Health › Re: Akin Abayomi: Most People Who Contract Coronavirus Don't Feel Sick by Orelafintun: 4:37am On Apr 26, 2020 |
Lorazepam Pls don't reply this guy again. What you said in your text above should be enough for him if he is wise. |
Celebrities › Re: Moet Abebe Rocks Body Paint (Photos) by Orelafintun: 6:53pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: INEC Suspends The Announcement Of Results In Akpabio's Senatorial District by Orelafintun: 7:11am On Feb 25, 2019 |
socialmediaman: The way Nigerians are supporting institutional corruption is very alarming. Can we at least support our various political parties while condemning any form of corruption? l am also in surprise mode when reading people's comments. Nigerians, especially the youths, have not learnt. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Didn’t Order Nigerians To Be Shot Summarily – Tinubu by Orelafintun: 7:23pm On Feb 18, 2019 |
maclatunji: In any part of the world, you are liable to be shot when trying to run away with an electoral machine. Ask the police in America. you mean there is snatching of election materials in America. hmm. l hail thee |
Health › Re: Woman's Huge Fibroid Surgically Removed In Lagos. Graphic Photos by Orelafintun: 6:43pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
abiaumo: Daamm!! Doctors are real hero's oh!. Omo when I marry & born, Infact all my pikin dem go be doctors oh! these guys are quacks. they should be jailed to serve as deterence to others. they are operators and not surgeons. |
Health › Re: Woman's Huge Fibroid Surgically Removed In Lagos. Graphic Photos by Orelafintun: 6:34pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
the guys shouldn't be celebrated. they are criminals. this shows the levels of poor health system. quacks. l just pray the patient survives. |
Politics › Re: WAEC Disagrees With Presidency, Says Buhari Applied For Results by Orelafintun: 8:05am On Nov 04, 2018 |
Pls how much did he(mr.president) pay for the issuance of attestation of result so other Nigerians in need of same can save for such? or was it given freely to him? waec Pls provide answer. |
Family › Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by Orelafintun: 2:42am On Sep 14, 2018 |
IVF is an option if you still want to get more kids but 3kids should be OK for you o. don't blame yourself for not tell him because you got pregnant atfer the diagnosis meaning you were not in early menopause when it(pof) was diagnosed. maybe you have pof now but not before. |
Family › Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by Orelafintun: 2:38am On Sep 14, 2018 |
Kiishii: I don't even know how to start, I'm really sad and i know it is my fault, i'm sorry if it's a long read i need advise please bear with me.
When i was still single at age 29, I left a relationship that turned out be a mistake so it took time before i met someone else, at age 31 I noticed changes in my period (one month off, one month on) it has never happened to me before so i didnt take it to be anything, then it started skipping 2 months at a roll, then 3 months, i became worried cos i wasn't sexualy active at all. During this period i met my husband and we started something serious, to be on a safe side i went to see the doctor, he said i was fine that it's hormonal changes, he gave me some drugs (mostly vitamins) but it was still skipping, when my husband proposed, i went back to the doctor, he did series of tests, when results came out he said i'm having symptoms of POF, i was shocked, i cried and cried cos it's unheard of for someone my age, i told him i'm about to get married what can i do he said i should start taking hormonal injections since it's too early to be POF, i started taking it and praying all will be fine, all this while i didnt say a word of this to my husband to be or anyone else, then we got married, i took in immediately, it was the happiest day of my life, when we discovered it was triplets i cried tears of joy to the extent that my husband wondered why i was soo happy, i gave birth to 2 boys and a girl, i really thank God for his faithfulness cos i was soo nervous during the pregnancy.
My period was still skipping, then this year march it stopped completely, i went to see 2 different doctors to be sure, they confirmed i have POF (early menopause), i cried and still thank God cos he blessed me with the fruit of the womb but i couldnt bring myself to tell my husband, then he started noticing i dont buy sanitary pad anymore, he asked thinking i was pregnant i always tell him no, at a point he had to ask me if i want to make the pregnancy a surprise, that was when i knew it's time to tell him the truth, i knelt down and told him everything, i held nothing back, he was shocked that i could do something like that to him, he said i should have told him before we got married, i told him he wouldnt have married me if i told him, he was angry, he said what if the hormonal injections didnt work, it was an expensive and wicked gamble, i told him it worked that's what matters now, he abused me and walked out of the house, he didnt come home till the next day, since then things have never been the same.
