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maynation: Mtchewww!!

Please don't allow yourself to be consumed by negativity.

rawpadgin: op can u go & ur dad that u want to become a native doctor & see if u owe him an explanation

Well, I'm sure there a lot of native doctors out there and they owe no one any explanation.

Many choices we make in life—ranging from what we do, to how we conduct ourselves, and who we interact with—are subject to prying questions and commentary from those around us. Family members, friends, and even total strangers, it often seems like everyone has an opinion on the things we do, no matter how small or insignificant those things might seem to us.

Sometimes people go so far as to ask you to explain yourself for the decisions or choices you make in your own life. You might feel obliged to respond, but some things are really no one else’s business and you don’t owe anyone an explanation at all for the following 15 things—though you think you do.

1. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for your living situation.

Whether you are cohabiting with your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend, crashing in different motel rooms across the country, or living with your parents for a while when you are past your twenties, you don’t have to explain yourself to anyone for who you live with and why if you don’t want to. If you are fully aware of your living situation, then it means you have your own reasons for being in that situation that are nobody else’s business.

2. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for your life priorities.

You have your own ideas about the things that would make you and your loved ones truly comfortable and happy, which is your main priority. Since we are all unique individuals with different values, dreams and aspirations, your core priorities will be different from the next person’s. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for what you determine is your core priority in life. That is your personal business not other people’s business.

3. You don’t owe anyone an apology if you are not sorry.

If you don’t regret your actions, still think someone is wrong about something or don’t care much for their forgiveness, you don’t have to apologize. Many people are too quick to offer apologies and try to mend wounds that are not yet ready to be mended, which only serves to aggravate the wound and bring more problems. You really don’t have to apologize if you are not sorry or your side of the story hasn’t been heard.

4. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for requiring alone time.

You might worry that you will come across as “rude,” “anti-social” or “aloof” when you cancel plans or other obligations because you need some time alone to reboot, unwind or just enjoy a good book by yourself. However, spending time alone is a completely normal, natural and necessary practice that more people should adopt. Take your alone time confidently because you don’t owe anybody an explanation for it.

5. You don’t owe anyone your agreement on their personal beliefs.

Just because someone shares their personal beliefs passionately doesn’t mean you have to sit there and nod in approval to everything they say. If you don’t share in their beliefs, it is unfair to yourself and to the other person to suppress your own thoughts and feelings and pretend you agree with them. It’s okay and better to disagree with them gracefully instead of bottling up your disapproval and frustrations.

6. You don’t owe anyone a yes to everything they say.

You have a right to say no whenever there is no compelling reason to say yes. In fact, the most successful people in the world are those who have mastered the art of saying no to everything that is not a priority. Acknowledge other people’s kindness and be grateful for it, but don’t be afraid to politely decline anything that takes your focus away from your core goals and priorities. That’s how to get ahead.

7. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for your physical appearance.

You might be slender, plump, tall, short, pretty, plain or whatever, but you don’t have to explain yourself to anyone for why you look how you do. Your physical appearance is your own business and you are obligated only to yourself. Physical appearance shouldn’t determine your self-worth.

8. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for your food preferences.

There are certain foods that you just don’t like at all for different reasons, including taste preference and health issues. You don’t have to explain to anyone at all why you prefer certain foods. Your food preference is a matter that is best left to you. If anyone pesters you about why you are eating (or not eating) certain foods, shrug it off and just say you feel better eating (or not eating) those foods.

9. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for your sex life.

As long as it happens with another consenting adult, you don’t owe anyone an explanation for where, when and how you conduct your sex life. You can wait for marriage, try one-night stands or experiment with same sex encounters to your heart’s pleasure and still not have to explain your sexual preferences to anybody.

10. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for your career or personal life choices.

Sometimes circumstances force us to choose between work and “having a life.” The decision is not always easy and you might end up choosing work, not because you don’t care about your family or social life, but because you are working on something that will give you security in the future. Either way, you don’t owe others an explanation for choosing a career over your personal life (or vice versa) as long as you are confident about what you are doing and why you are doing it.

11. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for your religious or political views.

Whether you are a Democrat, Republican, Catholic, Protestant or Muslim, that is your own personal choice. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for why you are what you are and believe what you believe. If someone can’t accept you for who you are, that is their personal dogma—not yours.

12. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for being single.

Whether you are single by design or by default that is nobody’s business. Being single is not a personality disorder. You are free to be in a relationship or not. Besides, you are far more than your relationship status and singlehood is just one of those social labels no one should really care about.

13. You don’t owe anyone a date just because they asked.

Someone might be nice, good looking and you may even be a little interested, but you don’t owe them a date just because they ask. If you feel deep down you don’t want to go on that date, then don’t. You may offer a reason for declining, but keep it brief and stick to your decision.

14. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for your decision about marriage.

Whether or not you choose to get married and have kids or stay unmarried and be childfree, that is your own personal decision. Even your mom who is dying for grandchildren should understand that marriage is a personal decision and not suited for everyone. She should respect your decision about it no matter how hard it is to swallow.

15. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for your relationship choices.

Sometimes people make inappropriate commentary about your romantic relationship(s), which is really none of their business. You might overhear comments like you are not the “perfect couple” or you should find someone else. However, you are not answerable to anyone but yourself for your relationship choices. Live your life and never, ever leave or stay in a relationship just because someone else says you have to. Make your own mistakes if you must, but learn from them always.

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Nice but funny question

Op is speaking in Gbaganese language.

tunmmyunited: .

