Amuatulu:
Local woman is confused

Dreew:

Your father.

Amuatulu:

ednut1:
i haven't been broke since 2006. Lol

olabrinks:
The reality is that social media has created a delusion for women to expect the perfect man. You want to marry a man in his 20s and 30s, he is not going to have it all, ask your happily married sisters. The same way you are not perfect, is the same way these men are not perfect. Its a partnership, although i'm not expecting any woman to marry a stark pauper with nothing to offer. But you marry more for companionship. Sometimes when we're young we get thrown away by all the male attention that comes our way, we believe the world is at our feet and we don't have to settle for anything less than perfect. but slowly and surely, the reality begins to set as we get older. Don't throw away good men when you're young just because they don't have it all, and the same goes for men. God will not make you to settle for just anything out of desperation. when you have options, take advantage of it. The agony that people face at an older age when they're unmarried and not settled, is nothing to joke about. You will not see it, but behind closed doors they are in pain. The joy that comes when you see your little children running around is irreplaceable.

Dreew:

OmoAlata1:

Lol

XhosaNostra:


The OP doesn't seem like your kind, whose main concern is to add another notch on the bedpost. In fact, he's way above you dimwits. He seems to be looking for something genuine, not an empty shell of a relationship founded on nothingness & manipulation. Don't try to convert him to your shallow lifestyle, but I trust he's smart enough to sift through the chaff.

edydamsel:
can you compare me that way? its nt all naija gals mind u. i have been nice and loving. i have everything a man need but i keep meeting guys that can make me commit suicide. very wicked sort of men. but one thing encourge me"not all naija guys are bad" like wise gals

Amakavula:
I don't deceive myself with Hollywood love trash. Respect and Value are the two most important things when a boy and girl come together.

Boy brings value : protection, money, Fame , height care and connection.

Girl bring Respect : fear of losing him, care , infatuation ( what you call love ) and mate guarding.

Even the oyibo you're dreaming of is looking for value : strength, sex prowess and "social point claims " ( i.e I am old but can still attract young men )

hungrynigerian:
First pic na when men still dey hustle!

Now I don fresh....check out na

Lefulefu if u get sense get in here!

Martinez39:
Staying ahead of female manipulation and parasitism is a vital characteristic all men must have for their own good. Fcdgrand is right on the money. Real alphas are not mumus that let men and women control them just like that.

ImaIma1:


Which one are you? Real or fake?

lilbest4:
Dangote, being the richest man in Africa could still be a simp. Have you ever wondered how silly anti-men bills get passed in the Western world? It's because majority of their Top politicians are Simps. Obama was a beta simp despite being the president of the U.S. Being rich or popular doesn't have anything to do with you being alpha all you need is just to be comfortable

lilbest4:
Dangote, being the richest man in Africa could still be a simp. Have you ever wondered how silly anti-men bills get passed in the Western world? It's because majority of their Top politicians are Simps. Obama was a beta simp despite being the president of the U.S. Being rich or popular doesn't have anything to do with you being alpha all you need is just to be comfortable

lordskid:


You fvked up, guy. No real man get time to do all dos "things" u listed above. Only an insecure fellow does that. Real men ain't "cyber-bullies", they are literally PHILOSOPHER KINGS Go figure

lordskid:


Are you suspect? Attack the "argument" not ME. I really don't understand you guys again ooo..... What's "feministic" abt d post? Abeg not every post is targeted @ u "alpha" wannabes na.

lordskid:


The irony

lordskid:
NL_NATION

Are You An Alpha Male or Just An Insecure Dude?

Alpha Male is a popular "buzzword" these days, however, let’s be clear that alpha behavior has little in common with [s] overly-macho, aggressive or insecure attitudes. [/s]

Fake Alphas' are Alpha male wannabes who are deeply insecure and try to hide it with bravado. They are usually loud and egotistical to the point of being annoying to others. They will bully others around them, typically, only if they feel they can get away with it.

They will often criticise and put down others to make them feel better about themselves, because they have no internal confidence.

Here are some signs you’re not really alpha, but just another insecure dude:

You Are Afraid To Be Vulnerable

What is vulnerability? The definition changes per person. It could be fear to show you’re not an expert at something. Or, fear of showing that you’re visibly upset about something. It doesn’t make you stoic, it makes you seem afraid of yourself. Not alpha.

You Think You’re Superior To Other Men, Or To Women

Belief that you’re superior to somebody else is the quickest way to demonstrate that you’re not superior to anything. If you don’t have a strong sense of equality , then the impression people will get of you is that you’re over-compensating.

This could manifest as putting “weaker” men down, or a belief that women are inferior to you.

You Bypass Social Queues To Pickup Women

Sure, it’s good to approach women and to express your sexual intent. But, some men take this to the next level. As soon as they see a woman they’re even slightly attracted to, they feel the need to push past everybody else and go harass her while she’s having a quiet dinner with her boyfriend at a restaurant. You’re not being alpha, you’re being annoying.

You Place Your Value As A Man On Working Out

It’s good to work out and look good. As a man, it’s something you need to do. But many men get obsessed with it. They spend half their lives in the gym. They start to develop a complex of self-hatred when they see other men more ripped than them. Seriously?

You can be skinny and high-value as much as you can be ripped and high-value. Stop looking at other men with bicep envy. It’s not cool.

Your First Instinct Is To Antagonize A Fight, Not Diffuse It

Absolutely no martial artist in existence teaches the value of provoking a fight before diffusing it. Fight when you need to. Fight when you’re cornered or you or someone you know is threatened.

But if it’s a pointless, ego-based conflict–like some dude tools you at a bar, then you are NOT being some type of macho dude because you throw a chair at him. You’ll get kicked out of the bar and look like an unstable jackass in the process.

You Talk About Yourself A Lot

What confident person can you think of who constantly drones on about himself? None. No one cares. Trying to make yourself seem important makes you seem unimportant.

In Summary

Get over yourself. “Trying” to be an alpha could be a highway to some very insecure behavior. You may have the best intentions for yourself in mind, but be careful of what your thoughts are actually manifesting as.

EIC

Martinez39:
It seems, just like the females who commented here, you don't really understand your write up and the concept of an alpha male. You all are in support of the write up because you all think it implies that alpha males are insecure, miserable and annoying men. Your write up simply calls for the attention of men to reevaluate themselves to know whether they are real alphas or fake alphas (insure dudes that fit the description of my earlier post and your op). THE WRITE UP DOESN'T IMPLY OR ARGUE THAT ALPHA MALES ARE WEAK, INSECURE AND INFERIOR DUDES AS YOU AND THE GIRLS ARE GOING ABOUT IT. Comprehension of simple English shouldn't be hard, should it? Fake alphas also call themselves alpha males hence a reevaluation of self, as given by your write up, is necessary. I don't think you understand what you posted as your op.

Since you think alike with the girls, as given by you posts, I wouldn't expect rationality but obstinate irrationality.

gaby:


Small world indeed...that friend that was killed was my friend too...Late Jude "wewe"

Yeah the same Famous. Lost touch with him too

MarjieJ98354:
what about this 80 yo How quickly has she expired? Btw which one looks older?