He hardly talks to me except when necessary, we dont gist and joke anymore, i always beg and beg him, he says he's forgiven me but he goes back to his moody self, we hardly make love anymore, when he finally does, he doesnt look at my face, now he wants me to quit my job so i'll have my full attention on the kids, recently we had a fight about it and i told him point blank i cant quit my job the kids are fine he said i must do that, he doesnt want anything happening to them since i'm no more fertile, who says that? I cried my eyes out that night, It's not my fault nature took it's course on me, i never imagined something like this would ever happen to me.
Now he doesn't talk to me at all anymore, i'm about to tell both our families everything cos i've begged and begged him and i'm tired, i want anonymous advise that's why i'm here, please please married men and women or whoever, how do i go about this? hmm |
Family › Re: POF: My Marriage Is About To Be Ruined Becaus Of A Secret I Kept From My Husband by Orelafintun: 2:26am On Sep 14, 2018 |
Kiishii: I don't even know how to start, I'm really sad and i know it is my fault, i'm sorry if it's a long read i need advise please bear with me.
When i was still single at age 29, I left a relationship that turned out be a mistake so it took time before i met someone else, at age 31 I noticed changes in my period (one month off, one month on) it has never happened to me before so i didnt take it to be anything, then it started skipping 2 months at a roll, then 3 months, i became worried cos i wasn't sexualy active at all. During this period i met my husband and we started something serious, to be on a safe side i went to see the doctor, he said i was fine that it's hormonal changes, he gave me some drugs (mostly vitamins) but it was still skipping, when my husband proposed, i went back to the doctor, he did series of tests, when results came out he said i'm having symptoms of POF, i was shocked, i cried and cried cos it's unheard of for someone my age, i told him i'm about to get married what can i do he said i should start taking hormonal injections since it's too early to be POF, i started taking it and praying all will be fine, all this while i didnt say a word of this to my husband to be or anyone else, then we got married, i took in immediately, it was the happiest day of my life, when we discovered it was triplets i cried tears of joy to the extent that my husband wondered why i was soo happy, i gave birth to 2 boys and a girl, i really thank God for his faithfulness cos i was soo nervous during the pregnancy.
My period was still skipping, then this year march it stopped completely, i went to see 2 different doctors to be sure, they confirmed i have POF (early menopause), i cried and still thank God cos he blessed me with the fruit of the womb but i couldnt bring myself to tell my husband, then he started noticing i dont buy sanitary pad anymore, he asked thinking i was pregnant i always tell him no, at a point he had to ask me if i want to make the pregnancy a surprise, that was when i knew it's time to tell him the truth, i knelt down and told him everything, i held nothing back, he was shocked that i could do something like that to him, he said i should have told him before we got married, i told him he wouldnt have married me if i told him, he was angry, he said what if the hormonal injections didnt work, it was an expensive and wicked gamble, i told him it worked that's what matters now, he abused me and walked out of the house, he didnt come home till the next day, since then things have never been the same.
He hardly talks to me except when necessary, we dont gist and joke anymore, i always beg and beg him, he says he's forgiven me but he goes back to his moody self, we hardly make love anymore, when he finally does, he doesnt look at my face, now he wants me to quit my job so i'll have my full attention on the kids, recently we had a fight about it and i told him point blank i cant quit my job the kids are fine he said i must do that, he doesnt want anything happening to them since i'm no more fertile, who says that? I cried my eyes out that night, It's not my fault nature took it's course on me, i never imagined something like this would ever happen to me.
Now he doesn't talk to me at all anymore, i'm about to tell both our families everything cos i've begged and begged him and i'm tired, i want anonymous advise that's why i'm here, please please married men and women or whoever, how do i go about this? |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Meets Buhari Over Ambode’s Reelection Controversy by Orelafintun: 5:54pm On Sep 12, 2018 |
Abdulnur: The person above me why n
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What'll you get after Crossing a Bat with a Rat? Brat specie |
Politics › Re: EXCLUSIVE: Moghalu Kingsley Secretly Working For Buhari, Promised Kemi Adeosun J by Orelafintun: 7:06pm On Aug 28, 2018 |
this is serious o. lifeless, lifelessness and the likes are now commonly used in Nigeria , gradually replacing saraki, Dogara and defection. there's God o. |