, I can bet you, some of us are seeing these thread but will not make a sound. We hardly talk in situations like this.
Storrrry...coman see things for yourself
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Jealousy jealousy �
EducationRe: DIRECT ENTRY Admission. by OPTOSUN(m): 3:03pm On Aug 11, 2021
DE aspirants that's just applying to OAU this year should pray o. Distinction doesn't assure admission yet
FamilyRe: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by OPTOSUN(op): 9:32am On Aug 10, 2021
frozen70:
She must have done that as a surprise to her family

Is left for her husband to appreciate her efforts not regarding who's name is written in the document

But men with pride will not see it that way and that's the beginning of another bigger problem
Pride? Why keeping it from her husband?
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If the husband agree, she will do more than that next time confidently
FamilyRe: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by OPTOSUN(op): 5:56pm On Aug 09, 2021
No o Else, the husband should be careful. Hmm
EducationRe: What Things Made You Choose FUTA? by OPTOSUN(op): 5:51pm On Aug 09, 2021
Clarke207:
What is ear catching about it? Looks like you just got admitted. You'll hate the anthem soon ���
Smiles. No
That's my own personal view
FamilyAs A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by OPTOSUN(op): 5:48pm On Aug 09, 2021
A couple lived in a rented apartment. Happy family to be precise. The wife earn huge salary compared to the husband... so she decided to build a house without informing her husband. After completing the house, she finally inform her husband that they will be leaving to their own house tomorrow. Assuming you are the husband, what will you do?
EducationWhat Things Made You Choose FUTA? by OPTOSUN(op): 5:12pm On Aug 09, 2021
What are the things that made you choose/create interest in The Federal University of Technology Akure(FUTA)
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The sweet school anthem and its excellence made me create interest in futa. Great futarians! Great
Ear catching anthem.......
ProgrammingRe: Programming Is Life by OPTOSUN(op): 4:50pm On Aug 09, 2021
gregyboy:
Bro can you tutor me on python
Download sololearn app on your phone. It's easy for beginners
Education2021 Direct Entry Aspirants Applying To OAU by OPTOSUN(op): 1:29pm On Aug 09, 2021
As you would have known that the minimum entry for direct entry is upper credit. Aspirants ought to have start processing their transcripts and make sure it is confirmed at OAU senate building. And submit other necessary document there.
DE aspirants will only obtain the post utme form when it's out but won't write the exam.
Christianity EtcHow Did You Surrender Your Life To JESUS CHRIST by OPTOSUN(op): 11:51pm On Jul 25, 2021
Tell about your past and how you met Christ
Jokes EtcThings To Observe Carefully Before Saying YES by OPTOSUN(op): 11:39pm On Jul 25, 2021
As a lady/guy, what are those things to observe before courtship start?
EducationRe: Nigerian Universities Ranking In Engineering by OPTOSUN(op): 11:14pm On Jul 25, 2021
lampi:
unn don't know anything about engineering
The school is advanced technologically

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