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Travel / Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 17 by Pamfresh(m): 8:40pm On Jan 30 |
Tender344:Amen. Thank you 1 Like |
Travel / Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 17 by Pamfresh(m): 8:40am On Jan 30 |
The University of Kansas just gave me my first admission denial in pharmaceutical chemistry (PhD). Six more schools to go. I feel dejected right now because I thought that as a Pharmacist with master's in pharmaceutical chemistry that I stand a chance. 😢 😢 😢 |
Travel / Re: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 17 by Pamfresh(m): 9:59am On Jan 09 |
Please, is there a WhatsApp group here one can join to get more information regarding USA PhD fully funded scholarship? I ve applied to some schools already and still applying but I would like to belong to a group where I could get some updates and information. 08130545073 Thank you! |
Family / Re: My Brothers Gambling Problem by Pamfresh(m): 4:20pm On Nov 14, 2023 |
devoutpraise:Amen. I pray everyday that this be a dream but I wake up to it everyday. My B.P has gone up since I learnt of it. My brother is too gentle to think he could fall for gambling. |
Family / Re: My Brothers Gambling Problem by Pamfresh(m): 4:02pm On Nov 14, 2023 |
easzypeaszy:How can we start up a business for him when he's just coming out of the seminary? The real world is a different world from where he has bn living in. Besides, I ve assessed him and seen he can't run a business yet. |
Family / Re: My Brothers Gambling Problem by Pamfresh(m): 5:36pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
AsomArchitectNG:I used to hear about gambling cases but I treat it with levity. Little did I know that my own younger bro that is supposed to be a reverend father in few yrs time was a victim. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: My Brothers Gambling Problem by Pamfresh(m): 5:23pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
frozen70:He borrows from friends and loan sharks. He was in seminary school so ppl thought borrowing him money was contributing to God's work not knowing he was betting with the money. 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Brothers Gambling Problem by Pamfresh(m): 5:20pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
28plus:My dad is already considering locking him up because we recently discovered he used my dad's BVN and our last born's BVN to borrow total of 400k from loan sharks. That's the one that threw all of us off balance 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: My Brothers Gambling Problem by Pamfresh(m): 8:31pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: The seminary doesn't even know about his addiction. We hope to get him a job as soon as he's done with service next yr since he's done with philosophy. The problem is that he's still borrowing to bet and he's 28 yrs old. How do I control an adult. If not for my parents, I would ve left him to his faith 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Brothers Gambling Problem by Pamfresh(m): 8:24pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
Kul3ger: Thank you. I picked up somethings here that would help 4 Likes |
Family / Re: My Brothers Gambling Problem by Pamfresh(m): 7:15pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
Kul3ger: What kind of help do u suggest please. We only paid up the much we can now because of loan interest accumulation |
Family / Re: My Brothers Gambling Problem by Pamfresh(m): 7:13pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
FreeStuffsNG: The only issue is that he borrows with his family members details. First was our last born, now I discovered he borrowed with my Dad's details as well. The loan shark ppl ve bn calling and harassing them to pay up. If not for the harassment, I would ve allowd him wallow in his mess 3 Likes |
Family / My Brothers Gambling Problem by Pamfresh(m): 5:33pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
Please I need mature minds advise on this topic. My family recently discovered that my younger brother who has been in the seminary and was supposed to be a reverend father in few years time has a very big gambling issue. Over the years, he has accumulated a gambling debt of 2M (borrowed majorly from loan sharks). When I discovered about the incidence, I hesitated involving my retired dad and mum because of the shock they might get hearing about this but when I discovered I couldn't pay the debt alone, i had to involve them. Thank God they handled it calmly. My dad and I have offset 700k debts already but I recently discovered that he is still borrowing and betting even recently (someone that has access to his details revealed this to me today). I am totally devastated and I don't know how to relay this to my parents to avoid heart attack. The gruesome part of the whole story is that he is JOBLESS because of his seminary school journey (which he has willingly pulled out from because of this issue). Please my fellow nairanders, how do I handle this problem? I'm fed up 15 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: Is Age Barriers In Marriage Really A Problem by Pamfresh(m): 1:18pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
tunize:She told me and I also found out it's true |
Romance / Re: Is Age Barriers In Marriage Really A Problem by Pamfresh(m): 1:15pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
stanliwise:I'm looking at it from the biological angle. I see it that in the next decade she's probably ageing faster than I n it might affect me in the future. But she has most of the qualities I want in a woman when it comes to spec. If u were me, would u go ahead and marry her? |
Romance / Re: Is Age Barriers In Marriage Really A Problem by Pamfresh(m): 1:03pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
cooooooks:How? |
Romance / Re: Is Age Barriers In Marriage Really A Problem by Pamfresh(m): 12:48pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
SmellySperm:Please I would be grateful to know ur reasons. That's y I created this thread 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Is Age Barriers In Marriage Really A Problem by Pamfresh(m): 12:27pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
Juliusmomoh:She actually has a baby fine face. U can only tell her age by her hand (has kind of Christian mother hand). |
Romance / Re: Is Age Barriers In Marriage Really A Problem by Pamfresh(m): 12:25pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
Bennysam:Thanks. I need more opinions |
Romance / Re: Is Age Barriers In Marriage Really A Problem by Pamfresh(m): 12:24pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
nuelsam:What was the age difference? Were u willing to settle down with her if it had come to that? |
Romance / Re: Is Age Barriers In Marriage Really A Problem by Pamfresh(m): 12:22pm On Aug 27, 2020 |
SavageBoy:This is encouraging. Thanks!!! |
Romance / Re: Is Age Barriers In Marriage Really A Problem by Pamfresh(m): 2:52am On Aug 27, 2020 |
Pegi23:That's really commendable but I think it becomes more intriguing when the man is younger. 1 Like |
Romance / Is Age Barriers In Marriage Really A Problem by Pamfresh(m): 1:57am On Aug 27, 2020 |
I had to create a new account because of this topic. Mod please help me push this to front page as it would help mould or mar my relationship. Thanks!!! Please my fellow nairalanders I need advice on this age of a thing. It has been bothering me. I'm 29 years old and currently dating a lady older than me by 3 years. Our relationship is still in its early stage ( 4 months plus) but I need to here people's opinion about our age differences. This lady is a lady after my heart, she's very understanding, pretty, hardworking and above all a virgin (a proof that she's not promiscuous even at 32). I really want to settle down with her but whenever I remember the age discrepancy I usually ve a second thought. Recently, she just told me she dreamt of when I left her for another girl and according to her most of her dreams come to pass. I have bn troubled since then cos I don't want to shatter her heart. I am kind of the only son of my family (my younger brother is a senior seminarian) and my family has bn putting pressure on me to get married. I'm planning on getting married late next yr or early next two years and I wish to have like four to five children with good spacing and each time I remember my girlfriend's age it gives me a concern besides there is this saying that ladies age faster than men and I wouldn't like that. Apart from the age barrier she's really my spec but I ve bn trying so hard to overlook that n I can't still get over it. Please, help me out with the pros and cons of a man getting married to someone older than him by 3 years. Is it advisable? |
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