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just look at the innocence in the children's faces yet the woman had the heart to go sell them...

LordAdam16:
Firstly, I'm the kind of person that has an open mind and would relate to an opinion that is more factual and therefore correct. Then adopt it. If you don't have an open mind, then you are a bigot.

The basic premise of being humans is that our opinions change in the face of superior argument. I'm not larger than life or infallible. If you think you are, well that's a shame, because you aren't. And you can see the contradiction in one sentence you made. If I simply "see other people's opinion [as] superior to" mine, then I would have automatically taken your bigoted opinion as superior to mine.

I've given you more than 4 tries to state how homosexuality hurts you or anyone. You haven't been able to do so, and you expect me to accept your opinion as fact.

Even though you are headstrong, it doesn't mean you haven't changed your opinion about something before in the face of superior argument. I am of the opinion that you have.

Let's say I ask you in which country is Hafnarfjordur located. A. Sweden B. Ghana C. Iceland D. Norway. Initially, you may have your opinion about one of the countries. But when you check Google, or an Atlas or Encyclopedia, a superior opinion with the authority changes your prior opinion.

Secondly, according to the APA, pedophilia is not a sexual orientation. So, if you are taking your understanding from lone psychologists without peer-review acceptability, then maybe you should also believe American psychologist Arthur Jenson who said black Americans had lower genetic intelligence than whites and Asians. You see how ignorant and unintelligent you appear.

Thirdly, if I wanted to insult you, I wouldn't add "No offense intended." It's like when I call you a bigot. You may class it as an insult, but it isn't. It's what you are.

Definition of bigot



You have low linguistic intelligence because you can't even do a quick Google search to understand the meaning and correlation of words you use. And yes, I don't intend to offend you, but you aren't a kid so yeah don't cry or throw tantrums (like calling me a fo.ol).

You've called me delusional. Did I think that's an insult? No. I think you are delusional. You think I am delusional. It's like a mad man thinking other people are mad while he is normal. It's only objectivity that'd point out who is really mad.

If someone said I have low artistic intelligence (meaning I can't draw), I wouldn't feel offended. I can't draw to save a life. It's not a skill that I have. And I wouldn't be arrogant or authoritative to start telling artists or even people with average drawing ability of what brush type is best for touching or what pencil type is best for counter shading (this is exactly what you are doing when you compare kleptomania to homosexuality and call pedophilia a sexual orientation).

If I sound incorrigible to you, with all your half-baked, flip-flop comments; then I don't even consider it an insult. I consider it a compliment. It's like a primary school kid telling an astronaut that he sounds incorrigible. That'd make for a good laugh and a compliment too. Of course, the astronaut will sound incorrigible to the kid.

You can't even recollect what you typed (maybe you didn't even understand the sentence you wrote). You said you wouldn't quote me. Then you turned around to say you said I shouldn't quote you. Now you've quoted me two times after I even pointed out your own statement to you.

Are you okay? And no, I don't mean that as an insult.

Maybe you should take your own advice that you just want to be with your beliefs (whether it is fair or correct). That's way better than running from pillar to post here, unable to answer a simple question, contradicting yourself shamelessly, and openly displaying that you are no different from a racist.

-Lord

1.you are full of yourself that prompted me to calling you incorrigible.

2. precision and concision is lacking in your texts.

3. I said I wouldn't quote you again and I didn't until you hijacked my discussion with "electricpole" with your frivolous assumption that paedophilia isn't a sexual orientation, which you stylishly did to make me sound less intelligent...

4. I had to quote so that gullible minds wouldn't take your fallacious statement as true.

5. According to you, any term apa doesn't define verbatim should be disregarded "even though words have both deductive and connotative meanings" Which to me sounds very hilarious.

lastly, I will still say; homosexuality just as paedophilia are both sexual orientations that need to be tackled constructively. to that effect o think the site bellow can help u.

NB: https://medium.com/pedophiles-about-pedophilia/pedophilia-as-a-sexual-orientation-d414e0780f6d#.rmd5qfwk0 Check it out, I pray it broadens your mind on why you should stop advocating for homosexuality if you are not one of them.

PS: That you didn't intent to insult me in your former post doesn't mean I shouldn't feel insulted, thus my backlash.

LordAdam16:
You said you wouldn't quote me remember, not that I shouldn't quote you. You can read your reply if in doubt.

