European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea Vs Villarreal: UEFA Super Cup - 6 - 5 On Penalties by Otasikwe(m): 8:20pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
Ekaka1: The last time we were in this position against real athletico we didn't play this good and we chop am well...I hope we have learnt though...common you blues  i say bros calmdown that's was then and this is nw so please calmdown |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea Vs Villarreal: UEFA Super Cup - 6 - 5 On Penalties by Otasikwe(m): 8:13pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
Ekaka1: Well done "little dynamo" Kante...we are playing well but our players are just running into themselves...abi dem no train ni  calmdown bros is too early ok calmdown ok |
Sports › Re: Manchester City sign Jack Grealish from Aston Villa in £100m record deal by Otasikwe(m): 12:05pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
oluwatunde1984: Good signing, sterling leaving or has left because this English mate is his replacement How |
Sports › Re: Osimhen Scores Twice As Napoli Crush Bayern Munich by Otasikwe(m): 12:14pm On Aug 01, 2021 |
MoDaniel: Anyway I will like to congratulate Akwa United today as they will lift the NPFL trophy.
One would hardly see that kind of updates here. It's so pathetic that I don't see news about the Nigerian Professional Football League in NL. If it's Chelsea vs Man United, you will see over ten threads on the topic.
We should prioritize our priorities. Bros ur right and a big congrats to promise kepper aka Akwa United in advance but naija we no needam |
Politics › Re: FG Releases ₦2.5 Billion For Deplorable Eleme-One Section Of East West Road by Otasikwe(m): 6:57am On Jul 30, 2021 |
udoakwa: Akpabio has always been a good man, a talk and do Ette ubom nyin but he betrayed us by joining evil party... Abasi adu ye aye sha no be lai bro Obong Akpabio na man and a good gift to d people of ND |
Politics › Re: Jigawa Government Issues 30-Day Quit Notice To Prostitutes To Vacate State by Otasikwe(m): 9:51am On Jul 18, 2021 |
szczescie: Marrying off people is not and can never be the solution
Each person is a different case, each person is a new story, experiences are unique
For better understanding some are into it for money not because they can't find a man, some are beautiful and can find a man by themselves if they want, they earn a reasonable amount of money per day they can make as much as 30k easily in a day times that by 30 days and ask yourself the person you are marrying them to does he have half of that amount in his bank account?
Some do it for the fun of it, they are addicted to it, can the man you are marrying them to SATISFY them sexually?
Some of them don't know why they are doing it, they just feel like or something is just pushing them to do it, marrying them off will not stop it.
Some got into it because of an experience in life either rape, lose of spouse, family members, run away from home and other such circumstances
Some need to do it to fund their lifestyle either as drug addicts, alcohol addicts, big girl-ism addict, socialite addict etc
And many others I can't list here Believe me marrying them off will not bring back the list family, heal the mental health effects of rape or other such life incidents that pushed them into the trade.
We should stop treating people especially women today as cargo, cattle or something that can be fixed by archaic thought processes. They are individualistic complex beings just like everyone else, yes this includes Jigawa Muslim women.
Building a kitchen for someone who isn't interested in cooking does not guarantee the person will be interested in cooking. Many people today especially in the western world have kitchens in their homes some have 2 to 3 kitchens but they can't cook, they aren't interested in cooking they eat out or order in.
Solution: focus on psychology, focus on Human capital development. Get psychologists to help them, evaluate them does who need rehab for sex addiction, alcohol addiction, drug addiction etc treat them. Then they will not need to sell their bodies to get money to fund that addiction
If it was due to a life occurrence treat them, rehabilitate them, you may not understand. Some people actually think after all this guy have raped me for free so what's the use abeg I will just allow any guy who wants after all they are giving me money, help them grow beyond that mindset.
Some of them it is lack of job provide jobs for them, ask them what can they do or what would they like to do, sponsor them for training and give them equipments or tools to start.
Marrying them off is not even an option until they are fully treated and rehabilitated.
Treat the root cause of the problem, not the symptoms of the problem, The root cause is poverty, the root cause is psychological, the root cause is materialism, the root cause is addiction, the root cause is NOT marriage.
Not getting Married is just the symptom, if they get married it will hinder them, slow them down but not stop them so they don't want to be bothered by marriage.
Marry them off and I GUARANTEE you 1. They will run away or 2. They will be doing short time from your house delivering home service.
Treat them first, provide jobs for them first, before we talk of marriage. well said and thanks |
Sports › Re: Italy vs England: Euro 2020 Final (3 - 2) On Penalties On 11th July 2021 by Otasikwe(m): 9:46pm On Jul 11, 2021 |
Kudducini: La's la's na ojoro go end this match sabi boy no be lai |
Politics › Re: How SEDI MD, Prof. Simon Ndubuisi Was Assassinated In Enugu by Otasikwe(m): 7:26am On Jul 08, 2021 |
the policeman die for nothing may ur soul rest ib peace |
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Romance › Re: A Nairalander Weds His Pretty South Korean Bride In Owerri (photos) by Otasikwe(m): 3:08pm On Jul 02, 2021 |
jimmyolasun: Una don isolate am for here.. anyway all way naa way. Shaa extend my greetings to her and pls show her this . 你们都是骗子。上帝在你的案子上。 lol bad boy |
Politics › Re: More Than 20 States Experience Inter and Intra State Border Clashes by Otasikwe(m): 11:57am On Jul 02, 2021 |
Baseless and useless post |
Sports › Re: Euro 2020: Five Players Of Nigerian Descent by Otasikwe(m): 2:08pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Rose Ugoetuk Barclay |
Politics › Re: Kemisola Oguniyi: Photos Of Teenage EndSARS Protester & Her Baby, Granted Bail by Otasikwe(m): 6:41pm On Jun 22, 2021 |
Kriss216: Children are truly blessing from the Lord.
