my first car
not the particular one though
mine was junkier
no AC sef.
manual windows
radio and casettte player only
I suffered

morenike drives a honda?
when I was her age I drove a ford festiva.
yeye car with no shock absorbers
all the gallops hit me straight on my bakassi
It's a miracle the 18 wheelers didn't blow me off the freeways

OMG.
The thread don reach 14 pages

oyb:

that is my point - if you know you cannot treat them equally, then don't engage in polygamy.

And nobody can
Nobody has been able to
So that clause is useless

*osisi*:

polygamy should be outlawed
The picture I get in my head is a sweaty old man in wrapper running from room to room

or running from hut to hut

polygamy should be outlawed
The picture I get in my head is a sweaty old man in wrapper running from room to room

onyinye2:

Even though we laughing and stuff, there is still one thing I want to know.

Why is it that the man can marry multiple wives and nobody is calling him a LovePeddler, or a slut. Or anything proclaimed to women who have sex with just one guy??

And like if a woman were to have multiple husbands, most will run her ass out of town. Saying she is a hoe and such.

Just doesn't make sense to me.

Governor Isa Yuguda or whatever he's called is a LovePeddler!
A man LovePeddler

LadyT:

You guys will kill me I can't stop laughing!

She was probably bethrothed to him while she was in the womb.

Maybe shes a bussiness deal?

Thank God she has no clue and is probably happy she has been given to such a wealthy pot bellied Grandad

Bethroted ke
Is Yaradua that stupid?
Look at him and his own wife  and he marries off his lovely daughter to a 50 year old as a 4th wife
sounds more like bewitched to me

chika98:

Osisi: WHy the whole thing dey vex you like this??

vex me?
which one "cosine" me?
isn't she the one that'll be trying to wake up a dead rat in the middle of the night

4 Play:

You sure say no be jealousy dey worry these women?   Many of them are salivating at the thought of being the 4th wife of a Governor but won't admit it.

Life is so unfair

spoilt:

All the wives hardly get any sex. They just cat fight all day and get no release. Baba has hardly no fire left.

Yeah
they're casing university female hostels and street corners
she's not even yellow enough for them mallams.
they'll still find some Ngozika  to fulfill the white woman fantasy

since she's the new wife
she gets the first 3 months after marriage non stop
she'll be lucky if the other wives don't arrange for someone to kidnap her.

doyin13:

But the man is sick oo.

I bet he has been a friend of the family a while.

Probably even knew the girl when she was ten eleven years old.

I am sure he would arrive at the Yaradua household and the girl would
innocently hug him like an Uncle.

The rabid bastards prick would be in hyper drive.

Then he will say ''Oya, small Hajiya, let me hide you in my Agbada, y'owa, I have
brown chocolate stick for you in there kawai''.

ROFL!!

oyb:

guess thats the advantage  of bill clintonds bjs

actually jackie kennedy had the same problem - she kept on finding strange underwear

i came across that in roots. apparently, after the massa executed his rounds in the slave quarters, it was straight back to the big house.

let's see if i remeber the exact line from the mind of Kizzy Lea " how must she feel when her husband came to bed smelling of another woman?" _{e don they since i read the book sha}

clinton did not see or hear her husband climax
Imagine a woman listening to her husband next door and the bed hitting the wall  in rhythmic fashion.
chei!
torture

StephenP:

Don't take this the wrong way but do you also advocate for gay rights?

or even bestiality sef
afterall if the goat feels good afterwards and no one is harmed,what's the problem?

oyb:


whey the money? i haven't even begun setting up a proper foundation for my one child, na soso gragra between me and madam over money  - and i will enter into fresh wahala?  .

no - am just playing devil's advocate - and pointing out that not everyone wants a life of stress. the missus and i are roughly the same age; she could have decided she preferred one of the older and much more settled toasters she had back then.(forget it -, madam has tried  ) at the very least , they would not be arguing with her about how it would have been better to buy a 40 inch lcd, (her) rather than a 32 inch lcd(me) - since there would be much more money

thats what its about. some women decide that they do not want stress. in some ways, the second wives are smarter, because they are marrying the guy when he alraedy has the money. and believe it, i have seen it most of them are not the docile playthings you take them for. they will wrap the man around that bermuda triangle. . .

