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yembe2013: Lorddom, me sef I no understand you oh, you say ya phone number na 71126725 and your CN na 2013af00051***, then later on you say you dey US. Please can you clarify me. No offense

lorddom: For cameroonians.my kid brother just traveled to US last year.he was a dv winner 2012 so i have the prices of or dv requirement.it goes thus:medicals>105000frs embassy fee abt 184000frs>police report nt quite sure but not up to 11000frs and finaly flight nt sure bc it was paid from US bt wil be 800000frs and above depending on airport wether simalen yauonde or douala airport.

Gentiger: I thought Osram Bin Laden abi na Osama the terrorist, rapist, criminal and armed robber was executed by Obama 2nd May 2011. Could he be speaking from the grave?

mystikc77: @ladyinwaiting...I'd just like to know how you made out with this man, as I am now in the same situation. My mind tell me run my heart tell me stay

Gentiger: I can hear bingo and his puppy looking4all, oh sorry, looking4 trouble. Who can be more confused than one who almost got himself deported for expired medical credentials? Always ask questions if you don't understand rather than bark like a hungry dog. Bingo!!!

Gentiger: I can hear bingo and his puppy looking4all, oh sorry, looking4 trouble. Who can be more confused than one who almost got himself deported for expired medical credentials? Always ask questions if you don't understand rather than bark like a hungry dog. Bingo!!!

pellegrini2012: Well, the day has been kinda boring, so i thought i should publish this article on boyfriends waiting for sex. The girl usually has to take the decision on when she would allow sex in the relationship. Guys are more than willing to have sex on the first date itself, so it’s up to the girl to make up her mind on when to go for it. It’s important that the decision is whole hearted and that you don’t give in to any pressure from the guy.
Some girls end up having sex with their guy just because she feels she should not “hurt” him. That’s a wrong notion because most guys are quite “okay” if the girl does not want to have sex, they just feel a little frustrated but that’s not really a bad thing. The guy is going to respect you when he realizes that you are a “no nonsense” girl when it comes to drawing a line on when the relationship can get intimate.
A relationship needs to be balanced and “resentment” free. If you feel that you have to give in to your boyfriend’s demands or pressure that would indicate that you are creating an “imbalance” in the relationship because you are being submissive, and that can get very unhealthy for you in the long run. If your boyfriend is acting too needy and petulant about having sex, it would indicate that there is a hollowness to the relationship you share with him – after all sex is but a small aspect of close relationship.
Tips To Consider
So what if your boyfriend is insisting on having sex, how do you convince him to wait? Here are few tips:
Let Him Know That You Are Not Ready
You don’t have to be apologetic or timid about it, just let him know in no uncertain tone that you need some more time before you allow for such a level of intimacy. Tell him that having sex will take the relationship to a different level and you want to be sure that you are emotionally ready for it.
If there is even the slightest of resistance in you, it implies that deep down you are not sure or that your intuition is warning you against it. Pay heed to this intuition and stand firm by your decision.
Assure Him That Denial Is Not A Reflection Of A Lack Of Love
Your boyfriend will question you if you are in love with him or not when you deny him sex. It’s quite a norm for guys to use the tool of “emotional” pressure, so he is bound to get a little cross with you and demand to know if the reason why you are denying sex is because you are unsure of the relationship. You will need to convince him quite sweetly that this is not the case and that the relationship means a lot to you.
You can tell your guy that you are waiting for the relationship to mature in terms of emotional bonding and closeness before you take it to the next level.
Get Him To See This From Your Perspective
A girl might feel hesitant about engaging in sex early in the relationship because she feels that the guy might treat her differently once he gets physical with her. There are many instances when a guy’s attitude changes completely once he feels he has “scored” with the girl, this also leads to hollow relationships. Guys also tend to label a girl as an “easy” lay if she agrees to have sex within a few dates.


.....continue at the blog http://www.rosemarynkblog.com/how-to-convince-your-boyfriend-to-wait-for-sex/

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Burger01: @Engrchux, you mean the school principal went for NYSC service while you were serving? That's hilarious..

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