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 Music/Radio / Re: 96.9 Cool FM Or Rhythm 93.7 FM: Which Is The Best? by PaddyPat1(m): 1:39pm On Feb 20, 2006 |
It is not just a matter of which of the two is the best, it all depends on the angle you are looking at it. But with things put together, I believe Rhythm 93.7FM because they are more inclined to their audience and not one big dog speaking tunes they are not understood by the audience. Take out Dan Foster from Cool FM, what you have is nothing. The presenters there tend to be immitating Dan Foster, they don't have originality as you could find at Rhythm. |
| Family / Re: Caught Your Housemaid With Your Spouse by PaddyPat1(m): 9:14am On Feb 20, 2006 |
That is lovely to hear Adheri, I am happy that you acknowledge that you don't need a maid, you are a dutiful wife. Please don't get me wrong, I am not justifying sleeping with your wife housemaid or any other woman but there is no smoke without fire. You don't have to sex starved your husband just because you are a career woman and even neglect the home. Always be a good wife my dear sister. |
| Family / Re: Caught Your Housemaid With Your Spouse by PaddyPat1(m): 10:40am On Feb 16, 2006 |
Women! You all failed to ask one vital question here. What made your spouse to have something with your housemaid in the first place? Most of you usually take it for granted that your husband also need to be pampered just like you or the children at home. Most times the guy is in the midst of croud but still very lonely, you are with your children and he becomes secondary to you. You are not always around the home, you don't see him more often as when you were in courtship, those things you both used to do in those times are now outdated to you, you don't seem to know anything about him anymore, you don't care how he feels. I can go on and on but that is not an issue here. Be a good and dutiful wife to your husband, let him sees you as that reliable partner in all angles. Does women need a housemaid? I know alot of you will castrates me for this but just wait a little. Gone are those days couple usually have large number of children, the most these days is four children which are usually spaced. So let really ask ourselves, do we really need an housemaid as a good and dutiful wife? But if you feel you need one, must she be closer to your husband than you? Must she take your place in the house except the bedroom? If she can do every other things a wife should have done, she could as well service your husband too. So you caught them on it! If you like you could pack your bags or whatever you might have hanging in the house. But that is not the solution. Call your husband, talk to him on the danger of what he is doing to his home in relation to having an affair outside the home in the first place not to talk with a maid to his wife. Not trying to announced it to the world what he might have done. I tell you, the shame will ultimately be on you. Do you expect him to keep quite and watch you disgraced him? No he won't. So young woman be a good wife to your husband, being his friend as you used to be before the marriage and a housemaid will not take him from you. |
| Family / Re: When Mums Walk Out by PaddyPat1(m): 10:10am On Feb 16, 2006 |
Though it is totally wrong for a mother to abandon her child considering the pains she went through the nine months she carried him/her but that is the moral point of view. There are times one would do things we all consider morally wrong but what happens when that one has no option but do that is wrong? Men! May God help them. I am a man and I have no apology for saying men are animals. You know this woman is not your standard, she is not worthy to be your wife, why go after her in the first place? No woman is insane, they all cheerish children including the insane ones. Or haven't you seen a mad woman with a child, protecting that child with all she could so that nobody will take that child from her? So this is not about a woman being insaned as assumed by hot-angel. Men are the problem of this world, that woman could have been abandon at the last minute by a man she trusted with her. Or if it is not even so, she might not be able to have an abortion cause in most country it is illegal to have abortion, ot the doctoe might even advised her against it for health reasons, "you might die woman" some will be told. And more worrisome, some men will give it as a condition before she could be employed for a job that no nursing in our establishment and she must work to survive. So tell me what she could do in the face of such situations? Abandoning the child might not be the best option for her but it is one of them.[/color] |
| Romance / Re: Ever Had A Strong Feeling For Someone But Didn't Say? by PaddyPat1(m): 3:53pm On Feb 09, 2006 |
Everyone of us have faced this at one point of ourlives or the other. There is nothing wrong in there but I have been through it and I must confess it really hurt. Even there are at times you leave a relationship and you still felt it should have be permanent. Like I do tell most of my friends, most of us have abandon those that truly loves us and ended up marrying those that like that us instead. There is this girl I once came across in my life, her name is Charity Eghaghase, I just hope I get her surname correctly. The last time I heard from her she said she is now in Abuja. I really wish I can still relive those time we were together in secondary school allover so that I can really tell her the way I felt then. We were practically spending much time together in my room and even at school cause she was my classmate back then. Almost everybody in our class thought there was something between us but las I couldn't bring myself to tell her and you know Nigerian girls are of this opinion that it is not African to tell a guy how you are feeling towards him even when it is glaring she is down with the guy. There was this jealous tendency back then the two always had whenever any of us is speaking or being too close to another person of the opposite sex. We really love ourselves that our families could even feel it but none of us was able to speak up and that is how we ended up without actually telling each other the way we really feel for each other. I think I even bought alot of things for her back then and she was in the cloud hoping I will just come up with the thoughts on my mind. Her was even so jealous that she really came for me with this attitude "I want to have sex with you" every time she had the opportunity. I think that even caused fight between both of them back then. All I can say is even right now I still have that feeling for her, I had the opportunity to tell her the last time we spoke but one way or the other I couldn't still tell her. Who ever know of that name please tell Charity that I have always love her and I am still loving her.  |
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