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Yes sir

Please in respect to my first post I have decided to go ahead with my wedding. Please I need the following from this group

Where can I get cheap hotel in kabba this weekend many thanks

thanks everyone for your advice. i know i truly bleeped up but hey what can i do

some people are not getting the full story i am an orphan, secondly i am still working

thanks everyone for your advice. I am not here to beg for money . I repeat i am not here to beg for money i just need your advice. The only thing u can do for me to support me now is if u are around kogi area this month end u can be my guest, thanks. that i just all i need , God bless u all. that is the only support i need. thanks I have only 12 people coming from Lagos to kogi while they are bringing 300 people its damn so crazy. when i told them that is much they say that is their tradition.

the reason i am writing this way is that I am writing from my heart. I am writing as i remember things

generationz:
I thought you said she was supportive and gave you 200k for your business?

What changed?

Did you do something that made her not trust you anymore and made her become mean to you?


I think you both should just take time off and cool off from each other. Marriage isn't by force.

The wedding you are scared of cancelling some people die before it and it still gets cancelled. No one remembers all the rice and invitation when they are mourning.

Since you guys have done court wedding just relax. Let her have her baby. Isn't one of the aims of marriage to have kids.

Don't let anybody put pressure on you. Be in charge. You are the man. Think straight. Plan well. Plan how you'll get out of this mess. Wedding isn't compulsory.


If she thinks you are not man enough then it is time for you to take a break from her.

Only send her monthly upkeep for her and the baby.

Set a standard amount that even in the toughest times you will be able to afford.


Stay away from each other. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Too much familiarity breeds contempt.


Let her only see the proceeds of your hustle. Forget everything romance right now.

And if you did anything to offend her, ask for her forgiveness.

God bless you this is what I really need right now, I think I am getting too emotionally attached to her

Niceman4u:
I thought I was the only one who did not understand the write up.

sorry its a story of my life just writing from the heart. i dont think i am writing bad english i am a graduate , I am writing this issue as its comes to my heart.

AngryIgboMan:
For those who have not yet seen through the shenanigans of the OP, be you aware this is an SOB STORY meant to win sympathy and scam people of there money.


The op is being smart by half thats why he is knowingly typing in bad English to win pity. Go through his story well and use Nigerian sense to follow him.. This story was meant to win him pity and make people donate money for him.


I CAN ASSURE YOU 100% that this nigger right here is a SCAMMER and FRAUDSTER.

i dont need any one money just need advice on how to live a happy life , I am doing great. so dont get it twisted

deltateam:
You seem to lack financial and emotional intelligence as well self control.

You want to marry and the first thing that came to mind was 'loan'! Your supposed fiancee that was to advise you even had to chunk out #200 000 to add. All for what?

You weren't ready to marry and yet you were firing her on top gear.

Like i told u i earn over a little more than 100k , i have built my own place and i liive in the suburb of ikorodu, i intend to o the uber biz on a part time basis to repay the loan

This is alady that I go on my knees when she visit me that I promise to worship her for the rest of my life, I told her I am ready to give her 50k out of my salary'yet she said that is not enough that she wants to open a shop , I am just damn tired her delivery date is April yet last week she told me she went to see a doctor to plead with him to evacuate the pregnancy

deltateam:
You seem to lack financial and emotional intelligence as well self control.

You want to marry and the first thing that came to mind was 'loan'! Your supposed fiancee that was to advise you even had to chunk out #200 000 to add. All for what?

You weren't ready to marry and yet you were firing her on top gear.

What am I supposed to do brother, the reason why she said she left her ex was because that one na boxer, but I have for once hit her even when provoked,I think I made the mistake of my life , my thinking is to finish the wedding in November give her one month to displayher madness and then file a divorce early January, that lady used to be so loving that I didn't even pray about it,

The truth is that we have already done the court wedding the traditional marriage is around next two weeks, her sister has spent like 900,k on the wedding. She is 34 years old

0KNM:
Don’t you see we are discussing serious adult talk here? We do not
Need contributions from kids. So, take the stepping before I konk your head

How can I get out of this nightmare

I really dont want to brak her sister heart because she has spent her money n energy to make this realtionship work but now my wife is just irrational. I told her its a step at a time but she insisit i should do all, she is asking for phone i must her a new set of chair and do proper wedding all at once, she even suggested i should sell my car n buy okada

0KNM:
Why get married only to divorce when you can end the relationship now and save yourself the headache and money/time?

That mission is impossible, ABORT it!

i mentioned this to her loving sister but she insist that the wedding should continue that things will get better.

FROGMAN101:
Read your words like you were crying to me.

Feel sorry for you. I understand man. Really wish you didn’t get her pregnant. This would be curtains by now.

