cooooooks:
It's like you want to generate a problem.

stanliwise:
@Pamfresh
Biologically - Yes and please never ignore this. Age is so so important that Age and biological functioning goes hand in hand. Depends on how much care though

Psychological - Yes, it has a lot to do with how you think things and how you react to them. But age and psychology are a bit technical, some are more mature in mind despite their young age. While some are not so mature despite being so old.

Socially - Not at all, anyone can share, love and interact, there is no limitations.

So it depends on your angle and if you ask my opinion I will say you should not go ahead until you think otherwise.
Reason is you already now have an insecurity on the age of thing. You need to get to specifics of what you fear in the future and consider what you will do in worst case scenario.
Happy thinking.

tunize:
She is a virgin at 32 na waitn she tell u or na waitn u know? because both na two different thing.
3yrs is no big deal though me i can cope with 3yrs but above that lia lia

Pamfresh:

I'm looking at it from the biological angle. I see it that in the next decade she's probably ageing faster than I n it might affect me in the future. But she has most of the qualities I want in a woman when it comes to spec.
If u were me, would u go ahead and marry her?

Juliusmomoh:
Lai lai... I can't marry someone older than me... During s*x, it whould look as if am doing it with grandmama

Pamfresh:

She told me and I also found out it's true

ZINIBANKS:

Can you state your reasons for saying this

Pamfresh:
I had to create a new account because of this topic.
Mod please help me push this to front page as it would help mould or mar my relationship. Thanks!!!
Please my fellow nairalanders I need advice on this age of a thing. It has been bothering me.
I'm 29 years old and currently dating a lady older than me by 3 years. Our relationship is still in its early stage ( 4 months plus) but I need to here people's opinion about our age differences.
This lady is a lady after my heart, she's very understanding, pretty, hardworking and above all a virgin (a proof that she's not promiscuous even at 32). I really want to settle down with her but whenever I remember the age discrepancy I usually ve a second thought. Recently, she just told me she dreamt of when I left her for another girl and according to her most of her dreams come to pass. I have bn troubled since then cos I don't want to shatter her heart. I am kind of the only son of my family (my younger brother is a senior seminarian) and my family has bn putting pressure on me to get married. I'm planning on getting married late next yr or early next two years and I wish to have like four to five children with good spacing and each time I remember my girlfriend's age it gives me a concern besides there is this saying that ladies age faster than men and I wouldn't like that. Apart from the age barrier she's really my spec but I ve bn trying so hard to overlook that n I can't still get over it.
Please, help me out with the pros and cons of a man getting married to someone older than him by 3 years. Is it advisable?