Now, one psychologist theorizes that pedophilia is a sexual orientation, and you make a scholarly evidence.

For starters, check what the APA (leading authority on psychology) defines pedophilia as and compare it to the definition of any of the currently accepted sexual orientations. In fact don't go that far: Just use Google...

Definition of homosexuality:



Definition of pedophilia:



Note the syntax and use your brain.

Relying on the controversial definition of a lone psychologist just shows you are good at cherry-picking. Like picking the opinions of self-acclaimed christian scientists on evolution over what mainstream scientists think about evolution.

Maybe you are also one of the nutjobs who like the North Carolina GOP lawmaker thinks incest too is a sexual orientation.

I like learning new things. Just not from uninformed people who can't do a Google search to save their lives. I like to hear from Expert bodies and even ponder on unpopular theories from loner experts.

You have been unable to answer the question if homosexuality hurts you. Yet you want to preach about accepting that sexual orientation is "not always finite." Seriously, a bigot heterosexist like you preaching to me that sexual orientation is not always finite. I know that and appreciate it. You don't even understand what it means. Imagine the irony.

Pedophilia hurts kids. Incest ruins the gene pool and predisposes offsprings from such relationship to undue genetic complications. Bestiality abuses animals.

Tell me how homosexuality hurts you or anyone. Don't switch to expletives.

Calling me "dull," "fool," "wallowing in arrogance" is an old trick to dodge the conversation. It says more about you than myself. I told you to use Google if you are unsure of what to write. I understand how a bigot will think that to be an insult. After all, your posts have shown that you type faster than you think or that you type authoritatively about concepts you do not have a basic understanding about.

I haven't replied you with an insult since we started conversing. So, if you feel that's the tangent you want to go, know I wouldn't play in the dirt with you.

-Lord

firstly, You are the type that sees other people's opinion superior to yours. That is the only logical conclusion I have drawn from your rants about checking Google.

secondly, if you truly know the meaning of orientation, you would've been so ashamed of yourself to have said "paedophilia has nothing to do with orientation"

thirdly, I've also found out that you are the type that lies without shame...you said you never insulted me but this particular statement was boldly written in your last post and I quote "Bro, can't you at least use Google to "help your ministry" even if your linguistic intelligence is low. No offense intended.
-Lord " what if I tell you that you sound incorrigible, Hope that wouldn't sound offensive?

LordAdam16:
Pedophilia and incest are not sexual orientations.

And I'd break it down so that you can understand very clearly. A homosexual has sex with a boy child--Pedophilia. An heterosexual has sex with a girl child--Pedophilia. Pedophilia is wrong whether it is done by an heterosexual or an homosexual. Simply because it hurts the kid as the kid did not give consent.

Bro, can't you at least use Google to "help your ministry" even if your linguistic intelligence is low. No offense intended.

-Lord

I told you not to quote me again. I've told you before about your bad attitude Which is your inability to open your mind to learning new things. Stop showing your stupidity everywhere with your long epistle. "Paedophilia is a “sexual orientation” like being straight or gay, according to a criminal psychologist." source: http://www.independent.co.uk/news/paedophilia-sexual-orientation-straight-gay-criminal-psychologist-child-sex-abuse-a6965956.html . I know that you don't like learning new things but I will try to change you, "use of terms are not always finite" always remember that. You are not just dull but also a fool who likes wallowing in ignorance.

electricpole:
your are still out of point..... Gay rights is inevitable... All you can do is cry foul while they care less....... I really dont know when someone's sexuality becomes another person's burden to the extent of been cruel...... We all should mind our business... No matter the epistle of words, some people will never understand this LGBT issues::::::: your stealing analogy is out of the box

people like you will also support paedophilia and incest and still come online to give me stupid reasons why I shouldn't comment on the issue. after all it's their sexual orientation... nonsense.

sheunszy:
Am very sure olamide can't neva stand vector in a rap battle...

every sincere person knows that too.

Earth2Metahuman:
Just average

people like you will never put their pic.

If he truly said that then I'm. disappointed. He's invariably telling us that he's a bad teacher and he believes so much in his inability to teach the likes of lil kesh who's signed under him the rudiments of good music.

He just behaved like our versity lecturers who find it hard to award students A's when they merit it because they don't want Anyone "to take their crown"

finally, vector sounds better than him... while phyno will always be "the man of the year" for me... him, bragging isn't the right thing to do, he should do a rap battle with vector Let's see.