You shouldn’t be coerced into doing something you don’t want. Your happiness and mental health matters.

I am crying daily. there is nothing wrong in trying business,even if one fails,she got an excellent family her sister even told me she is willing to borrow me money when i told her she said i am an idiot.

I used to think marriage should be full of bliss. I have begged and begged her. but its all falling on deaf ears

selfwife:
maybe you shouldn't continue with the traditional as you both are already legally married.she needs rest and peace for now especially as she is pregnant. I think you need patience okay. Pregnancy isn't easy and makes women rude,naughty or develop other weird behaviors. Be patient. with your finances now, I will advice you not to spend money on some things for now (either traditional marriage ceremony or divorce) just be patient and save up money for your lovely baby that's on the way.

the date of the wedding has been fixed..

idesylvester:
Go and see a counselor with ur spouse

she is just not listening, each time i beg her that there is a better tomorrow. she just snubs me, she even told meshe wanted to abort the baby which is four month old when i threathen her that i am no longer interested

my life is not better than the life of my fathers

her sister bought an echolack bag and she said she will willing to relieve me of all the burden of the things i need to buy for the wedding list, she insit that i should go and buy mine that its not proper for me to take her sisters bag, I have donated 70k for the cost of the wedding but her sister and family have done a lot

i wish i am still single the truth is that i explained everything to her and i told her how much i earn now i am pay 45% loan on the car, should i cancel the wedding or i continue

I have already done court wedding with her and she kept complaining of things not done if i knew she is like this i will not marry her. I swear.

I need your advice, I know a lot need to be done but a lot also have been done. we are getting married n both of us are no longer in love. Its like planning to go behid bars she i just cancel the wedding or i go ahead

I am i40 ears old and i have heard enough people telling me to go n marry now i am not finding any fulfillment in this union, she is asking for multiple things at a time and i cant go in the life of crime. I have pleaded with her for a better tomorrow what can i really do.. i AM THINKING OF DIVORCE AFTER THE WEDDING.

pappy2000:
I need to start this wrte up that i met this lady early this year and i had another lady who from my analysis is not so much in love with me so when i finally met this lady, she was everything i desire in a woman, so we started dating and from dating i went to see her sister in Abuja then from Abuja i wnet to kogi to meet her parent. I met her family late june 2019. so i work in a blue chip company with a salary of little more than 100k so but i realize the salary wont make me live my dream life so i took a loan from gtbank to buy a car and use for e hailing .my financee was so much supportive that she on her own decided to add like 200k fund so i bought a toyota matix. so when i gave out the car the people i gave it to were all misbehaving so i decided that i will drive the car, she was so cool and nice that she will do everything at my beck n call. now when i went to meet her sister in abuja her sister insist that we should pick a date mean while in may when we was marking her birthday , she told me how sad she was due to the fact that she was marking her birthday. and she is getting younger so i promise her then that we will marry this year. i told her in Novermber so we finally settle for a date and the sister spent her money unfortunately for me things was as i plan in the uber biz i need a few repair her n then now we got days left to wedding and she has been very irrational , she is pregant for me, each time she visits me i i will beg her na d cry n cry how i truly wante a happy home.

now she is everything i dont like in a delay i am even thinking of commiitting sucide because she conplains that i am not a man . I just cry and cry all day , i have no tears left in my eyes. she is just irratioanl always asking me for money.. she is very unloving , i am planning to ivorce her as soon as i marry her.

I need to start this write up that i met this lady early this year and i had another lady who from my analysis is not so much in love with me so when i finally met this lady, she was everything i desire in a woman, so we started dating and from dating i went to see her sister in Abuja then from Abuja i went to kogi to meet her parent.

I met her family late June 2019. So I work in a blue chip company with a salary of little more than 100k so but i realized the salary won't make me live my dream life so i took a loan from gtbank to buy a car and use for e hailing.

My fiancee was so much supportive that she on her own decided to add like 200k fund so i bought a toyota matix.

So when I gave out the car the people i gave it to were all misbehaving so i decided that i will drive the car, she was so cool and nice that she will do everything at my beck n call.

Now when i went to meet her sister in Abuja her sister insists that we should pick a date meanwhile in may when we were marking her birthday, she told me how sad she was due to the fact that she was marking her birthday and she is getting younger so i promise her then that we will marry this year. I told her in Novermber so we finally settle for a date and the sister spent her money.

Unfortunately for me things were not as i planned in the uber biz, i need a few repair here and then. Now we got days left to wedding and she has been very irrational. She is pregnant for me, each time she visits me, i will beg her, na the cry and cry. How I truly want a happy home.

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Please help ,mycar stopped, I guess fuel finished in it, now I bought fuel, it's cant start again, what can I possibly do, I haven't been able to get a mechanic