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you said runs girls are settled?

My tribe use to say that "Money gotten from prostitution , arm robbery, fruadulent means, e.t.c is like WIND.

Whether you like it or not.
Time will surely tell.

You must reap what you have sow.
That is the law of life.

Arsenate:
zboyd you are a very bitter human being. I don't envy yo
ur likes....

Your right She is Bitter person

I Try not to Comment On Her thread because

Misery is contagious.

Just ignor Her Post and nothing will Happen.

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satope1: haha. Wetin happen?


You seem so bitter.

Mr or Mrs why should i be bitter when am surrounded by pure unconditional love that money cannot buy.


it's just that when i read the post of some low minded folks i have to tell them the facts.

i will tell him to go ahead.

come to think of it op do you think the grass is greener on the other side.

Aralamo.


your post "she will change automatically"

i laugh in hindi

They should try and trigger her anger i bet you they shall get what they deserve.

"SILENCE IS NOT A SIGN OF STUPIDITY"

GET THAT INTO YOUR EMPTY HEAD OP.

Mathew 7:5

You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your
own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove
the speck from your brother's eye.

KMTee: A colleague got married 6 months ago to his woman who he had, roughly 4 years relationship with before proceeded to the alter. but after he resumed from honeymoon break and was asked how he is enjoying his new status..he cofided in few of us and complained bitterly about his wife's characters, of which some of us had warned him against this lady b4 he married her but he said she would change, marriage changes women.

this lady nags, complains about his friends, his colleagues, his in-law, she is too demanding...
After they got married and resumed back to their respective work: the wife laid down some rules indirectly
1. she won't be cooking during the week except on weekends, so they get what they would eat on their way from work.
2. no in-law should come stay more than a week and for the duration of their stay, they must cook and wash their plates themselves.
3. he must not report her to his mother, mother-in-law cannot advise her what to do, whenever she errs, he must be ready to protect her and he must not allow any member of his family to disrespect her.
4. he must not give any female friend/colleague a ride even if they are staying in the same street, except she is in the car with him.
5. Sex should only happen according to how it's written and explained in one of her books, hubby can't just demand for sex anyhow, it must be according to timetable.

Now, the guy complains bitterly, quarrel and nagging every now and then...he now closes late cos he is too scared of getting home early cos of complaints, nagging and fight..the last fight they had was that the mother called and started tutoring her on how to take care of her man, how to love him, how to adore him and how to be submissive to her man, the woman even shared some of her experience with the lady. she was so furious dat wen they got home, the wife started complaining and lamenting that he is not protecting him from his family, the mother is always on her neck telling her wat to do and not do bla bla bla

the guy came to us for advise..we told him he had it coming cos we warned him, the lady had come to office one time to cause drama and we told him categorically that she is not a wife material but cos he met her a virgin, he went ahead to marry him...
the hubby is really in a mess now and is affecting his performance at work..some of his femle friends advised him to divorce the lady, some advise him to find solace in another woman's arm but we, the female colleague advised him to take charge of his home, stand up as a man and set things straight.

your advise on this is needed please? should he follow his male colleague's advice or female's?

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THERE ARE TWO SIDE TO EVERY COIN LET THE LADY SAY HER OWN SIDE OF THE STORY.
(Most times i don't believe any online stories)

Answer

1. What if the lady works in the bank or in a place that drain her physical energy,the solution is to look for a male cook.

2. The inlaw come and stay if they can behave wisely some inlaw do search the couples bedrooms look for what to take and give food items to some of their friends and some invite their friends and they will begin to cook different food in your absence meanwhile they cannot do that in their own house or sister's husband house.
So why do unto her what u cannot do in your house or your sister's husband house. The male cook will wash the plates nobody is a slave to another, can you tell the RICHES WOMAN IN NIGERIA TO WASH HER INLAW'S PLATES MEANWHILE THEY HAVE A MAID SUCH PEOPLE GET INVOLVE MOSTLY IN CRITICAL THINKING THAT IS WHY SHE IS RICH AND YOU ARE POOR.


3. The fact that somebody is a mother inlaw does not make her a QUALIFIED MARRIAGE COUNSELOR BY MERIT. Solution let HIM look for a qualified marriage counselor.


4. op how would you feel if your father continiously give every dick and harry a lift, don't become TIMAYA THAT WILL LEAD PEOPLE ASTRAY AND ASK GOD FOR FORGIVENESS OF SIN.


