tpia:

quick correction; don't confuse hatred of yourself with hatred of your tribe. No be only you be Igbo, abeg. Except in your head, and its already been established that you urgently need psychiatric intervention.

[b]ewooo- look like you ke? GOD FORBID BAD THING!!!!!!![/B] Abomination and big taboo.


I reject that in Jesus name! get away from me, satan!

I'm not supprise if you're calling the name of God, even the holly Book said it that satan shall preach with the name of the Lord when the time comes.

You looks less insultive today why? Did you left your dictionary at the bar or the lord is doing some deliverance over you?
I'm getting some how disappointed, I expected something more or are you taking some pill?

Is there a particular reason why you're following me around?Is there a particular reason why you're following me around?

I got entertained with Your stupidity and your hatred over my tribe makes me stronger if that what you feel like to hear.

abeg go village make them do deliverance or wash head for you so you can be free from your Tpia obsession. I pity you.

No, just pity yourself cause you'll be tired to see my face.

Buzz off, abeg. You're describing yourself here, or can't you see this plain fact. Its as obvious as daylight.

Yes am describing myself but not introducing myself to haters like you.

ya picture alone has put me off my food this evening 

  You need extra make-up to look like me.

tpia:

As usual, your horses have left the barn and you're contributing your lonesome penny on a context you're absolutely ignorant about.

na today?

Not actually I would have read the date before making a comment, it's like a deaf person laughing when others has stops.

Someone who claim to be same is posting to a thread of 2years plus, they might left their reading glass at the beer palour.

sistawoman:

i really hope this is not the case with him and that our differences can be worked out. He is a good friend and ¹ my neighbor so we see each other every single day.
He babysits our children when hubby and i go out or when i go to work.He is a good friend². But all that aside, what God has join let NO MAN put us under. I will not allow him or anyone else to come in between my marriage.

He must be a nice man, but to babysits your children, he don't have job of his own?



_{Nwanna mu checkiekwa na aka nwokea adighi na ofu nwa ya, oyibo ana akwaka n'iko.}

_Queenisha:

lele nu meeeee
Ozi nwa mama
olee ebe i no we hu m in all my glory?
o wu group picture ahu?

Imaka my sista, Asi na aka ejighi mu aka m asi ka m bute mmanyi mpafu ihu (like owerri people normally said).

sistawoman:

Sista don't get it twisted I love my man and I aint going no where.

Just wondering if this dude is up to something else. I don't want anyone around that could be a wedge in my marriage. Ya feel me.
If they look like, smell like or act like a problem i get rid of them. But if he truly is looking out for my best interest then I will keep him around. I don't want to end a friendship because i suspect he may have something up his sleave. He maybe just trying to get me to see things from a different perpective. but because he has done this for many years with every r/s then i am starting to wonder if no man is good enough but him.

Sista, I doubt if actually you do,
Becareful before someone enter your holly ground.

sistawoman:

how old are you?

I know you'll be here.

If stars and wealthy people can do it Why can't you afterall it's no ones business.

It's not all that bad , people get their choice,
If you feel she's okay for you how can I stand between your choice.
43yrs and you how old?

what about physical abuse from the sr wife to the jr wife or reverse? and who do they flirt with?

They normally fights, they flirt with young boys in the town who takes the advantages of the man's unable to service the wives engine regularly.

What happens if the husband comes home to find them fighting and it is the sr. wife jumping on the jr. wife out of jealousy? will the sr. wife be reprimanded or sent packing? How are disputes handled?

Under no circumstance cause the society will plead for her forgiveness and on a rear occasion does she engage in a fight cause some jr once do give her some respect and she knows her roles as the second in comand.

Is there alot of jealousy or does the sr. wife and jr. wife understand their roles?

There are roles but sometimes being manipulated by the most sexy and fraudlent wife among them, sometimes the sr. will not get her turn to sleep with the husband since her engine is considered old and worn-out. so she tend to compasate with her authority in the family.

And if i understand this correctly the jr. wife really has no say so in the marriage or what happens to her, she answers to both the husband and the sr. wife?

If she's unable to use her sexual powers and gossipping to win her husband 's heart, she's gone. and in that case she needs only endurance and tolerant to keep life going.

sistawoman:

To all my GOOD Nigerian men:

God created you just for us, there are no other men on the face of the earth like yall. Good Nigerian men work harder, love harder and respect harder their women than any other men on the face of this planet.

The reason most of us are here is because of you.

This is one sista that no matter how many times her heart is hurt I will never turn my back on my brothas.

Thank God someone comes to our rescue,

What remains is Nigerian man can't F**K.

_Queenisha:

awucham ozokwa.
Ike g'agwu ndi asiri!

gwu kwa ndi ana akoro.

Ada bekee, elewe ukwu egbuo ewu, I carelessly saw your picks last time. Ijuru eju na nwanyi.

Does this mean she gets to boss the jr wife?

Yes she do give other and direct things how it'll be sometimes the husband seeks more advices from ad she always bear the king's wife Tittle (LOLO in Igboland)

What exactly are the roles of the wives?  For instance I read someplace that the jr wife cooks and cleans and the sr wife works, whereas someplace else i read the reverse.

Cooking is done individually they don't eat together, only they create timetable for who to cook and sleep with the husband.

I would love to hear from a woman in a marriage like this or a man in one as well.

I'm afraid you won't find any here, cause in this modern age and 90% of Nairaland member are still under40yrs. this happens from 40 and above.

How does the man view the different wives?

question not cleared.

What if the jr wife never bears any children for the husband?  Do they dismiss her?  Does she not have any rights? 

She has a limited right and faces humiliation.

In Nigeria can a man send his wife packing for no reason at all?

It happens till tomorrow.

Can the Sr. wife send the jr. wife packing?

Yes with a good reason and the more old she becomes in the family the more power she acquire too.

Is there abuse among the women in these types of marriages?

what abuse? sexual or physical? sexually no but in the contrary they seem to flirt more.

Once the man takes a second wife how soon before he takes a third? or fourth?

As soon as another one shows up.

Who monitors that he can provide for all of his wives?

Only God and himself.

Can the sr. wife object to the husband taking a jr wife or is she stuck with the decision?

She do object but her objection seems to be considered as either being jealousy or stupid even might cause her her matrimonial rights.

SimiBrasil:

How naija women afects the relationship with naija men with foreigns? this one will be my next thread, lol.

Please Simi don't come with that topic caus I'm involved.