Politics › Re: Buhari & Emefiele Chat With Tinubu On Eve Of Swearing-In (Throwback Photo) by Orelafintun: 10:13am On Sep 08, 2023 |
Your Excellency, this is the man you should hold responsible. |
Properties › Re: N500K Electricity Bill Debt On Newly Purchased House. by Orelafintun: 6:00pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
BabaOfLagos: This is most likely one of the reasons the owner of the house sold the house.
You traded with a con man.
You should only be sorted out in their office.
Or,
First, have an electrician remove your wires directly from the pole and properly kept under your protection, this should be out of site
This would save you any drama from the power holding company,
If the street is incorrectly numbered, if possible, have the house number changed. Then, give the power holding company a call to have them register you as a new resident with the new house number associated with your name.
Or go for alternative power supply.
This is one of the many reasons we recommend men to join IAJ ONLINE.
Due diligence!
Should never be underated.
Search and join IAJ ONLINE on Telegram or Twitter.
Join IAJ and build Your masculine intelligence alongside other men who are ready to better themselves everyday. You are a funny person. Distribution companies are also getting smarter by days because Nigeria and Nigerians are teaching them shege. All houses are now mapped. Even if you erase your house number the company will get/retrieve it for you. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: India Beats Russia, US To Become First Country To Land On The Moon's Lunar Pole by Orelafintun: 5:40pm On Aug 23, 2023 |
1Alex: It's a lie. Nigeria is the first country to land on Moon, sun, jupiter and venus. It is well with Nigeria. One day Nigeria will be in her place of pride. |
Education › Re: Abia State University: Statement of Results cease to be valid from 1st Dec, 2023 by Orelafintun: 10:43pm On Aug 22, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Nigerian Woman Reconciled With Her Husband On His Sick Bed The Same Day He Died by Orelafintun: 3:45pm On Aug 20, 2023 |
This life is a book with many pages to read and learn from. God dey |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija All Stars: "Doctors Said I May Never Have Children" – Uriel by Orelafintun: 5:07am On Aug 19, 2023 |
Kingosytex: I don't know why this show disgusts me. I think it promotes and rewards mediocrity. I'm still yet to understand why these guys are celebrated and rewarded with mega contracts. Musicians do music, actors/actresses act. Wetin be the work of these guys? Entertaining the gods |
Politics › Re: Isese Day: Oyo Govt Declares Monday Public Holiday by Orelafintun: 6:57pm On Aug 18, 2023 |
Good development but our journalists are not doing good job. What is August 20, 2023 of every year? instead of August 20 of every year. GSM has started it, others should follow since tradition religion is a recognized one. My advice though, the religion should be refined, regulated and harmful practices expunged. |
Politics › Re: 15 LASTMA Officials Wounded In Clash With Soldiers: LASTMA Vacates Duty Posts by Orelafintun: 8:52pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
If it is true that the soldier was attacked first then the LASMA boys don buy job. It is unheard of. You can not and should not treat civilians that way not to even talk of a military guy that was even humble enough to be begging. Let the military issue strong warning to the LASMA and Lagos State government to forestall future recurrence. |
Politics › Re: 15 LASTMA Officials Wounded In Clash With Soldiers: LASTMA Vacates Duty Posts by Orelafintun: 8:42pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
sultanofpigs: Go and check the names of majority of LASTMA officials.
TAJUDEEN MUFUTAU MUKAILA WASIU MORUFU AHMED
these are Yoruba Muslims, who are not Lagosians, but from OYO..OSUN;;KWARA etc.
They all claim that lagos is their right because of the mizcreant in ASO ROCK. They are the chanters of mandate and are the same people that flood APC rallies with useless Aso-ebi.
The are always ranting and looking for Southerners to Molest. Since Tinubu was wrongly inaugurated they shifted their foolishness to everybody, based on their useless belief, that they have arrived.
Most LASTma officials are Agberos..that were given Uniforms.
The army should continue the onslaught, so that these touts will let people breathe..
