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Blackett:
[color=#150000]Signs that tell me to end the fvck outta that relationship.

Once she starts to exhibit any of these, it's over. Life is too short to manage such nonsense.

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sinaj:
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someone shud summarize it for me


where is cutehector ?

CountDracula:
In other word, how to knw if ure d pvssy and she's d man of d house...

PRISTINEMUSCLES:
For a person to have pubic lice, i could only imagine the tropical rainforest around the pubic region. I believe regular shaving/trimming as well as a good personal hygiene should ward off pubic lice.

1. Bullying. If she doesn’t get her way, there’s hell to pay. She wants to control you & resorts to emotional intimidation to do it. She uses verbal assaults & threats in order to get you to do what she wants. It makes her feel powerful to make you feel bad. People with a Narcissistic personality are often bullies.

Result: You lose your self-respect & feel outnumbered, sad & alone. You develop a case of Stockholm Syndrome , in which you identify with the aggressor & actually defend her behaviour to others.

2. Unreasonable expectations. No matter how hard you try & how much you give, it’s never enough. She expects you to drop whatever you’re doing & attend to her needs. No matter the inconvenience, she comes first. She has an endless list of dem & s that no one mere mortal could ever fulfill.

Common complaints include: You’re not romantic enough, you don’t spend enough time with me, you’re not sensitive enough, you’re not smart enough to figure out my needs, you’re not making enough money, you’re not FILL IN THE BLANK enough. Basically, you’re not enough, because there’s no pleasing this woman. No one will ever be enough for her, so don’t take it to heart.

Result: You’re constantly criticized because you’re not able to meet her needs & experience a sense of learned helplessness. You feel powerless & defeated because she puts you in no-win situations.

3. Verbal attacks. This is self-explanatory.
Result: Your self-confidence & sense of self-worth all but disappear. You may even begin to believe the horrible things she says to you.

4. Unpredictable responses. Round & round & round she goes. Where she’ll stop, nobody knows. She reacts differently to you on different days or at different times. For example, on Monday, it’s ok for you to ping, chat or work in front of her. On Wednesday, the same behaviour is “disrespectful, insensitive, you don’t love me, you’re a self-important jerk, you’re a workaholic.” By Friday, it could be okay for you to ping, chat or work in front of her again.
Telling you one day that something’s alright & the next day that it’s emotionally abusive behaviour. It’s like walking through a l & mine in which the mines shift location.

Result: You’re constantly on edge, walking on eggshells & waiting for the other shoe to drop. This is a trauma response. You’re being traumatized by her behaviour. Because you can’t predict her responses, you become hyper vigilant to any change in her mood or potential outburst, which leaves you in a perpetual state of anxiety & possibly fear. It’s a healthy sign to be afraid of this behaviour. It’s scary. Don’t feel ashamed to admit it.


5. Emotional Blackmail. She threatens to abandon you, to end the relationship, or give you the cold shoulder if you don’t play by her rules. She plays on your fears, vulnerabilities, weaknesses, shame, values, sympathy, compassion & other “buttons” to control you & get what she wants.

Result: You feel manipulated, used & controlled.

6. Rejection. She ignores you, won’t look at you when you’re in the same room, gives you the cold shoulder, withholds affection, withholds sex, declines or puts down your ideas, invitations, suggestions & pushes you away when you try to be close. After she pushes you as hard & as far away as she can, she’ll try to be affectionate with you. You’re still hurting from her previous rebuff or attack & you don’t respond. Then she accuses you of being cold & rejecting, which she’ll use as an excuse to push you away again in the future.

Result: You feel undesirable, unwanted & unlovable. You believe no one else would want you & cling to this abusive woman, grateful for whatever scraps of infrequent affection she shows you.

7. Withholding affection & sex. This is another form of rejection & emotional blackmail. It’s not just about sex, it’s about withholding physical, psychological & emotional nurturing. It includes a lack of interest in what’s important to you; your job, family, friends, hobbies, activities & being uninvolved, emotionally detached or shut down with you.

Result: You have a transactional relationship in which you have to perform tasks, buy her things, “be nice to her,” or give into her demands & s in order to receive love & affection from her. You don’t feel loved & appreciated for who you are, but for what you do for her or buy her.

You don’t have to accept emotional abuse in your relationship. You can get help or you can end it. Life is too short to spend one more second in this kind of relationship. If your lady won’t admit she has a problem & agree to get help, real help, then it’s in your best interest to get support, get out & stay out.

So, are there any pediculosis pubis complications?

With crabs infection, there is no severe medical complication as such. The only concern is, constant scratching over the infected areas, leaving open skin sores and increasing risks for secondary infections. This can be minimized by earl early detection treating lice infections in the early stages. On the better side, STD crabs infection responds well to treatment and personal care. Learn more on STD symptoms in women.

How to Treat Pediculosis Pubis?

