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RemedyLab:
Make up your mind to stop using it and seek professional advice.

How do I go about it? It is not easy for me. I have tried but to no avail. Is like devil wants to use this drug to derail my future, but he has failed. I shall overcome, in Jesus Name, Amen.

opomulero101:
To say the truth,u are an addict,it won't be easy quitting due to withdrawal symptoms.
Better consult a doctor

Withdrawal, symptoms? Chai, is like I have killed myself. God, pls help me. Bro. I don't do drugs, how I ended up in this is still strange to me considering my set out standards.

Good day my people.

I have a kinda problem. I'm a martial artistist(Tai chi), am also good in acrobatic displays(gymnastics), and I will be 26 years old in few months time.

A friend of mine introduced me to a drug called Tramadol, that was last August to be precise. He said that as a government certified fighter and fitness trainer, that it gonna help me to perform above an average martial artist. Moreover, he convinced me that whenever I want to have sex, that I should always swallow at least 200mg of the pills, that it makes one to last longer in bed.

I couldn't believe the euphoria that engulfed me. I was intrigued by the new information. I was eager to try it out for myself.

Because necessity is the mother of all inventions and modifications, I delved into its use. First, it was one morning, as I was about going for my fitness rehearsals and coaching of new guys. I took two capsules, each 100mg, ie, 200mg, When I got to our martial art center, at the middle of the training - because I was the person incharge of coaching new registered guys that morning. I started feeling strange. My stomach started turning, feeling of nausea. I was sweating, not only that, dizziness enveloped my eyes. I stop the coaching that morning, took permission so that another colleague could take charge and rushed back home.

When I got home, I was feeling too hungry, later in the day was headache and sleepy. Above all, I felt excitement, and joy, after. The next day, I continued. I took again, and that was how my body system got used to it. I even graduated to 400mg plus. I use to mix it in beverages.

The problem now is that each passing day from August last year till this day: today, 24th January, I can't do without the consumption of at least 400mg to 500mg of this drug(tramadol).

Apart from, martial artistry, I'm also a webmaster. I own two affiliate marketing websites. Due to this drug, I feel that I now lack concentration and focus, because I now skip my time table for doing things. I'm fidgety now and I don't know how to leave this drug. It is taking toll on me. I would be on my system trying to update all the products that companies am affiliated to have emailed to me, and next that would happen to me is dozing off( sleeping off).

Pls, my guys, you ppl should help me out. I don't want to do this drug again.

please. Any advice on how to quit this is welcome. For I fear for my health, and business.

Thank you.

ibietela2:
Doe she call you? Or chat with you?

communication and trust are very important

yes we communicate most often.

[quote author=FrancisDozie post=64225473][/quote]She stays off campus. She is in Mathematics department. It appears absurd, should I paste her name and reg. no here.

mapist:
Excellent; make sure you face your endeavour and STRIVE to be good at it. When money is made through legit means, you will have rest of mind and a wonderful lady will come your way. You need not distract yourself with thoughts about a 20 year old who doesnt know her left from her right.

Lastly, may God bless us all.

Thank you bro. for this wonderful advice. I appreciate you.

mapist:
Regardless, it is still BASELESS. Sleepless night for a 20 year old while you are 26 and still not independent. I just tire for these things i read here.

Bro. I'm independent. I pay my bills now without involving my parents, and they a proud of me for turning down job offers - immediately after my NYSC 3 years ago - in other to float my online business; because, I had a vision which I worked towards it, and now it is paying off.

I own 2 affiliate marketing sites, and few off-line business, so brother, I'm not dependent on anybody for survival.

Olami90:
am surprised you consider quitting the relationship because of those points you mentioned. They are normal phase most ladies go through and the way she handles it will tell the kind of lady she is.
You confirmed it that the conversations she had weren't romantic, she even put them on speaker for you.

Guy, relax! She is trying her best to be loyal to you and you need to appreciate that.
Do not generalise by thinking all female undergraduates are same and lose the babe.


Don't be insecure as you can misbehave to her for scenes that will only be playing in your head and do not let her see the insecurity in you but try to give her reasons she will consider you being the best for her.

You should be prepared to see more of that even when she is done from school.

Give her chance but be open and prepare for whatever comes because life itself is full of uncertainties.

Be mature about it, don't allow fear ruin your relationship.

Also ensure you work smart and let your pocket be whispering.

Thank you very much, brother. Is just that I'm very emotional. I wouldn't want to be served heart break. I must be sincere, I feel very insecure in my relationship.

jonaifame22:
she will eventually leave you, the university system has a way of resetting the brain of it's female undergraduates

I already made up my mind to ditch her before any heartbreak from her.

fabby101:
My advise is for u to behave maturely, give her a reason to stick with u, be urself. Girls like guys that are matured, independent and confident.

If u break up, what will be the cause? Insecurity? Na!!

Bro, you don't understand. I feel too insecure in that relationship as of this moment. I don't know how to deal with this again. I always think about her doing something hurting to me.

Softorgasm:
Op don't feel insecure, she already assured you of her loyalty already..

I wonder how jay z will feel anytime Beyonce is going on a tour without him or how pique will feel anytime shakira is going on a tour without him..

Truth is that trust is the basics of every relationship..

But as a fellow guy to another, i will advice you to prepare your heart for the worst..

love her still, but prepare your heart for breakup and cheating, so that you won't be surprise when it finally happens..

thank you bro. In fact, since she set her legs into that school, I haven't been myself. I always think that something is going on somewhere with her at the centre of that thing going on.

HEY GUYS!!!

This is my first account ever, and my first post on Nairaland as well.

I and my girlfriend have been dating for 3yrs now, she will be 20 by November, this yr, while I will be 26 by March this year.

After her secondary school 3 yrs ago, her parents enrolled her in one IT company(school) were she studied cyberspace security system manipulations - she has expertise on anything cybrary - and some programming languages: java, php, html , etc.
She spent 2 yrs studying in that foreign IT institution.

The real gist now is that she recently gained an admission into UNN to study Pure Mathematics. The school had its quarter semester of the session's first semester last year(Nov to Dec before Christmas break).

My worries are as follows below:

* she is so beautiful, radiant, elegant, and brainy.
* her graduate-assistant lectures already know her and are constantly calling her on phone.
* some random guys do call her always.

From the above points I highlighted, one can easily understand that she is already a kinda centre of attraction. I was in her company during this Christmas, when one guy called her and from there conversation, I sensed he was a lecturer. After the call I asked her the identity of the caller - so as to confirm what my instincts was telling me - and she said he was her lecturer. I inquired why they call her always, and she told me that she is for me and will always be for me, that nobody gonna take her away from me, that they are toasters.

Furthermore, she disclosed to me that the lecturers always ask her for her contact number, which she gives them in other not to appear disrespectful to them thereby incuring their wrath. I asked her about the other guys that are in the habit of calling her, and she said the were coursemates on GST courses, that most of them are course reps of different departments.

She confided in me that they all want to date her but she tells them that she has a guy in her life, but they always insist that they be her friends with no stringe attached. She concluded by informing me that most of the guys said that they were jealous of that her guy, ie, that's...jaelous of me.

Despite her explanations, I'm still not convinced. Although, the conversations ain't romantic, and she puts the call on out side speaker so I could hear their conversations and not feel anything bad.

Please, she has traveled back to school now(at Nsukka). Should I continue with the relationship or call it a quit, for I'm too emotional in terms of love? Should I keep believing her words?

I don't want to develop HBP at this my young age because of a girl. I need apt and concise advice now.

Thank you all