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Well, it is pretty clear the Management of AB in BEV have made their decision.

They decided to make the GMT:Nigeria 2017 chapter 'A fastest finger first (f^3) recruitment'.

Really was expecting that as promised they would send a video link message to me after passing the Logical reasoning test.

It was good AB in BEV while it lasted... In case you change your mind with whatever decision I would be here waiting.

Irregardless of whatever this might be: Positive or Negative.

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Friedyam:

Your story really stood out to me because honestly life could feel like a burden sometimes especially when you are supposed to be somewhere careerwise, schoolwise, family wise but you are yet to get there.

However, here is my candid advice:

First, you need your family: your mum and dad to be precise. How? When the atmosphere in your home is calm take your time tell them you really want to speak to them from the depth of your heart.Correct those misperceptions they have about you.Trust me this would not be achieved in one day you have to decide what to tell them first from the most important to other trivial ones one day at a time.

Why is this important? Nobody is your biggest cheerleader than your parents.Trust me, they are locking you indoors because in their own mind they believe they are trying to protect you from yourself and probably the world. THEY ARE DOING THIS BECAUSE THEY LOVE YOU.

However, to enable them show confidence in you. You need to open up to them more.

Second, when speaking to your parents speak respectfully so they listen to you.Studies have shown that individuals (more so people who love you )have the tendency to listen more when they believe they are been respected. I know it could be frustrating sometimes to you that you don't have a voice but try this ,as practice makes perfect plus I understand how you feel because I have been there.

Third, you know your family structure more than anybody on this forum. Maybe yours is a close-nit family where everybody is close or just otherwise. YOU KNOW YOUR FAMILY BETTER.

What is my point? Be able to understand when to approach issues with your parents and state your points without getting angry. It is difficult but try. Let your dad understand that you prefer Art over Law because of A, B and C be highly coherent when talking to your dad. Be confident while talking to him.Gradually, this would start to work for you.

Last, you know in Naija Job market and School market self na Maths sure pass. I was just like you I didn't have a particular affection for math that much but I had to tell myself the truth. Go back to your secondary school JSS 1 math textbook if you have to and you realize in fact math is one of the most beautiful subject. It worked for me I hope it does for you.

You are still young, don't waste away by being angry and depressed. It would get you nowhere and you know the IDLE MIND IS ALWAYS THE DEVILS WORKSHOP.

CHALLENGE YOURSELF MENTALLY and get going cauz life waits for no one.

Peace, I stop now.

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