Ps: that he's popular doesn't make him the best.

LordAdam16:
Why can't you answer the simple question?

Does homosexuality really hurt you?

Don't bring the herd mentality into the equation. There was a time when 2/3 of the world's population felt black Africans (like you) weren't human. That you are an ape. Did it make them correct?

There was also a time when 2/3 of the world's population felt okay with slavery. Did it make them correct.

Black Africans were called abnormal once? Did it make the proponents correct?

Are you abnormal?

This is the definition of abnormality:



Note the part in bold.

In a medical context, homosexuals are not abnormal. In a sociologist context, homosexuals are not abnormal. In all scientific contexts, homosexuals are not abnormal.

So you and most of the world's population are wrong. Which is why most of the world is correcting their wrongs by adopting a more homophilic stance as the years progress.

Gay/Asexual/Pansexual/Bisexual/and people with differing sexual orientation are not abnormal people. They only have a varied sexual orientation.

Like different colors. That's the reason for the RAINBOW being the pictorial representation of the LGBTQ+ society.

For the avoidance of doubt, this is the definition of variation:



I don't expect you to have a radical shift in your ideology at a time. I don't even think I can force you to accept it. I'm pretty sure you do not have a close relationship with any homosexual person. So, I can understand how you feel. Humans are hard-wired to oppose anything that they aren't familiar with.

As a Christian you'd ask, why do muslims bow to pray? It doesn't sound right.
As an African you'd ask, why do Western kids call older relations by their names and not their titles? Like "How are you doing, James" instead of "How are you doing Uncle." It doesn't sound right.
As an extrovert you'd ask, why do introverts always so quiet? It doesn't sound right.
As a calm person you'd ask, why do brutes always like fighting? It doesn't sound right.
As a quiet person you'd ask, why do loud people raise their voice? It doesn't sound right.

I could continue. We are humans because we understand variation when we see it. We grow to understand ourselves more and realize that previous misconceptions aren't eternal truths (like that Earth is the center of the Universe). And when we realize these previous misconceptions we adopt the newer enlightened explanation even if it takes time and some adjustment. But we eventually come around.

I have faith that most heterosexuals will come around. That they would see the diversity of sexual orientation as they see the diversity in the plant and animal kingdom, in personality, in temperament, between celestial bodies, between races, even in colors.

The strength of mankind is in diversity not conformity.

-Lord

Firstly, I will like to tell you that I don't hate gay people, but that doesn't mean that i will be happy to have one as a son or daughter. My problem with you gay right activists is you portray the act to be "all good" when it isn't. In today's world, people have been made to believe that it's imposable for a man not cheat on his wife.
..There are people with sickle cell anaemia, I don't hate them and I will never will, but that doesn't mean that I will ever pay media houses to promote people to marry those with the ailment when I'm pretty sure of the threat that will cause to the human race.


secondly, I can tell you that no one was born gay! homosexuality can traced to sexual abuses... people are deceived to believing they were born gay, but it's a pure lie. it's either you were abused into believing you were born gay or you you have "klinefelters syndrome" Which is a health condition resulting to having "xxy chromosome " instead of the normal "xy" for men or just one "x" instead of "xx" for female.

My point is this, no one was born gay, it's either they were abused into it or they have a health condition called klinefelter's syndrome Which made them believe there are gays.

Let me emphasize this again, I don't hate gay people, I only hate the act and the people that see it as normal when in reality it isn't. I won't quote you again tho'. stay with your belief and leave me with mine.

funny but true... FG will finish you and your mates after rendering you hopeless with this ever boring statement "you are are the leaders of tomorrow" when it's clear that there ain't anything like it.

Lmao what to do na?

we know that nothing will come out of it.

electricpole:
common you are out of point..... Having sex out of marriage or before marriage is abnormal too..... Deal with that.... We all have our lives to live

so because people cheat, we should also allow gay rights?? this your analogy is the stupidest thing I've seen since today. it's just like saying, since people steal at home, we should also endorse politicians who steal. Have you seen how stupid u sounded?

ibnidris:
U have kill him... let him upload his result... if dey are not together

Lol. But I didn't write that to belittle him tho'

LordAdam16:
Oh finally, you read my post.

What doth it profit you to be unnecessarily arrogant?