5. EMPLOY THE SERVICES OF A MARRIAGE COUNSELOR WHO IS QUALIFIED BY MERIT.

Lord.
This is my prayer
THAT I WILL NEVER BE A HEAVY BURDEN ON MY CHILDREN AND GRAND CHILDREN BECAUSE MY PARENTS AND GRAND PARENT ARE NOT A BURDEN ON ME.

AT THE AGE OF MY PARENT AND GRAND PARENT THEIR SOURCE OF INCOME IS STILL TAKING CARE OF THEM.

GOD I WILL NEVER PUT MY CHILD UNDER PRESSURE TO GIVE ME MONEY THEY DON'T HAVE BECAUSE NON OF MY PARENTS DID THAT TO ME.

THANK YOU LORD.

Wayne Dyer- You Can't Give What You Don't
Have .



op, how are you sure it's not the girls relative that bought it for her. I have seen Families where they share money and give to there bloodline money yearly, how about if the girl is from that kind of family and she stick with the guy and refuse to expose his broke ass.



some men love to boast they have money meanwhile they don't have or might be living on borrowed money. smh.



Assumption is the mother of frustration.

No

MizMyColi: I concur
However we must follow and pursue peace with all men, especially our parents.

Numbers 23:19

God is not a man, that he should lie;
neither the son of man, that he should
repent: hath he said, and shall he not do
it? or hath he spoken, and shall he not
make it good?


IF YOU CONCUR THAT IS NONE OF MY BUSINESS IT'S SIMPLY YOUR BURDEN TO BEAR.

In our society today where old women are extremely envious of the young ladies, they could go as far as cursing the lady if she refuse to associate with them and to do whatever they ask of her. So most of them use that oppurtunity to curse this innocent lady.
WHO IS HE THAT SAYETH AND IT COMMET TO PASS WHEN THE LORD COMNANDED IT NOT.

ANY CURSE OUT OF WICKEDNESS BACK TO THE SENDER.

A curse has no power over the righteous
(Numbers 5:23-28).


How shall I curse whom God has not
cursed? And how shall I denounce whom the
LORD has not denounced? – Numbers 23:9.


Like a flitting sparrow, like a flying
swallow, So a curse without cause shall not
alight. – Proverbs 26:2.

I SMELL LIES.

I SMELL LIES .

I SMELL LIES

bustyhelen: are u with us on this threa d?

What do you mean?

Traditional Marriage is the most potent and powerful type of marriage in Africa. If the MAN HAS PAID HER BRIDE PRICE THEN THEY ARE HUSBAND AND WIFE.

So if a lady is ashamed of the custom and tradition of her people and her land, she can go ahead and do court marriage.

But from where i hail from if you like go and do court MARRIAGE without the traditional marriage you are not regarded as a married person according to the tradition of my beloved lineage.

No matter where i find myself i will never abandone my culture because of a BORROWED CULTURE from another NATION

I SHALL FOLLOW THE FOOTSTEP OF MY LINEAGE/ FORE FATHERS NO MATTER WHAT.

GOOD FAITH

I don't believe in cyber bullying if you know this person personally go and contront the person as regarding the topic instead of all this talks in an ANANYMOUS FORUM for there are two side to every coin that is why i love naijapals.com

I WANT YOU TO REVEAL YOUR IDENTITY ON NAIRALAND SO PEOPLE CAN TAKE YOU MORE SERIOUS.

As for me any one in an ananymous forum that talks like he knows the other person i usually don't believe them except on naijapals.com

Stop assuming before you give yourself high blood pressure over something that is not. If you think that her husband has gotten someone pregg there is nothing stopping you from asking her husband to confirm.

ASSUMPTION IS THE MOTHER OF FRUSTRATION.

I SMELL LIES.

Be carefull about your ill wish.

What you sow you must surely rip, since spreading lies has become your job and way of life keep it up.

TIME WILL SURELLY TELL.

DO NOT SAY WHAT YOU CANNOT PROVE.

MISERABLE PEOPLE BEGET MISERABLE THOUGHT.

I HEREBY ENCOURAGE PEOPLE THAT WANT PROGRESS IN ALL ASPECT OF THEIR LIFE TO STAY AWAY FROM MISERABLE PEOPLE/ANIMALS/MONKEYS IF NOT THAT MIGHT BE THE BEGINING OF YOUR PROBLEM BECAUSE MISERY IS HIGHLY CONTAGIOUS.

SHALOM

MRbrownJAY: i guess English comprehension is not your strongest point as i dont think you understand anything i wrote..... oh well!

Wow. You are talking to yourself, stop contradicting yourself.

MRbrownJAY: i guess English comprehension is not your strongest point as i dont think you understand anything i wrote..... oh well!