People having symptoms of crabs infection should avoid close contact with others (especially sexual partners) until the condition is diagnosed and treated promptly. For diagnosis, suspected pediculosis pubis symptoms are examined carefully. Once confirmed, the doctor may recommend topical formulations containing permethrin for both the partners. This topical cream should be applied at night and rinsed the next morning. In addition, shampoos are available with the same chemical ingredients. To fetch prompt results, always keep the genital area clean, and follow the instructions for using creams and shampoos religiously.

For pubic lice treatment, use of medicated creams or shampoos should be continued for 7 – 14 days. This is to make sure that the recently hatched lice are exterminated too. Besides this, adopting good personal hygiene tips is necessary to address this parasitic infection. Bedding, linens, and undergarments should be washed with hot water. If possible, dry them properly in the sun to kill lice. And for preventing pediculosis pubis, avoid sharing clothing with an infected person and also, don’t try on swimsuits of others. Simple tips like these will surely help in preventing the transmission of pubic lice.

Based on the cause of the disease, crabs infection or pediculosis pubis is classified as a sexually transmitted disease (STD). After infection, symptoms of pediculosis pubis may right away or some people have symptoms several days (up to 4 weeks) after infection takes place. Regarding identification of pediculosis pubis signs and symptoms, an individual infected with pubic lice may experience the following.

1. Intense itching or pruritus in the genital and perianal areas is a typical sign of crabs infection. It usually aggravates during sleep and irritation is more in regions where pubic hair are present.

2. As with other ectoparasites, they injects saliva while biting and feeding on blood. Thus, itchiness and burning sensation in the pubic-hair region is felt due to the body’s reactions to crab saliva.

3. Noticeable wheals, excoriation, and papules are present on the bite sites. Also, the infected areas usually have open sores. Continuous scratching of the bite sites often lead to development of other infections.

4. A symptom typical of pubic lice bite is the presence of discolored sores (maculae ceruleae), which are bluish-gray or blue in color. In severe cases, crab infestation gives off a foul smell in the specific area.

In order to confirm pediculosis pubis, look for presence of flat, light-brown adult lice and eggs at the roots of pubic hair. Both adults and eggs (nits) are visible to naked eyes. Nits laid by the female pubic louse hatch within 6 – 8 days.Those who have multiple sexual partners are more prone to this parasitic infection than others.

Pediculosis pubis is a sexually transmitted infection, caused by ectoparasites called crabs (pubic lice). Constant itching that exacerbates at night is one of the reported pediculosis pubis symptoms. This ectoparasitic infection is treated by using medicated shampoos and creams which are usually recommended by physicians.

Pediculosis is the medical term for lice infestation, which may occur in different parts of the body. Lice are a group of wingless, obligate ectoparasites, classified under the taxonomic order Phthiraptera. While head is the most common site of lice attack, specific types of lice called crabs (pubic lice) infest the pubic region. This condition is called pediculosis pubis or phthiriasis pubis. The crabs are classified as insects that feed exclusively on blood and complete their life cycle in human hair. In addition to the head and pubic lice, body louse that attack several parts of the body is also identified.

How to Identify Pediculosis Pubis?

Pediculsis can affect all sexually active people, the rate of occurrence is highest amongst teenagers. Both males and females are equally susceptible to infection by these skin parasites. The worst part with pediculosis pubis is, crabs are transmittable from an infected person to another during sexual activity and via direct skin-to-skin contact. Sharing of towels, clothes, bedding, and other personal items with an infected person is a common mode of spreading crabs.

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Houseofglam7:
I go slap am,bite am,slap am again,bite am again until no spot remain for him body to bite!

missbronze:
I will slap him.
After that, i will kick him.
After that, i will punch him.

After that, i will go to church and give thanks to God for making me to pass that test.

newslife:
thanks

So don’t take any girls for granted,
if you love her,
let her know before she gives up!

joshbouy:
no doubt, it's just common among females.

Cutehector4u:
as in eh..the thing jus dey vex me,..

Cutehector4u:
Nobody is subjecting anybody to manual labour......... Its a choice,,.. For instance like me now..if i happen to b livin on my own in one room apartment and i happen to hav a girlfrnd...and she wants to come ova , i am not stopin her... Its her decision , not mine... If she wants to cook for two of us, i am not stoppin her, its her decision...if she wants to wash my clothes, dsame thing too, i am not stoppin her, its her decision... Afterall,i was takin good care of myself befor i met her.... Shey u grab... So i laff wen i see posts like this especially frm the ladies sayn dat guys should stop forcin dr girlfrnds to do chores for dem....its reaaly really hilarious... If dey dnt like it, den dey should stop it...nobody is forcind dem too.. I cnt force a girl to cook for me or wash my clothes or order her around wen i knw i hav t paid her bride price...no one does that..its only the stupid girlfrnds who want to play housewife dat do all these nonsense and still be complainin...

“When a politician’s words cannot be believed, then you are turning politics into another thing.

sweet2blv:
I still enjoy my peepz doing d cookin n washing of clothes for me. That's wot I mean by nt getin accomodation outside. No abuse pls