And again what is it with being pathologically judgmental. What you think about the length of my post is immaterial. Pointless nonsense to be frank. You may find it unnecessary, but I don't give a hoot. Because someone else will find it necessary. So what makes your opinion of what is and isn't necessary more important or valuable than mine or some other person? Especially, when your poor excuse of a retort doesn't paint a good picture about your rationality.

Stealing and sexual orientation are two polar opposites. They shouldn't even be in the same sentence.

Stealing directly hurts other people. Look no further than the present state of our country.

Since your intelligence is somewhat deficient and unable to process drawn out logical thought processes, let me ask you a simple question. Who does sexual orientation hurt? In fact, to be more direct. Does homosexuality directly hurt you?

Your point is an illogical point. It's comparing apples to oranges.

-Lord

you are delusional and your cerebral processing is very slow. so, you are tryna tell me that 2/3 of the world's population that has been kicking against lgbt has been doing so out of sheer wickedness? if thats your thought then, you must be a slowpoke. I don't see why a sane person will feel indifferent when he sees his male child acting gay. if gay people ain't abnormal people, tell me what abnormality is?

Maghan37:
I think it is a befitting sentence. Those who think diff did not read the story. The Igbo boy did not just steal the phone but also tried to commit murder. Stealing the iPhone is one thing but stabbing someone on the head for it is another thing entirely. It shows how despicable he is and a waste of society . If he can kill for an iPhone then I cannot imagine what he 'all do for a million naira.

bigot...

HeGeMon:
Mr academics, Mr 1st in class 1st overall have u applied for civil service? Did ur name come out? Go & check, rubbish

I don't know why people like taking things seriously when it isn't necessary... what has service got to do with my post now are you always like this I think you need to change, bro.

teebaxy:
isn't it not better to be same birds with dino that an hypocritical person like you

I can authoritatively tell you that you don't know who a hypocrite is, if you do, you wouldn't have used it on me....you can now go and Check the meaning.

LordAdam16:
Like I don't give a sh*t if you decide to use your brain or not.

The reply is not just for you. It's also for the other people who would appreciate an expose on sexuality. Most of us are too busy with our lives, work, family, surviving, and other issues to carefully read multiple blogs, research papers, op-eds and other publications, or even engage in open discussions about sexuality.

Well-detailed posts like the one you quoted are relatively abridged content forms to better inform this category of people.

Don't flatter yourself unnecessarily. All the talk and conversation of racism doesn't get to the heads of the light-skinned people killing blacks in Libya, Russia and elsewhere. Nor does all the talk and conversation about women emancipation get to the heads of the Shieks and Alfas in the Middle East, Northern Nigeria and elsewhere.

Some people are condemned from birth to be irredeemable bigots. If you are one of such people, I can't waste my pity on you or pander to your ego (however inflated).

The LGBTQ+ movement does not have a pause button and is only growing stronger. How do you feel?

-Lord

you need to change, brother. Your attitude is bad. you keep a closed mind to arguments. Now, you are advising me to subscribe to your line of thinking when you've shown yourself to be someone who's too rigid to advices. I will advice you one more time... Stop writing long texts where they aren't needed, it doesn't make you sound smart. it only depicts you as someone who's incapable of arriving at his point.

secondly, on your LGBT orientation, I will like to ask you this; children steal without even knowing why they do so, so according to you, we should allow and encourage them because it has been their orientation?

My point is, gay attitude is a bad attitude just as stealing which when properly and constructively managed is eradicated.
PS: please if you are going to bore me again with long unnecessary post don't mind replying me, cheers.

bitcoinvin:
useless people in useless country..Dino who had carry over and ur President who has no Waec Result,who is better..Our Problem in Nigeria is Kettle calling a Pot Black.

I was joking bros... but on a serious note, none of them should be where they are...only the best are allowed to sit their positions.

LordAdam16:
Has your heterosexuality being genetically proven? If it has, please point the research paper out to me.

You have no right to ask for genetic proof for homosexuality when you haven't provided a genetic proof for heterosexuality.

The definite research that point towards genetic markers for extroversion and introversion was completed recently in 2005. It still has holes in the narrative and doesn't tell how much these genetic markers influence extroversion and introversion. Yet, modern social scientific study on extroversion/introversion started over 100 years ago. The Watson and Crick DNA model came out in 1953 more than 50 years before this seeming genetic confirmation.

