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Same stuff happened to me , I parked to drop off a friend traveling to China and they came for me that I parked at the wrong place and looking at where I parked , other cars where there no sign and they said it for staff ... I was so mad , they won’t tell u when u about parking . 5k debit that night

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She very impactful
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I was used to doing things above my age as far as I can remember from Jss 1 and I always see the fulfillment in my mothers eyes . Started my first business when I was 19 . I was already supporting my family with household expenses and I saw no big deal in that . If I no support them , who will ?

But the day I realized I have come of age was around when I was 25, I always had this soft baby look with tender skin but this time facial looks change with a harder face and facial hair all over with sudden effect and friends that use to praise me soft/ fresh boy all of a sudden beginning to classify me as a man because of my looks and then I was already engaged

Waiting brah ....

goodgirl2409:
My husband has really changed. He is so unemotional and revengeful.
I will cook for him severally and he won’t eat. I will serve him food and he won’t eat. I will ask him what I have done and he won’t respond. Every time he gives me the silent treatment.

I feel so pained because I expected more from this marriage but barely 1 year after, he doesn’t seem to love me anymore. Sometimes 1 month will pass, no sex. He would go out and won’t bother to tell me where he is going.



He would come back very late and would just ignore me like I don’t exist.
Although he drops money for me to run the house and communicates strictly with me, it make no sense to me.
I am tired. Is this how marriage is? Is this how men are or am I just suffering?

I don’t have anyone to beg to talk to him,and I was told reporting him to any of his family members is not good. things are getting worse everyday. People who have married for many years and are succeeding please help me. What am I not doing right?

UPDATE.
I want to add that it is not sexual incompatibility.
When he is in his happy mood, I would even be tired of his endless gist. S-x will be very great. He is kind and caring. Such a wonderful man. In fact an angel. He would even wash my underwear’s and clothes.

But when his mood start which is his mood most of the time, he won’t talk to you, he won’t eat. I will finish cooking, he will go outside and buy another food and come and cook. He won’t come back on time. I will ask him what is it, he would not respond. He always feels everything I do to annoy him, i do it on purpose. I am a peace loving person. Everyone around that knows the story
always say that he has a problem.

I am surprise to see people relate this matter to sex issues

I don’t think so

What I know is that the man still loves the op
He is a gentleman
He Just want to see her change

Change what ?

Character I guess

Some women while arguing with thier spouse they become so rude, throwing shades , vulgar speeches

Arguing does not necessarily mean you have to curse and insult your spouse

If you trying to proof your point , do it with love

Another thing is Maybe you not taking his advise

A gentleman like this will not force his wife so hard against her will

He can only advise and when not adhere to several times ,then it could lead to issues like this


Solution :
Try as much as possible to calm him down and find out what went wrong and act on it


Wish you good luck

2buffagain:
That's just fetishization.
I recommend your friend WAITS until he hits his 30s first before thinking about marriage.
The 35+ year old woman that might look good today, will not look the same in 4 years.
Sometimes, all it takes is 1 year for sissy to turn into aunty

Only in his 30s can he have the full mental spectrum needed to make such a permanent decision if "older women" is still the path he wants to walk.

So true
In situation like this
I will advise too the guy should wait till 30 before he marries but continue dating
Reason is that , his taste might change
And if it doesn’t then maybe that is his thing

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I must say what I noticed , frozen turkey got from the market here in Lagos some months back had this blackish discoloration compare to the normal boiled turkey . This was about twice purchase from same seller which was half cartoon each time .But after a change to another seller the frozen turkey had it normal color after cook . I was thinking maybe heavy preservation chemical or substance was used for the former

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