This guy dey book space even pass Astronaut.

s3nn2x: I will do just that

pesty100: enjoy d error while it lasts

mumu9gerian: they are still on basic bouquet Bro,why not call their helpline for assistance

bumytebaby: Pls, I want to no those channels dt r free 2 air on starTimes.

alstacs: Have you got any info on StarSat?

Hello guys, pls help!.
Pls what is the current price of startimes decoder?.
And please suggest to me which is better between startimes and Gotv?.
Thanks.

WTF is WTF?.
Airtel going crazy day by day.

[quote author=genny2kuk][/quote]please how much is the consat decoder?

Bunchersstab: I need ten pieces of these...

I know you're joking.

Pls where can I get this phone in Abuja? Or Makurdi?

psychologist: yh thats the best deal bro
Btwn aw can I check my remaining mb, I do use *123*10# and it twil continually bring 200.17 mb even tho av subscribed for close to 3 wks now..btwn I do losts of downloading and yet d data won't reduce or increase from it 200.17mb

Is der a way of checking it apart from *123*10#?

Dial *123*9#

Diaris God ooo

I've not read such a great post for a very long time.
My heart beats as I read as if OP is talking to me directly.

coretechng1: Hmmm. I will advice you go dhl way though expensive but its safer and faster.

I got my order yesterday. It's exactly 25 days. I think Singapore post have tried on this one.

Hallelujah.
I've received my order from Singpost today.
It takes a total of 25 days to get to me. This is my first time really. It's amazing.
A big thanks to all the contributors of this thread.

What of Jesse Jagz?

kolomax: I need your help please my oga's in the house I bought a particular modem on Al for 13.69$ which was deducted on my account on Friday but to my amusement another 13.69$ was deducted in my account around 3am this morning in which I did. not order for anything the same thing happen to me last month when am ordering for some jewelry please house any help am using gtb

Same thing happened to me. I use a GTB master card. My account was deducted the day I did the transaction, the following day, they deducted my account again, but when I check my balance from an ATM, money is intact.
I advice that you do the same thing.

mxxpunkxx1: Yes, Singapore post, about 45 days delivery ...

Kai, that's too long o.
Thanks Bro.

mxxpunkxx1: Singapore post
U're on a long tin

Have you use them before?.
Pls share your experience.

coretechng1: And it always arrive intact?

.
I can't tell really, cos this is my first time of buying stuff on aliexpress.

Hello guys, I shipped my Tablet from Aliexpress via Singpost, it's more than 3 weeks now and I've not gotten it.
Pls who've used Singpost before?. Kindly share your experience.

I shipped my goods from Aliexpress via singpost, but I don't know if this is going to affect it. It's been more than 3 weeks now and I've not received it.

I dey expect say I go see some from the North with Hijab

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data recovery by researchers at Avast found that
supposedly-erased phones harbored thousands of
items of personal data, some of them significant.
The research plan was simple. The researchers
purchased 20 used phones on eBay and dug into
them to see just what kind of information they
could recover. It makes sense that the
samples were all Android phones. That makes
sense. Used iPhones are tougher to crack. The
biggest possible problem with buying a used
iPhone is that you'll find it "iCloud locked,"
meaning it's probably stolen and therefore
unusable.

What They Found

Because the data on these phones wasn't
securely deleted, the researchers managed to
gather a veritable mountain of personal data.
They recovered over 40,000 photos, including over
1,500 photos of children, 750 racy photos of
women, and 250 of "what appear to be the
previous owner's manhood." Emails, contacts,
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all the relevant personal details.
"More than 80,000 used smartphones are for sale
daily on eBay in the U.S.," said Jude McColgan,
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http://securitywatch.pcmag.com/security-software/325313-by-selling-your-smartphone-you-re-selling-yourself

okeyxyz: it seems @plaetton has shut up, after I expose his aimless shooting at issues that has nothing to do with christian doctrine, yet he deliberately attributes them to be christian. Such smelly dishonesty!!

He says Jesus never existed, I push back with logic, he shuts up
He says christianity is a rehash of ancient religions, I push back by challenging him to proof, he shuts up
He says christian doctrine preaches hate for homose.xuals, I push back with doctrine to the contrary, he shuts up.
He says christianity rejects natural laws, I push back with scriptural evidence, he shuts up.

No be to make noise be the matter, But when dem challenge you, are you able to deliver. Now we know you are just empty, hence the much noise.

So you prove the existence of Jesus with logic?. Does the bible even prove the existence of Jesus with logic?

okeyxyz: ^^^ To start with, the true ideas of God are definitely christian(ie: based on christ, but not the christianity that you are used to). True christianity embraces all things in nature, not forbidding to eat, drink, wear, learn, practice, etc. True christianity stipulates that all things(created by God) are lawful/permissible and therefore cannot defile your holiness/righteousness. There's only one thing that defiles and that is homos.exuality and from which all manner of misbehaviors derive, all complexes, all bitterness, all possessiveness, all fears, etc.

But how did you come about this?. How am I suppose to believe you?.

okeyxyz: It's simple. The ideas and practices of religions that you are familiar with are simply false. They are so false that secular institutions now recommend what religions are true and worthy of a following. The Pope is voted as Man Of The Year by secular institutions, why?? Because the catholic institution is more interested in appealing to numbers rather than to truth. Most Religions today are nothing but political institutions, they boast of numbers, of who has the biggest cathedrals, of who commands the biggest crowds, of who is more in turn with popular cultures, etc. What you have is religion pursuing secular values, hence they rely on the secular world to approve or condemn right and wrong. These are definitely not true religions.

So how did you come to this conclusion??.
Okay, so can you prove to us that your own ideas and practices of religions holds the actual truth?. May be we may start thinking in your own direction.