lilmax:
your wife is a woman right? and you no longer aroused seeing her?

oga divorce her and follow the Babe you are in lust with

again divorce her and your problems are over

But I love my wife. Do people divorce because of sexual issues or when they fall out of love for each other?

Is it a medical problem?

dingbang:
Is she fat?

No she is not fat and she has not undergone physical changes that I don't like.

The funny thing is that I love and care for my wife

oshe11:
pls throw more light on the "SEXUAL CHANGES" YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT

https://www.nairaland.com/3909995/sexual-problem-wife

How about sexual changes like what I'm experiencing

https://www.nairaland.com/3909995/sexual-problem-wife

buharichild:
Support Buhari and you will be alright

This is not really a joke. I need some serious response. Thank you

I've been a guest member for years and I created this account because I need help with what has been bordering me for weeks. I will be as brief as I can.

First I've been married to my wife for 2 years and we've been trying to conceive.

Secondly, we've been enjoying great sex life prior before these weeks of nightmare. My wife doesn't seem to turn me on lately.

It was once during our first 6 months of marriage that my wife initiated intimacy and I wasn't aroused, my body didn't just respond and I thought to myself that it was because I was not in the mood. It never happened again until sometime in June that I initiated it and I wasn't even getting sėxually aroused or hard eréction . We tried for 3 consecutive days in that week of June and nothing. This time, I thought stress, fatigue etc. I went to the bathroom to see if I can ejáculate by másturbation . I did by help of pórn and I was convinced it wasn't Erectilé Dysfunction (ED). I visited a pharmacy and spoke with the nurse and she prescribed Adam's Desire. I have been on the medication and I think we have been doing fine with the intimacy until this weekend (our 2nd year anniversary).

I initiated the sex because she was supposed to be ovulating and we've been advised to have more sex during the time of her ovulation. I couldn't get hard around my naked wife and it broke our hearts. I had to excuse myself to watch some porń to aróuse me and I came back into the room to complete the sex with her.

It happened again last night and I don't what to get help from pórnography to stimulate my sexual desire for my wife.

My question is:
WHAT DO I CALL THIS?
HOW CAN I BE HELPED?

Note: I can get séxually aróused by a lady I'm lusting for in the streets of my neighborhood

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