Useles things..spits
What are you trying to say? Are NURTW or MCO Boys? |
Politics › Re: Shell Petroleum Workers Protest Over Hardship In Nigeria (Pics) by Orelafintun: 8:29pm On Aug 15, 2023 |
BoldBrainz: If they don't want to work, they should resign. We can replace them for half the remunerations they're currently being paid.😁. I laugh in Swahili. Just collect half the salary for 3 months you will understand the request the current workers are making. It is well with naija |
Family › Re: My Brother In-law Is Making Advances At Me by Orelafintun: 10:04pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
Nataliace: The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.
He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.
Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.
He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.
I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.
My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.
I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.
How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?
This is sincerely becoming unbearable. What if your husband is on this platform? I will advise you tell your husband that you are not comfortable staying with male relatives either siblings, cousins or uncles. Do not tell him the details. However, if the brother continues his seductive moves you can tell the husband. |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Shares Cute Throwback Photo Of Himself As A Boy With A Big Smile On His F by Orelafintun: 8:05pm On Aug 08, 2023 |
Nice boy and still nice. Keep it up bro I am not his fan but l just like the guy and his Kindness to fellow humans. He should just work on his third leg and stay keep to Chioma. My candid advice |
Romance › Re: Can You Remember Your First Love? by Orelafintun: 4:32pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
TotoGame: During my primary school, there's this beautiful girl named Mary-Cynthia, I liked her so dearly (na now I dey reason na love I love that girl then) we were so close to the extent I do finger her whenever we are alone at the toilet, mostly during break period as she seems to enjoy the stuff. this continued till a teacher caught us one unfortunate afternoon😢, the rest is history
Heard she's married now Same story. Lol |
Family › Re: I Can't Forgive My Late Mummy And My Daddy by Orelafintun: 4:24pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
Samantha124: But you should be angry with your aunt, she's the one who forcefully took the two of you away from your mother for no reason and you don't know the reasons why your mother never bothered to visit you guys... What if your aunt threatened her?
And what do you mean your sister got pregnant as a result of frustrations? Are you saying your sister decided to add more frustrations into her life by getting pregnant just because she was frustrated with your parents? Exactly my thoughts. It takes determination to be successful in life. Your story is similar to many others. Thank God you are a graduate now. I will refer perei to read a novel written by the late Niyi Oniororo, titled "persevere dear brother". |
Health › Re: Striking Resident Doctors Commence Daily Nationwide Protests From Wednesday by Orelafintun: 4:13pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
Chienex24: While the health sector is a sensitive and critical one and shouldn't be going for incessant strikes, Nigerian doctors are actually one of the most overworked and underpaid doctors in the world. Go to Federal medical centers and see for yourself the doctor to patient ratio.
People ranting that Nigerian doctors have entitlement mentality are grossly uninformed, if only you can understand how costly and capital intensive it is to maintain just a life that has serious illness, requiring not just the skills of the physician, but adequate facilities at every point in time because delay in just one is enough to lead to loss of lives. Just leave these people. They are not familiar with the ways things work. The best people to understand the running of a profession are the insiders. No civilian will understand military operations until you join them. Government should do normal for all deserving professionals. Fixing economic issues will go along way to address most of the agitations in critical sectors in Nigeria. It is well |
Romance › Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by Orelafintun: 2:05pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
BJanta: Orişa ję kinpe meji obinrin ko si. Old adage, women don't mind staying in polygamous home nowadays. |
Romance › Re: Are Nigerian Women Really Against Polygamy? by Orelafintun: 2:02pm On Aug 06, 2023 |
BJanta: Orişa ję kinpe meji obinrin ko si. This is true only when money is not involved. Women are now happy with polygamy if the man is wealthy and a spender. In fact, there is now polygamy in courtship. 😂😆😁 |
Politics › Re: Full List Of 47 Ministerial Nominees And States Of Origin by Orelafintun: 7:43am On Aug 06, 2023 |
LeoDeKing: A name is missing. The 48th. Yes, Festus keyamo name is missing. |
Family › Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by Orelafintun: 3:34pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Why not? You can use your first name as your son's surname. |