See how the birth of the child brought her freedom.
What if she wasn't pregnant then? She for rot for jail.
Moral of the story; Have sex. bros u wicked
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Family › Re: “If You Fight My Side Chick, I Will Upgrade Her To Wife” - Nigerian Man. by Otasikwe(m): 4:11pm On Jun 22, 2021 |
Twoclans: If I talk my own now ,they will say twoclans na ashawo and na side chic supporter 
Let me respect my old age  hahahahahaha hahahahahaha hahahahahaha hahahahahaha chai nzogbu uwa m |
Celebrities › Re: Lucy Edet: I'm Single Till Marriage And Also A Virgin Till Thy Kingdom Come by Otasikwe(m): 8:02pm On Jun 21, 2021 |
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Crime › Re: 5 People Die As Police Inspector Opens Fire At Golf Estate Enugu by Otasikwe(m): 10:32am On Jun 21, 2021 |
Na so naija mata eget as ebi may be Ibombitakwa Republic is a well come ideas |
Family › Re: Adults Misunderstanding Kids' Questions. by Otasikwe(m): 10:58am On Jun 17, 2021 |
My 3yrs boy ask me daddy who a u calling, daddy ur calling ur girl friend at dat moment i was a shame of my self dis children nw a day a something else |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Man,26, Beheaded In Saudi Arabia For Taking Part In Anti-government Protests by Otasikwe(m): 10:15am On Jun 17, 2021 |
Beta people at least dia president and government people go get mouth well on like we own gov dey hide dey talk |
Politics › Re: Seven Critical Gas Development Projects In Nigeria(photos) by Otasikwe(m): 7:18pm On Jun 16, 2021 |
Uquo is in esit eket local government area in Akwa Ibom state a place of my national duty aka nysc |
Politics › Re: Gunmen Attack Ini Police Station In Akwa Ibom, Kill A Police Officer by Otasikwe(m): 12:39pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
Iglord4life: The Police Public Relations Officer in the state, Odiko Macdon, who confirmed the incident, said the Commissioner of Police, Andrew Amiengheme, has ordered men of the Operation Restore Peace to go after the fleeing members of the gang
Why don't you waste the once you caught or U want to collect bribe first....fear Nigeria police senseless post |
Politics › Re: 6 Soldiers, Unknown Gunmen Killed In Ohafia, Abia State by Otasikwe(m): 8:39pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
mrwonlasewonie: Those police in ojota assaulting peaceful protesters will not come and use this same energy here then what's your complain now |
Crime › Re: One Feared Dead As Abia Revenue Officers Clash With Timber Traders in Umuahia by Otasikwe(m): 11:01am On Jun 08, 2021 |
Thanks God no be police or army again |
Politics › Re: Police Officer Shoots Omoyele Sowore by Otasikwe(m): 10:22am On May 31, 2021 |
Every place in naija na blue up Chelsea naija mater don tired me since so i beta face my Chelsea celebration |
Politics › Re: Police Raid Enugu Church, March Suspected IPOB Members Away by Otasikwe(m): 10:10am On May 31, 2021 |
[quote author= post=102215228]Reading[/quote]bros hw was the celebration in ur ogbe 4 my end na back to back celebrate up clues for life guy naija mater i don tired for den since hv a nice week |
Sports › Re: Chelsea Fans Celebrating Their Victory In Church by Otasikwe(m): 5:56pm On May 30, 2021 |
This's we time no time to check time for celebration up up up up upbllluuuuuuhhhhhhhhhes |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City vs Chelsea (0 - 1) On 29th May 2021 by Otasikwe(m): 9:53pm On May 29, 2021 |
7 minutes no b hiaooo abeg blue army +mopol make una hold dem tight abeg |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City vs Chelsea (0 - 1) On 29th May 2021 by Otasikwe(m): 9:39pm On May 29, 2021 |
davidant: GOOD MORNING MY BROTHER
K THE WAY udooooooooo |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City vs Chelsea (0 - 1) On 29th May 2021 by Otasikwe(m): 9:32pm On May 29, 2021 |
davidant: GOALLLLL NA NOW CHELSEA SCORE FOR MY DECODER bros good morning |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City vs Chelsea (0 - 1) On 29th May 2021 by Otasikwe(m): 9:01pm On May 29, 2021 |
Rodwave: Lol. Wetin dey xup guy? . I just dey come back from work. Me I no care about who wins the game actually. Make i baf first I dey come ur welcome hw was d day |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester City vs Chelsea (0 - 1) On 29th May 2021 by Otasikwe(m): 8:51pm On May 29, 2021 |
wumi2017: Up ManCity ,,We moooooooove  to were |
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Politics › Re: Wike Commissions Roads In Akwa Ibom, Flags Off Petro-Chemicals Factory, Hospital by Otasikwe(m): 12:55pm On May 27, 2021 |
Goodness10: He be like say WIKE Don be president of Nigeria now oh. na nw u no zo u no no b4 |