RikudoSennin:

Reno no get chill

OfficialDJ:
I'd do a million naira giveaway here on the 1st of December...
10 business ideas will get 100k each....


I'd rather empower men with that amount than hoe around with it ...

Watch this space.

Ya'll are doing a bad job ignoring that rabid dog below....

Goodday chief. I'm a music producer trying to make a name for myself and learning on the job. Everything I know now is self taught but it is really limiting my performance. I've gone to inquire about training from studio and the price is high. This grant will actually do a lot to help me sustain my means of livelihood. Thanks.

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Martinez39s:
Paedophiles exist in both genders.

True. That's actually true.

So there's this new issuer going on Twitter about the abuse of the boy child by @Wizarab10 , the stories are over surplus but one thing is bugging me.

Why do this grown ups women choose to abuse young boys when boys of their age are willing to get down with them?

@caveadullam @martinez39s @ubunja

ubunja:
the only problem is that you want to go from zero to smooth conversations with pretty girls. Doesn't work like that. You've to start at the bottom bro. You can't run before you can walk. You can't walk before you can crawl. You can't crawl before you can sit.

How do you begin at the bottom?

If you're like any typical gent you're aiming for the top pretty girls that catch your eye. Which is actually where you're getting it wrong. The secret to smooth conversations with the ladies is how RELAXED you yourself are. The more relaxed you are the more fire will be your conversation. Now ,the pretty girls intimate you. Which makes you anxious. Which kills your conversation.

I propose that you forget about these very cute girls for a moment.

Aim a little lower.

You know those girls that you hardly look at twice.cause they're not your type and class? Who you don't have any approach anxiety with. Who you can be free around and you can say anything to without any fear? Those are the girls you need to practice on. Hang out with them and use them to sharpen your skills. (Mind you, these are the same type/class of women you must be [secretly] screwing as target practice- but that's a story for another time)

You can't go from being terrible at talking to girls to having a flawless mouthpiece all in one go. Conversation skills, like all skills, must be cultivated through patient practice. And you don't practice on the very girls you want cause failure here will deal a blow to your confidence and self-esteem. Begin way down the ladder with girls you have nothing to lose with. Then as you become good at it start rising up the ladder engaging with better and better girls.

We live in a fast world and people want quick fixes and shortcuts. But given that a smooth mouthpiece is something you'll benefit from your whole life, it's worth it to invest your time and energy in perfecting it the right way.

BUTTTTTT.......
If my advice is too much and you're more after quick solutions, then your best bet is in fact to move FASTER. Approach anxiety is down to OVERTHINKING. The antidote is SPEED. the moment you spot your target you move in swiftly before your brain catches up and starts throwing up rationalizations: she's too pretty, you don't stand a chance etc.
The moment you see a lady you like quickly walk over and talk to her. The more you wait and hesitate the more your logic gets in the way.
And as counterproductive as it may seem, Go in with a blank mind. No questions pre-loaded, no topics prepared. Create space for a conversation to grow organically and naturally. Cause guess what? If the vibe is right you and the girl will click. And when you click with a stranger the conversation moves better cause the both of you will put in equal effort cause you both enjoy it.

Just don't go in with the express intention to shoot your shot, or even to build sexual tension. No. Rather go in with the express intention to have a great conversation. But be ready to go anywhere it may lead. Cause sometimes a vibe can be so good that you end up asking the lady to have a drink with you in a nearby shop, and even then the chemistry intensifies until you invite her to come chillax at your place. All in one day.

Now let me go off topic......But this is where a lot of guys mess it up:
If you're out with a girl and the conversation is flowing and the vibe is awesome, plenty of guys will ask for her number and part ways so they can talk to the girl later on. And they're shocked the girl who was vibey earlier is now cold and distant and uninterested on WhatsApp! Here is the deal: WOMEN ARE CREATURES OF EMOTIONS.
If you and a lady are vibing and the atmosphere is lit and she's clearly having a great time with you NO MATTER YOU JUST MET HER, NO MATTER SHE'S A STRANGER, NO MATTER SHE MENTIONED SHE HAS A BF, escalate escalate escalate. Cause right there, at that moment, in that instance, the iron is hot. The emotions favour you. The winds are blowing in your favour. The train is moving your direction. There's absolutely no reason to stop now. No reason to ask for her number. No reason to ask for her WhatsApp. Cause at that moment you're in a position to get something better than her contacts --her coochie.

A lot of guys don't believe in same-day puccy.
But that shít exists. A girl you just met can fucc you if the vibe is right and you look fuckable (clean, well groomed, fresh breath, neat clothes, nice deodorant). It boils down to the vibe. And how far you're willing to push it. Things can move from a great convo in the park to a shop having a cooling drink to you inviting her to come check out something at your place to you asking to take a shower then coming back with a towel around your waist asking her to put lotion on your back cause you can't reach --- then BOOM! And if you been putting in work in the gym it's DOUBLE BOOM!
You just have to build on the connection and keep the momentum going as soon as you click out in the street. Don't stop, ask for her number and go. No no no. Later on WhatsApp she'll have cooled down and will be uncooperative. This is the biggest mistake guys make. Everyone is so fixated on phone numbers they'll miss golden opportunities.

There's a reason we call you a king. Thanks for the knowledge bro.