Aza Montana: get househelp dude

skup008: Its less than a year that i met this lovely gal,she is very beautiful,caring,very religious and we love each other so much.

she is actually the first lady i will ever love with my whole heart as i always dream of keeping her as a wife. But the problem am having with her is that she can't cook,she can't prepare any meal at all and she's also very lazy when it comes to domestic works and any time i raise the issue, she always react as if she never care to learn how to do them,at times she tell that i shouldn't worry that she will change and learn how to cook very soon,that is when she notice am very serious or not happy about the issue.

I now want Nairalanders to advise me on what to do that can force her to learn how to cook and do other domestic works...

Thanks

mekaboy: [b] LET US SEE THE PICTURE OF YOUR KITCHEN, SOMETIMES THE KITCHEN MIGHT DISCOURAGE THE GIRL.

YOU DONT EXPECT A 21ST CENTURY CHICK TO BE PULLING THREAD FROM A KEROSINE STOVE. LOL [/b]

Dr. Whizy:
one mistake peeps make is hoping that a full grown adult would change after marriage. She could worsen, u no?

vivian chinaza: Being an independent woman doesn't automatically make you a man! And it really pains me when women blame their inability to be a real woman on "independence!" A woman should be a woman anytime any day! Being independent is just an added advantage!

@ op, I'm gonna be as blunt as possible...... The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is to marry a woman who can't cook or keep a house together! A woman is supposed to be a home maker! Forget this love matter.......na u go tire by the time it starts frustrating you! This is not yankee or Jand! This is Africa for goodness sake! Here in Naija, men come home from their hectic jobs to a delicious home made meal prepared by their lovely wives, not order for chinese food joor! Don't even think of house helps cos its gonna get worse, and the lineage passes over to ur kids (girls) cos a snake begets a snake! If she can learn fine, in fact if she truly loves you and she know what marriage is all about she shouldn't wait for you to say something before she starts making an effort! But if she doesn't want to make an effort pls drop her like she is hot!

In fact, she is even missing a lot! Oh yes! She is missing that innermost joy that every woman feels when the man she love eats her food and almost chop the plate join cos he enjoys her meal!

PortHarcourtBoy: Bros na still dis Nairaland I come complain how my woman no fit cook...as easy no help matter, I go find wan Ekaette to come dey cook Afang and Edikaikong for me...as my woman begin taste her soups, no be person tell her to go learn...

She just gat to go learn 'cos the Ekaette was a "live threat"

sanb: @op...I just wonder when women come out to say they can’t cook...just surprises me to hear such a flimsy statement. I thought that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach or doesn’t she realise that...well I’m sorry for her cause someone else would soon take her position. Am just trying to imagine what sort of up bringing she had... she can't cook, she can’t do the domestic chores in the house then what exactly can she do if I may ask

My advice would be for you to either send her to a school that can teach her how to cook, teach her yourself if you know how to cook, get a female relative to teach her, employ a cook (this one I’ll discourage though) or send her to your mother then may be she’ll sit up...

As for her not been able to do domestic chores hmmm that would be very hard; I can just imagine what your house would look like... very untidy. That needs to be tackled fast before you make her your wife otherwise...

Aza Montana: get househelp dude

brigadier747: if she cant cook dats quite okay u can always help ur self since u r not a handicap or physicaly incapcitated after all dont u knw how to cook do hav a rethink but for domestic chores no excuse at all for dat then this babe will b so dirty

Denise216:

Can Nigerian Men cook worth a damn? No offense but sometimes I wonder if the only reason these guys get married is to keep from having smelly clothes and starving to death.

vivian chinaza: Being an independent woman doesn't automatically make you a man! And it really pains me when women blame their inability to be a real woman on "independence!" A woman should be a woman anytime any day! Being independent is just an added advantage!

@ op, I'm gonna be as blunt as possible...... The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is to marry a woman who can't cook or keep a house together! A woman is supposed to be a home maker! Forget this love matter.......na u go tire by the time it starts frustrating you! This is not yankee or Jand! This is Africa for goodness sake! Here in Naija, men come home from their hectic jobs to a delicious home made meal prepared by their lovely wives, not order for chinese food joor! Don't even think of house helps cos its gonna get worse, and the lineage passes over to ur kids (girls) cos a snake begets a snake! If she can learn fine, in fact if she truly loves you and she know what marriage is all about she shouldn't wait for you to say something before she starts making an effort! But if she doesn't want to make an effort pls drop her like she is hot!

In fact, she is even missing a lot! Oh yes! She is missing that innermost joy that every woman feels when the man she love eats her food and almost chop the plate join cos he enjoys her meal!