Politics › Re: Who Is Emefiele Waving At? - Pictured by Orelafintun: 9:30pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
Nobody is prosecuting Emiefele because he comes from a minority tribe. The man bleeped up big time. He soiled his hands and feet. He wanted a policy when he has dirty games up his sleeves. He who comes to equity comes with cleans hands. |
Politics › Re: Senate President Akpabio Wears Tinubu Logo Cap To Plenary, Sparks Reaction (Pix) by Orelafintun: 9:23pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
seunmsg: Instead of crying, go and get your own. I have mine already. That’s going to be the logo for the next 4 years. Get used to it and stop crying like bush babies all over social media. I guessed this guy is........... |
Education › Re: Mmesoma Ejikeme Apologises To JAMB by Orelafintun: 5:45pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Forging or no forging, mmesoma is still popular in Nigeria and a new grammar has been added, " Pls no one should MMESOMARIZE with JAMB again. " |
Crime › Re: Abuja To Delta: I Didn’t Steal Car, Only Test-Driving – Suspect by Orelafintun: 12:10pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
See confidence. I wonder how people mmesomalize nowadays despite.......... Test driving to Delta from Abuja. Go rot in jail mmesoma's mentor. |
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: What Is The Best Caption For This Picture by Orelafintun: 11:46pm On Jul 16, 2023 |
God l bless you name for this meal |
Family › Re: How To Cope When Your Spouse Doesn't Listen: Seeking Advice by Orelafintun: 3:59pm On Jul 09, 2023 |
[quote author=Orelafintun post=124315095][/quote]Things are happening. I thought you are me because your story is similar to what is happening to me. Only difference is that she is helping me with my(our) business very well. God will continue to help men. Women are becoming disrespectful nowadays. |
Family › Re: How To Cope When Your Spouse Doesn't Listen: Seeking Advice by Orelafintun: 3:55pm On Jul 09, 2023 |
naice: I find myself facing a difficult situation in my marriage and would greatly appreciate your insights and advice. The issue at hand revolves around my wife's unwillingness to listen to me. I'm at a loss as to why she behaves this way, and it's starting to take a toll on our relationship.
To provide some context, my wife has a strong-headed personality, which often leads to conflicts between us. No matter how gently I communicate my concerns or requests, she seems to disregard them and even does the opposite. This behavior frustrates me and leaves me questioning our compatibility.
One possible explanation I've considered is her background as an orphan. She lost her parents at a young age and had to take on the responsibility of caring for herself and her siblings. While I understand the challenges she faced, it seems like her self-reliance has translated into a resistance to accepting input or guidance from others, including me.
At this point, I have contemplated divorce, but there's a significant factor holding me back: our children. I love them deeply and cannot bear the thought of being separated from them. As much as her strong-headedness affects me, I firmly believe that domestic violence is never an option.
I'm reaching out to this community for reasonable opinions and advice on how to navigate this situation. Have any of you experienced a similar dynamic in your relationships? How did you cope with a spouse who doesn't listen? Are there effective strategies to foster better communication and understanding in such circumstances?
Thank you in advance for your support and guidance. Your insights will be invaluable in helping me make an informed decision about the future of my marriage." |
Politics › Re: Let 2023 Be The Last Time Igbos Will Interfere In Lagos Politics - Onanuga by Orelafintun: 9:47am On Mar 19, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Orelafintun: 11:18pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kingdollar is mature in his comment. Like your style. 👌 |
Family › Re: Is This Not Enough Reason To Divorce Him? by Orelafintun: 11:13pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
The above person, named kingdollar is mature In his comment. I like your style. Well done |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Born Music Manager, Emmanuel Odunlami Stabbed To Death In The UK by Orelafintun: 1:45pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
UK is stabbing US is shooting....
if i manage japa go these places, woe betide anyone that attempts to shoot or stab me. Wo! I cannot escape hell and coman die like chicken because of ordinary fake wrist watch Note: Nigeria is strangulating. 😁 |
Pets › Re: US Police Shoot 18ft Pet Snake As It Strangled Its Owner To Death (Pics) by Orelafintun: 5:06am On Aug 28, 2022 |
iLegendd: I like when dangerous animals kill their stupid owners. What are they always feeling like when they keep these serpents as pets?
Some animal activists are going to sue the cops for shooting the serpent. Owner called senseman that has no sense and Elliot that appeared to be idiot. What a name, Elliot Senseman. Anyway, RIP |
Family › Re: Could My Wife Be Cheating With My Friend? by Orelafintun: 9:02pm On Aug 13, 2022 |
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