CaveAdullam:


I have few lessons in mind to drop after watching this make-sense movie 3 days ago. Just don't have the time to calm down and write.

YoobaNesan, if you are able to pressurize me to drop something on this I will.

Baba drop abeg

Corridon:
She will add it as one of her achievement. Women are damn weak. All their strengths lies in their mouths and cover shoes.

Are you normal bro?

iLegendd:
Screenshot 2.

I requested for her Tiktok account because most 20+ years old beautiful girls love that app to oppress other girls with their beauty, ass, shape, and naughty dance moves. She didn't reply with an answer to the Tiktok question. I guess it skipped her mind or she doesn't have.

Instead of asking her out, I asked her to take me out. Table turned. In the dating world, the whites have set a table and a template on how it should go. Your job is turn that table and see the outcome.

Don't ever ask women out — just turn the table and watch her say you're the one who is supposed to take her out.

With this statement of hers, you already know she's willing to go out with you even though you haven't asked her out. You set a trap and she fell for it.

Since she has no money to take you out, invite her to your house. If you don't have a private space, tell her you'll be going out on so-so date and so-so place and she can tag along.

Use humor when telling her to take you out so that she'll laugh about it. In case, I said, "When are you taking me out? Don't say you don't have money o. Borrow from your mom or sister."

The borrow part is where the humor is. Women are suckers for naughtiness and humor.

Without rapport, there will be no connection. So, I decided to create some rapport by asking her if she's at work.

She mentioned "work" the day she came to buy something, so I felt I should care a bit even though I probably don't — it's just for rapport sake.

Throughout the chat, I was building rapport and trust while mixing it with

1. Humor
2. Naughtienss (sexual innuendos)
3. Misinterpretation of her words
4. Mystery (timing — I take my time to reply her or I don't reply till the next day)
5. Storytelling (I talked about how I wasn't sick, but went for checkup and found typhoid)

This is true and my intention of brining that hospital topic into the conversation is to let her know I also did an HIV test and it's negative.

(This is an indirect psychological way of telling her I'm a safe raw material.)

I rechecked my genotype and blood group and they are still intact (AA and A+).

From here, I would asked her when last she checked herself and send her money to go run a test or she can follow me let's go do it together. (HIV status, infection, blood group, and genotype). I'm always willing to pay for a woman's checkup and treatment for my own security before sex.

The aim is to start acting as her boyfriend. Stop officially asking a woman to be your girlfriend — just start acting as if you are her boyfriend from the first day.

Asking her to be your girlfriend gives her room to think and end up rejecting or friendzoning you or worse, she'll start avoiding you. In my book, Mr. Friendzone, I revealed all these in details.

Dating is simple — lack of knowledge is the reason it seems difficult to most boys and men.

The end.

You sabi this thing

iLegendd:
Below is where we ended the chat less than an hour ago. I'm going to ignore her for a week or three days so she can miss me small. When something is too available, it loses its value. I have done my part. It's time to hide to avoid "see fish" or a "comedian."

So, it's time to explain the chat. Do you want the to?

Yes

iLegendd:
Your job is just to implant those naughty thoughts in her brain with humor so that she'll laugh without getting angry. But, what if she gets angry? It's because you're rushing it. Beginner ChátDictors are fond of being impatient without realizing it.

As the ChatDîctting is going on, she's falling in love if you do it right. As beginner, don't worry about doing it right. Just do it and fail and learn from your failures.

Most men lack proper timing when chatting with women and using keywords from her innocent replies or questions against her to evoke naughty humor called SMH (Sexual Misinterpretation with Humor, not shaking my head).

Enough of all the theories. Below is my chat with her starting from the 18th of this month.

Read and learn and I'll analyse the chat later for you to know the game I'm playing in her head. I'm building rapport with her to make her comfortable. After sex, there will be emotional bond as long as the sex is amazing.

After the amazing sex, you'll automatically see you as her boyfriend even if she already has a good boyfriend who isn't pressing her mumu button. Right now, I'm the mumu because I'm the one talking more than her, but the table will soon change.

Women love romance just the same way they love money. The one you present first matters. So, present ye romance, humor, playfulness, fun, and naughtiness first. Leave money alone for now. Don't put yourself in trouble by bragging.

Words of wisdom

I dey feel this your vibe bro. Don't stop.

ubunja:
devastating to say the least. as long as men don't do anything to save themselves as a group sadly these things will not stop. A

But a glimmer of hope is that men are starting to awaken to a sense of the danger they're potentially exposed to, I was on a comment section of a video on Paternity fraud on YouTube and really men are starting to talk about standing up and pushing back. Eventually something will have to give and the backlash will start against all this misandry.
It used to be isolated cases of men abused by the system so no one cared enough cause there was this "it wouldn't happen to me" belief among men, but as these cases become more and more and people closer and closer to them start getting targeted all men are getting a reality check.

Agreed.

@ubunja you asked for update on Benjamin Mendy's case. He's been acquitted but everyone's keeping quiet even tho they rushed to tarnish his image.