₦airaland Forum

ednut1:
Mumu talk. How would you know who wishes you good or bad? Even some parents don’t like your spouse duhhh

Emnyte:
She just want to terminate the pregnancy with her brothers consent without taking any responsibility

Casham:
My cousin just told me last night that she just got raped on Sunday afternoon/evening (6th July, 2025).

I stay with them for now. She's 18, the first of two daughters and was still virgin (as far as I know). Her only [older] brother is in school.

She's been acting funny since on Sunday evening. She couldn't hold it in anymore and, since there is no one else she could actually confide in, she confided in me. Now she's begging me not to tell anyone and not to cause trouble. She only wants me to help her get a drug (if any) that will prevent pregnancy.

She told me about the man coming to see her in her mother's restaurant and said she was going to talk to the man about getting me a job, but when she went into his car, he forced himself on her.

Honestly I am angry right now! I am angry at three things:

First, I am angry at my family. I have a family where the children are afraid to open up, because if you do, you will be blamed and castigated upon. I understand her fear and apprehension about letting other people know, but I just can't let this go.

Secondly, I am angry at our society. How can a man confidently feels he can force himself on a lady and get away with it? What kind of society do we have?

Thirdly, I am angry at myself. I am angry because I feel helpless. I can't let this thing go. I have to deal with this man, but I don't know how to do it without putting my cousin in a difficult position. I have tried to let her know that it is not her fault and that the man needs to pay for this, but she's been begging me to just let it go. She only confided in me because she's really scared of getting pregnant.

According to her though, there was never any real penetration, but the man (who is a high ranking government official) actually "released" ON her, not IN her. (Does that even make sense?)
How can I handle this issue right now? For me, I am planning to go all out and let hell break loose and let the heavens fall if they have to.

Seun:
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Misterone:
Can someone show us a picture of Obi, Atiku and El Rufai together! I want to check something
It is like using petrol to douse a fire.

Maxymilliano:
https://dailytrust.com/photos-malami-oyegun-senators-ex-govs-spotted-at-coalitions-unveiling/?fbclid=IwY2xjawLSJqhleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHj9NVbdDou1hurgIchNnapmENF-7pgNJnijHnmrCr6n11TbkJbUOTXSSw0Rp_aem_lpaCKYAwklgfH1b2oawS_g

Oyewolu47:
The latest update I got from a reliable source is that the list would be out this Month by ending .

Trymeee:
The average Nigerian mentality ehnnn.


My relationship with my ex was truncated when I realised how she label this creatures what they are not. I asked her for evidence of my cat been a spy for the dark world, aunty couldn't bring one forward. I asked her how an innocent wall gecko is a monitoring spirit something going into extinction in China due to eating rate, she couldn't bring forward an answer. All her points were based on hearsay and emotions. I knew we won't deal and I had to jettison her asap. This is someone who when a bird chirps at night, she will start reciting war prayers against another creature like herself. I won't live the rest of my life in fear and such rubbish living.

Obierika:
I'm from a well-to-do family and we were taught to always eat the meat or fish last.

When I was growing up it was considered bad manners for you to eat the meat or fish first

DarkLover:
You didn't get my point, but it's okay though.

I can't bless everyone neither can you. I blessed the few I can in my humble capacity without any fanfare.

MurderX:
I believe Oshiomole, you can never have this situation with Ibom Air, those air peace guys are crooks, they just packed thugs from god is good motor to the airport and that Onyema guy will quickly run to the media and cry the victim.

Chydon888:
You people should be calming down. God no go shame us all. By His Might name, our names will be shortlisted. We must surely scale through.

Oyewolu47:
Exactly .the list is been uploaded at the moment on the portal . It’s not easy .only Divine Grace and Mercy that can pull someone through .God Help us o .

Oyewolu47:
Oh okay .update of the list is going on then .because once the list is out one would have to download and check the list on the portal . God help us o .

christia4:
Still not going through, let’s hope for the best

Oyewolu47:
As anyone tried checking the portal today ? It’s not going through .seems the upload of the list is going on

cfree14:
Names never come out una don begin dey create WhatsApp group.
Please o let's try and take one step at a time

elaino:
lol. It wasn't even me Chief.

maureensylvia:
Yes I've registered her at AKTH
whenever the crises starts, I'll just take her there
Thank you for your input.

maureensylvia:
She'll be 19 in two months

elaino:
Convinced?

bantilosha:
Na man you be. Anything for the boys?

OboOlora:
Worked in O&G once and it was only prescribed as part of anaesthetic pack. To see Nigerians abuse it is scary.

Albaz:
The Federal government has given approval to The Civil Defence, Correctional, Fire and Immigration Services Board (CDCFIB), to recruit qualified Nigerians into the 4 agencies under its purview.

The Breakdown of the approvals shows, that each agency are to recruit personnel as indicated against their names:

1- Correctional Service: 5,150 Personnel

2- The Nigeria Immigration Service: 10,000 Personnel

3- The Federal Fire Service: 5,000 Personnel

4- Civil Defence: 10,000

5- Civil Defence, Correctional, Fire and Immigration service board: 209

Dedicated Portals shall be opened for all eligible Nigerians to apply, running for only 3 Weeks.

YourBestWriter:
Guys I lost my phone. Please can someone drop his or her number so I can be contacting for updates regarding this recruitment. Thanks and God bless you all.

helinues:
I have told you to stop using your precarious situation to be judging others. That you are suffering don't mean others are suffering too