The search for a genetic marker for sexual orientation didn't start until less than 2 decades ago. It has always been a taboo topic. These things take time. But we aren't going to wait until we find a marker because it wouldn't stop you guys from even pointing out that if there is a genetic marker then it must be an aberration of the heterosexual marker. You see closeted minds like yourself aren't waiting for science to prove you wrong, you're waiting to poke holes in science.

Preliminary scientific research has said nothing is wrong with homosexuals. That homosexuality is a normal variation of heterosexuality, like asexuality, bisexuality, pansexuality, and other queer-ities. Did that change your perception? NO!

For a while, you guys said even the animals don't practice homosexuality, so why humans. That homosexuals were worse than animals. Then peculiar instances of animal homosexuality were documented and shown. Did that change your perception? NO!

Let's just put it straight. Homophobic bigots live in the same bubble as racists and supremacists. There is nothing science will do that will change your perception if you aren't even ready to open your mind up for discussion. Discussion starts when there is tolerance. You guys can't even tolerate homosexuals.

There is nothing wrong with that boy. And if he grows to be a heterosexual transvestite or homosexual, he'd still not be any less than a boy/man than any average full-on heterosexual male out there. You cannot be any more of a man than Elton John or Domenico Dolce or Stefano Gabbana or Peter Thiel or Michael Kors. Each of these men are more successful than you could ever be. They are the men they are meant to be. They are homosexuals.

It doesn't mean they are better than you. It also doesn't mean you're better than them. We are all humans doing our little to better humanity.

Your sexual orientation doesn't make you a normal functioning male. It's understanding, tolerance, compassion, empathy (qualities you clearly lack) that makes true men. Homophobic men like yourself are poor excuses of what an ideal man should be. Stop projecting your failure on your others. You are no different from racist KKK members who think Black Africans are apes.



That will make him avoid you and become a recluse. Shout and yab (verbally mock) a kid for something he can't control NOR IS HURTFUL to anyone is your idea of help? Toughening up doesn't make a person less gay. Butch homosexuals would make an example of you in a fight any day and take more abuse while you're already tearing up.

Wake up and smell the coffee. Heterosexuals may be in the majority. It doesn't make us the poster children of sexuality. Maybe that's coming as a shock to you. And you are still in denial phase and trying your best to fight it. I can assure you it's a fight you've already lost. Minorities have fought and put the rim on slavery, racism, and sexism. Violence and discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity is the new frontier. It is a tougher (and I imagine longer) fight, but the odds are in our favor.

Homosexuals, asexuals, bisexuals, and every other minority non-heterosexual groups have proven to be law-abiding, normal people capable of achieving success, contributing immensely to humanity, and have the compassion, tolerance, and doggedness that also make heterosexuals human. They may be murdered, maimed, imprisoned, discriminated against, denied rights, and jeered at for the meantime; but the RAINBOW (symbol of the LGBTQ+ movement) shines after the rain.

Heterosexism is an EVIL. “The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.”

I will not "DO NOTHING."

-Lord

I don't know what you guys enjoy by writing long uncorrelated epistle just to prove a point... writing a long note doesn't make your argument superior. To prove that, believe you me, I did not read one thing from that long sh.it you wrote up there...now, how do you feel?

has he shown appreciation to the crew that inspired him?

ain't those two guys crazy

joe4real12:
When has it become a criminal offense to have carry over, especially in an unjust society.

So e don tey wey dem don dey beef this guy.

#istandwithdino

why you no go. stand with am? birds of the Same feather.

martynsnet:
I may have, as a kid we all MAY, but guy am not talking about a one time thing, or acting like a woman during play (all those mama n papa kinda), am telling u this kid is just like that, as in its his life style. He's not playing.... cant really describe it for u.

brother shout at him and yab him whenever he's acting all sissy around you...that will make him toughen up.

uzoclinton:
Sexual orientation is not a choice.... some people are born Gay some are born straight.....

is this bs genetically. proven the nephew has "xy " as his sex determinant chromosome, so just spare us this your fallacious statement. The guy is still young and can still be made to understand the need to be a boy/man he was meant to be.

low self esteem.

Ahmed0336:
That one looks like a womaniser to me

na u know, bro.

I don't trust john dumelo...dude been acting gay for long.

DanseMacabre:
Riddance.

thanks.

Evaberry:
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ASHAWO!!!!!


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