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hmm, another heart break. all izz well o. babe he told you he had lost interest and affection for you for the past two months. Very PAINFUL. what else would one say than to encourage you to try move on with you life. #my opinion.
can see this might not be an easy task for you since your already down with fever. please take care of your health 1st

harlos: it is sickening, isn't it

yeap, VERY sickening

o.k.. WTF is going on

I always feel good when my birthday comes, even if I'll celebrate it with family and friends or not. It's not really about the celebration that makes me excited. It's how I appreciate life that I have another year to fulfill my wishes and tasks and that's what I'm always thankful of.

So now, that you still have the time to be with friends on your birthday, cherish it. Light a candle today or you can go to an orphanage because some children don't know when exactly are their birthdays. Give them gifts. Enjoy your big day!

single.... & i no dey find

snadguy007: Yes o. The more u see relationship as a game, the less heartbroken u become.

on point

All of the above... & it's no joke

dyttt: its vice versa my dear
guys and ladies
its in turn not jst a particular gender

i have had my share of good and bad too
doesnt still make me think all men are same

past relationships shld only make u stronger and wiser, life is too short to hate

yeap, your right. The experience made me stronger & wiser. I don't hate, I learned from the errors & I now approach relationship differently

dyttt: u were hrt broken by one dont mean we all are same
*raises eyebrow*

hmm, if u say so

mencade5: vizkiz since yesterday u just dey fall my hand. Why u go dey cry for woman wey leave you? Why?

Na the 4 years wey you spend with her na im dey pain you or na the new guy wey she don get dey pain you?

With all my message wey i dey share for this romance section u no understand anything? I hope guys in this forum are not allowing my hard earned research of so many years to go down the drain.


Listen vizkiz, the guy was not a new guy. During those years of dating her, she has been dating him behind your back, double dating, and u mugu-lly fell for her tricks. Haba

there is no lady on planet earth that date one particular guy. Quote me anywhere. There is non. you beclouded you brain with love as if it was everything to you. My brother, that is not it! That is not it!

Who told you being nice, sweet, being soft will make your lady stay with you? Relationship now adays is not done like that.

Oya check this out, lets asuumed, she was dating you and that guy during that 4 years period, which i believe was true. You were very nice and perfect to her whiile the other guy treats her in a not so nice way. You actually done whatever she ask you without complaining or rejecting her request, while the other takes time, argue with her about her demands or hardly respond to her demand.

You questioned her every move, trying to know everything about her, stalking her. While the other doesnt care as long as he bangs her when she comes, he instruct her like a father instruct his daughter.

She noticed too much goodness in you and notice the other has so many flaws that needs to be corrected. Guess what! She chose him and left you.

You want to know why? Every lady wants a guy they cant control in their palms. Once you are their remote then you are not worth it. They seek and admire that guy that they cant control. This is what they will yearn to do, to try to change that guy that is uncontrollable to be become perfect, what they actually want, by their own effort.

I relate women's life to that of a termite, you destroy the termites hill, it will come back to rebuild and rebuild and rebuild. You destroy it again it will still come.

Think about it bro. My many brothers have posted so many good advice for you earlier in this thread. A very good thing. Follow it.

Lastly, try and become something a lady would like to change. I dont mean destructive things. For more info. Reply this post back.

gbam! gbam!! gbam!!! Na wetin bin fvck me up b this, being mr nice guy, a yes man, no argument. C vizkiz u had beta wake up, get your azz moving & step up your game

dyt babe: And who says NL chics aint worth it?
*sneezes*

NL chics!!! hmm... I comment on my reserve

vizkiz: chai...guys have been schooled

very well

Mondisweets: lose her number, if thats too hard. Before you call or text her think of how she mistreated you and the more you do that, the more you willl realise that she is not worth it.
Thats how i managed to get over someone i had dated for long. It might just help.

vizkiz this is a good one, I think it'll work for you, trust me it did work for me.

vizkiz: Yeah...but the sad news is that i freed them all cuz i wanted to be committed

But now am back to square 0

hahahaha #am all laughs here# I dey laff because I have been there b4. Like 1 of my previous comment, trust me, you'll get over it, with time

ekong ke

Kai!!! nope, na no go area

What to do? No easy task sha O! Just try & keep your self busy, avoid being alone too often, as much as you can hang out with your male friends. Avoid talks about her, stop calling her you'll only hurt your self the more. Encourage, improve & work on your self & with time you'll gradually heal emotionally.

vizkiz: she's going out with someone else...

hmm, my guy, i feel u. it's not going to be easy. just give am time, you'll get over it. trust me i know

yes details wetin happen?

how nice of him. kudos!!!

well for me i think it's o.k.it doesn't really matter much as long as the love is there & they are both matured enough to carry each other along in the relationship #my take#

R2bees: p' is missing?

my bad, me don c am now

I do agree, She deserves it

naijaboiy:
Boss you get time o

hmm, no time O!

"the" repeated & "P" is missing

SpaceGoat: she wont pick my call how am i to know when shes not hme?

guy no fall my hand, u b sharp guy naw. she no get friends wey u fit give u info about d mama? haba!!!

SpaceGoat: what if her mummi arrest me?

why? hmm, then make sure say she no dey around

SpaceGoat: she pick my call ones and " dont call me again o " . im so depressed now please advice . tank

guy u love dis babe die? this 1 that u r depressed no b good sign. (hmm, no b every1 go gree with wetin i go tell u now) c if u really do have feelings 4 her, i mean love her & u really want to have a future with this babe, go see her & apologize. (i dey assume say she too love u O!) if u wan do so, just dey prepare ur mind anything fit happen. just dey nice no argue with am.

SpaceGoat: but she is not calling again now. what am i to do?

if u call does she pick ur calls? if yes, still keep ur cool & be nice 2 her. if na no, still dey give am time make her anger cool down

just relax, give her time. as she no gree u f@ck am 4 her house (even thou she bin don gree say una go do am), u 4 chill. nothing do u, just keep cool, b nice, no dulling & see how things work out

joychioma19: thanks love am blushing

#with BIG smile# your welcome

Nothing go do am