most of the second or third wives are often the official wives . they are more beautiful, more'presentable' blow correct grammer, and serve to hide the big man's humble origins. thats why they live with him in the mansion while 1st wife languishes in a storey building . they have used their bermuda triangle to get what they want

You don't need money.
all you need is your good looks and smooth talk.
remeber that I've seen ya picture
just wait till 10 or 15 years and target one small fresh 19 year old

davidylan:

Marriages in the north is not about sex . . . but money, power and priviledge.
Daughter of the president married to a sitting governor . . . she's made for life and she's never had to lift a finger to work since she was born! chei . . . Yar Adua.

why dey born me for south?
see me doing boi boi in America?

davidylan:

i don't think so, its part of the culture and many of these girls actually[b] prefer to marry a rich alhaji as 2nd wife than a younger bachelor.[/b]

Imagine!
poor 21 year old girl will be sleeping alone at leat 3 nights a week.
I wonder what it feels like to be sleeping on your bed and hearing moans from your fellow woman and your so called husband from across the hall.
anbd maybe he'll come to your bed all sweaty ,stinking and smiling?
ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LadyT:

Get real don't you think they will have pillow talk?

You think Clintons wife was just a silent Barbie doll?

Ofcourse they play a MAJOR part!

do you mind that outcastbabe of a poster.
does she have any idea what first ladies accomplish in the states?
beyond pillow talk they run programs that benefit millions even long after they've left office

LadyT:

Is he that rich?

Surely since shes not allowed to marry for love they could of matched her with someone a hell of a lot younger and with less baggage!

I can see her having multiple affairs!

with the stewards and drivers
not only affairs
she'd better not double cross that Yoruba wife Abiodun or she'll get several hot slaps on her pretty face.
A woman who married Yaradua when Turai was pushing her out at Bauchi maternity
what nonsense!

stillwater:

Five stars!!!!

thank you my sister
see small beautiful girl wasted!
by the time she gets to my age,he may not even remember her name

oyb:

eeeewwww grossss  

you also need to ask, what is she taking from the governor? this is two fold - women are all about security (like that stupid bianca onoh - a beauty queen who could have been anything she wanted to be)

it has been said - para quote - men who see women as helpless playthings deserve women who see men as inexhaustible expense accounts.

its life,  get over it.women using what they have( in this case , beauty) to get wht they want.

I know it sounds gross but that's the naked truth
she's not an inventor
she has no expertise in anything that'll help Bauchi
She's not gifted with the gift of prophecy
he's not looking for a woman to bear him an heir
so the only possible thing she's bringing to the table is her "bermuda triangle"
It's as simple as that.
let's call a spade ,a spade

Well if you decide to throw "knock out" at your neighbours yard for months and refuse to head his warnings and he retaliates by throwing a grenade in yours,don't come crying like a baby.
This is not the first time and they will not learn.
I support Israel wholeheartedly.
They should teach them a good lesson never to wake a sleeping giant.
Next time they'll keep their puny rockets to themselves

OutlukBabe:

ok, what is marriage all about apart from procreation and some sense of security. is it not about toto business. What about all these people in our beloved foreing countries that even indulge in orgies. They call it sexuall freedom. And so what polygammy? is it not sexual freedom in a responsible way.

I bet if I was in d north I will arrange a wife for my husband, so that anytime we have the urge of doing it 3 ways no need for looking outside

you are not in the north and you're already doing it so what's your point?
are extra wives only resident in the north?

oyb:



man - even in the darkest hours of monicagate, when the leader of the freeworld engaged in what you would have called sexual harrassment/molestation/rape , i doubt if people (outside of scheming republiucans) got as worked up over that as you are getting over this

abegi, the girl made her choice. no one forced her into it. and that does not mean she was badly raised. not everyone can live by 'western' values

in the end, its a variant of what so many of you did to us back in school, dating 500level boys over small boy jambitos, dumping 'chewing ggum boyfriends' for salaried 'big boys'

I am female,that's why I'm concerned.
This mindset of seeing young women only for what's in between their legs has to end.
Statistics tell us that there are more males in Nigeria than females.
Tell me one single reason and justification for a grown 50 something year old man with 3 healthy wives to go for a 21 year old if not lust and inability to control his sexual desires.
Let's be honest
Is there anything she's bringing to the governor's mansion besides her private part?