Wow. You are talking to yourself, stop contradicting yourself.

MRbrownJAY: i must have hit a nerve, all my apologies....i was just trying to educate you, but if you find something that i said to be wrong (or insulting to you) then so be it. it is called LIFE, and i am NOT immune to it, my children are NOT immune to it, nor anyone dear in my life. the catch is to know what time it is so you can prepare and protect yourself against it.

keep preaching and expecting your God to help you while i am here trying to educate you. the fact that you even see it as negativity instead of understanding the REALITY OF LIFE is the reason why so many religious sheep (like yourself) are failing at life. but hey dont worry, your toto will be the sweetest ever, and your partner will mount it joyfully until eternity, lol!

Well since you have turn yourself into a god that is non of my Business.
Charity they say begins at home First go and Educate your lineage on this said topic so you can see clearly how to educate me, you are trying to educate me meanwhile you are very scare of educating your own lineage. Wow.

People like you fail in business and life because of lack of the holy spirit in your life to guide and direct your steps.

MRbrownJAY: whether my dad, my granddad or my daughters future husbands......... the rule is the same! but if you want to fool yourself into thinking that a toto will remain sweet forever then be my guest.



this rule is good for MEN and WOMEN, the sad fact is that women will gladly be se.xually miserable for the rest of their lives (in the name of matrimony), while men just cant. we see/feel or need sex differently........ because we are different when it comes to sex.

Any Negativity Back to Sender.
Your UNBORN children Male and Female shall cheat on their spouse. So be it.

An stop talking and generalising base on ear say as if you know what goes on in people's life and in there heart only the INVINCIBLE God knows what goes on in the heart.

I pity your wife. Only God knows the degrading work she is doing.

MRbrownJAY: @OP
even the most beautiful and sexy women in the world will eventually be a bore (ask Halle Berry). you will bang them all you want, left right and center, but after a few years/decades, the sexual chemistry will be gone. the spark will be all but gone and you will need something else to get your fire burning again. some men get bored out of mounting the same toto after 3months, others after 20yrs, but one thing is certain, you eventually get bored of it.

the catch is to add spices to your union, to reinvent yourself in the bedroom and also upgrade your skills and bedroom acrobatics, in order to desire that person longer...... but ultimately, even a sexy house girl would get your juices flowing harder than your wife.
it's called LIFE!

MRbrownJAY: @OP
even the most beautiful and sexy women in the world will eventually be a bore (ask Halle Berry). you will bang them all you want, left right and center, but after a few years/decades, the sexual chemistry will be gone. the spark will be all but gone and you will need something else to get your fire burning again. some men get bored out of mounting the same toto after 3months, others after 20yrs, but one thing is certain, you eventually get bored of it.

the catch is to add spices to your union, to reinvent yourself in the bedroom and also upgrade your skills and bedroom acrobatics, in order to desire that person longer...... but ultimately, even a sexy house girl would get your juices flowing harder than your wife.
it's called LIFE!

Wow. So your Daddy was tired of fucking your mummy's TOTO, you shall do same thing to your wife over and over again. So be it.

MRbrownJAY: @OP
even the most beautiful and sexy women in the world will eventually be a bore (ask Halle Berry). you will bang them all you want, left right and center, but after a few years/decades, the sexual chemistry will be gone. the spark will be all but gone and you will need something else to get your fire burning again. some men get bored out of mounting the same toto after 3months, others after 20yrs, but one thing is certain, you eventually get bored of it.

the catch is to add spices to your union, to reinvent yourself in the bedroom and also upgrade your skills and bedroom acrobatics, in order to desire that person longer...... but ultimately, even a sexy house girl would get your juices flowing harder than your wife.
it's called LIFE!

Wow. So your Daddy was tired of fucking your mummy's TOTO, you shall do same thing to your wife over and over again. So be it.

MRbrownJAY: @OP
even the most beautiful and sexy women in the world will eventually be a bore (ask Halle Berry). you will bang them all you want, left right and center, but after a few years/decades, the sexual chemistry will be gone. the spark will be all but gone and you will need something else to get your fire burning again. some men get bored out of mounting the same toto after 3months, others after 20yrs, but one thing is certain, you eventually get bored of it.

the catch is to add spices to your union, to reinvent yourself in the bedroom and also upgrade your skills and bedroom acrobatics, in order to desire that person longer...... but ultimately, even a sexy house girl would get your juices flowing harder than your wife.
it's called LIFE!

Wow. So your Daddy was tired of fucking your mummy's TOTO, you shall do same thing to your wife over and over again. So be it.