*Hauwa*:

terrible! i hate polygamy and always will. as handsome as he is, i thot only ugly men marry many wives. i pity all the women. sharing only one Abuna. eyah. i can't o not in this life will i share an abuna. i wonder how it will go round. 1 abuna for 4 honey pots ewwwwwww. i call it USED abuna.

no be from Gombe you from come?
They'll soon dash you away to Alhaji Dan Iska as his 4th wife

if my memory serves me right, the late ekene dili chukwu also had more than one wife - you can be sure the new wire was not - as you would call it 'fairly used' . people do not marry second or third wife if the woman is not 'tear rubber'

i also pointed out to you that idiagbon's daughter also chose to be some one's third wife.

Then Ekene dili Chukwu,Idiagbon and his daughter are just as stupid as the Bauchi governor and the parents of this 4th wife.

OutlukBabe:

If u going to do ur shit do it, don't do it because of what u think foreigners will think of you. It seems ur are suffering from inferiority complex. The foreigners or whatever u call them also marry younger kids. What do u think of all these movie stars, particularly the female celebrities marrying guys 15yrs or more younger than them.

Although I agree with u concerning the costs. They will just milk the states and its people

Revelation of the century
Too bad we don't live in a cocoon where our actions affect no one else.

This is not just about a man marrying a young girl,it's about the highest authority in a state parading 3 and now 4 wives to the impoverishment of his already backward state.
It's about a man not being contented with a woman he fell in love with and choosing to have multiple affairs in the guise of marriage
It is wrong,wrong,wrong!
shame on Yaradua and his wife for not raising a girl with a good head on her shoulders.
what a waste of a girl child

oyb:

what did we think of the US when we heard of bill's escapades with monica? or edwards? or spitzer?did it matter in the end?

yes  as i thought its 'something else' thats on osisi's mind - not polygamy, not randy old menbut wait for it. . .

Men will always have flings.It's not right but it happens
It's in their pants nature

and marrying 10 wives is no cure to promiscuity
It's actually an evidence of it
A state governor or president parading around with 4 women he calls wives ain't proper

oyb:

osisi, you call the man a 'pervert' for marrying a small girl, but in bianca;'s case, its love between the two of them

these are some of your previous posts on this topic:

poor girl.
who knows all the gymnastics she'll have to do to "get him up"
a used up 50 something year o[/b]ld man marrying a girl born in 1987.
This is almost annoying and I don't even know them.


she must have called him uncle at some point
can you imagine
[b]not knowing that "uncle" wanted her on his bed

so please make uup your mind, is this thread about dirty old men, or about polygamy? or is it something else?

I see something wrong with a man marrying a girl his daughters age and worse still if she's his 2nd,3rd,4th or 5th wife.
This Randy Governor fits both profiles

davidylan:

sure. they were junior wives. Its commonplace in the north.

I've heard Olabowole use that term,ius he also from the north?

OutlukBabe:

Hey, wait aint u from Nigeria? Do u think all the young girls are virtous? don't u know what is happening in our universities? Young girls have turned themselves into prostitutes. Even secondary schools girls they open their kitten for oldies. At least this is a controlled, with parental consent. wetin u dey talk, as if say u no dey for Nija

it is common I believe in the north to have upto 3 wives, it is acceptable in their culture.

Do you know what foreigners think of us when they read stories such as this.
A whole state Governor and  even presidents parading around with multiple wives.
The stupid governor attends functions with his wives sometimes 2 wives since they are constantly fighting for recognition.
Now he'll be parading with 4
makes me ashamed to be from the same country with these folks
Each one has her own "first lady" project,first lady staff,first lady budget etc.
Do you know how much this costs the state and Nigeria in general