MRbrownJAY: @OP
even the most beautiful and sexy women in the world will eventually be a bore (ask Halle Berry). you will bang them all you want, left right and center, but after a few years/decades, the sexual chemistry will be gone. the spark will be all but gone and you will need something else to get your fire burning again. some men get bored out of mounting the same toto after 3months, others after 20yrs, but one thing is certain, you eventually get bored of it.

the catch is to add spices to your union, to reinvent yourself in the bedroom and also upgrade your skills and bedroom acrobatics, in order to desire that person longer...... but ultimately, even a sexy house girl would get your juices flowing harder than your wife.
it's called LIFE!

Wow. So your Daddy was tired of fucking your mummy's TOTO, you shall do same thing to your wife over and over again. So be it.

Only a foolish man will date or marry a woman
who does not love or respect him.

Warren Buffet said

Let block heads advise block heads.


Romans 12:2
And be not conformed
to this world: but be
ye transformed by the
renewing of your
mind, that ye may
prove what is that
good, and acceptable,
and perfect, will of
God.

A wise woman once told me, “If you want a truly
fine husband, respect him at the level at which
you want him to reach. A man will usually not
rise above the level at which his wife respects
him.” This is a general principle, not a hard and
fast rule because God does not put accountability
or responsibility for a man’s character on his
wife. Nevertheless, strong evidence indicates a
woman holds great power to make or break a
man. In his book His Needs, Her Needs, Willard
Harley amends the saying “Behind every great
man is a great woman” to “Behind every great
man is an admiring wife.”
Something in a man needs the respect of his wife.
He thrives and grows toward godliness when his
need is fulfilled. This explains why God
emphatically says, “The wife must see to it that
she respects her husband” (Ephesians 5:33
NASB).
10 Steps Towards Respecting Your Husband
1. Pray for him daily and trust God to answer your
requests.
Pray for his well-being, wisdom, protection,
blessings, guidance, knowledge, spiritual maturity,
success, purity, strength in temptation, etc.
Look for God’s answers to your prayers.
Thank God for working in your family.
Thank God for your husband.
Pray for your attitude.
2. Remember that God has put your husband in a
position of leadership, and He will lead you
through your husband.
3. Make a list of your husband’s qualities that you
appreciate. Review and add to your list regularly.
4. Tell your husband what you appreciate about
him. Tell others what you appreciate about him.
5. Don’t criticize your husband to others –
especially your children.
6. Look for the positive side of things that you may
find irritating. If you find it boring when he spends
time telling you about his bad day, remember that
at least he is talking to you, spending time with
you, sharing his concerns with you, bringing you
into his confidence, and giving you the chance to
be an encourager and helper.
7. Respond to his loving advances with enthusiasm.
8. If you are concernedabout a decision your
husband has made, ask him the following:
“I’m confused about _________. Can you explain it
to me?”
“Can we talk about _____? I feel uncomfortable
about ______.”
Don’t ask: “WHY in the world would you do it that
way?” or ask “Why?” in any way that implies you
think he is foolish.
9. Respect his likes and dislikes. If he likes a
particular food, make a point of serving that
regularly. If he hates the color purple, don’t wear
purple in his presence. If he likes you to wear
perfume, do it.
10. If you find yourself thinking negative thoughts
about your husband, stop and choose to think of
something else – especially things from your
positive quality list.
Remember, God is working on you and your
husband. You can both learn from your failures as
well as your successes. Give God the freedom to
teach your husband through failure. In the same
way, give God the freedom to teach you to trust
Him through your husband’s failure.

The Disappearing Woman is a burden for a guy -
a heavy load to bear when he feels like he's the
center of your life. It could breed resentment in
the guy toward the woman, leading to marital
problems and even divorce.

Let block heads and copy cat advice block heads and copy cat.
How would couples value and appreciate themselves when they don't spend so much time together. Most successfull men want to be the center of their wife's life.

Checkout the marital life of some pastors that are called by God all their wives do is to give them support.
What can be so sweet as supporting your spouse with everything God gave you for free to serve humanity without expecting anything in return. MISSION GIVEN TO YOU BOTH BY GOD, SO THEIR IS NO PROBLEM IN MAKING YOUR SPOUSE THE CENTER OF YOUR LIFE TO PURSUE A PURPOSE TOGETHER GIVEN TO YOU BY GOD.

ONLY THE WORD OF GOD CAN STAND THE TEST OF TIME.

Stop interfering in the life of your neighbour for your own good for your opinion doesn't count since you cannot reveal your identity.