₦airaland Forum

dammilotun:
Anyone ever been to the U.S embassy Walter Carrington lagos.I was there sometimes ago with a friend to process our student visa. I saw a lot of funny things.the crowd there was similar to that of the redemption camp at a distance .I saw a lot of folks kitted like business men,some from the word go I already denied them in my mind.funniest of my experience that day was a lady who was interviewed just before me.she claimed she was going to see her uncle in Atlanta whose wife just gave birth.the consular asked if she has a job to which she said yes.without asking she said she works in an oil and gas company;name have never heard before,the address she gave was right beside my house....lol.I tapped myself to wake myself up from the dream...the consular asked how many month was she gonna help babysit the child as she claimed...she said 8months...the consular denied her and here she goes kneeling down.please sir for heaven sake,for the sake of this new baby pls give me this visa...I literally busted into an uncontrollable laughter as the security guys showed her the way out.it was such a gorycomical sight.guys share your funny experience at the us embassy

ds babe no sabi lie, how u go de work for oil and gas and u ve 8 months to waste on baby sitting. She's not smart.

Henrypraise:
My humble opinion, dis is trash.

A gf makes her hair n wants u to comment on it b4 u even see it, a bf cuts his hair n a gf does not even take note if he did.

Guys how many tyms av u gfs/ wives compliment u on wednesdays evening afta shaving? Or friday/ saturday evenin afta barbin?

It can start with u, love is supposed to be 100/100 not 50/50, u don't ve to wait for her to do all that before u do them to her. Maybe she needs to learn from u.

The anger I feel will not make me ignore ds topic. That girl never loved u, Heartless is an understatement, she's a devil.

Henrypraise:
This beautiful psychologist has a point, howeva d probabilty is very slim, wats the essence of female equality if i shud spend on my wife?

Young man, we are talking abt ideal situation here, don't bring gender equality to ds

Sermwell:
Pls madam don't use this to justify guyz spending their live savings for girls!

Y should a guy spend his life savings on girls. Its not worth it na, I'm talking abt bn financially responsible to someone u r committed to.

Henrypraise:
Counsellor, u must find/ link everytin to counselling.

make I ask u, period na sickness? Abi period na belle? Na gf we de talk abt oo, no be wife o; if I take gf go see doc un top her period nai be say na me sentence my sef na. Hu go pay d bill?

D tantrums n neck bending wen we de cum back from d hospital go extinguish dangote wallet sef talkless of my own.

So u can't spend to take care of ur gf, what's d probability that u will spend to take care of ur wife?

Henrypraise:
D question d op asked has not bin answered by most of d ladies, we don't wanna knw how painful ur kini is, wat he asked is how do u expect us to cope wit d tantrums dat cums wit ur period? One minute u want to eat suya, d oda minute is shawama, d oda minute is peppersoup, how do u want us to cope? Wat do u pple want from us dat period of ur period?

4 me I spend d whole evenin wit my friends anytym she is on her period, den wen I get home, I sleep in da couch, first tin in da mornin, m outa d huz 4 d next five days. (Jokin o)

Na wa for u o. U should understand that women go thru different seasons, and dy need dr loved ones to b thr for/with them during those seasons.

@Op, I think u should take her to a doctor for proper counseling. Don't just give her drugs without prescription.

BananaBender:
I am female and I'm not guilty of gossip. I surround myself with women who hold each other accountable and do not encourage such. All women are not guilty of gossip. That's a deadly generalization.

Mocking someone while gossiping can also hurt, it does not make it any less malicious than when a female is gossiping.

I think you need to learn more from this thread you created than we do. When you think highly of people, you encourage them to better themselves. Pointing fingers at each other won't help us as women.

Are u a feminist?

BananaBender:
That is a lie from the pit of hell. You should learn to love your fellow women and speak positive things about them. Be the difference you want to see. Dis ur comment is exactly one of the things women need to stop doing to each other. The male gender is not better than the female gender. They both can be guilty of terrible things.

*Go to barber shops and hear men gossip, fear go catch you.

I think when guys do it, dy only make fun out of it. I'm a female and I know we all are guilty of it. I'm not saying guys are better, but if we will be objective, we all know what I said is true.

Henrypraise:
Gud one pappyrose howeva, Can a vehicle move witout a source of energy?

D 7 points u mention ar d energy needed by women to function properly its in dia DNA, even d originator joyce must be guilty of all seven.

Any woman who says she doesn't do all is a liar failing to admit the truth.

But we can stop it if we pay close attention to it. Because we do it even when we don't even know we are doing it. We need to consciously caution ourselves.

lilmax:
They hate themselves

But y?
If we really dig deep, it's for no (justifiable) reason.

BananaBender:
Nice thread.





Men are worse when it comes to gossip.

I think women are worse when it comes to destructive gossip. They can badmouth like tomorrow will not come.

Let's face it, women can be flat out mean to each other.
Negativity is a vicious cycle that can be stopped if women are
willing to bring each other up, rather than tear each other down.

Here are seven things women must stop doing to each other.

1. Downplaying Someone Else's Accomplishments

You should recognize and appreciate another woman's accomplishments and success. You shouldn't judge, compare or be jealous of their blessings.

2. Gossiping

Talking about each other is toxic and not healthy for the soul. Gossiping is an evil circle that tears people apart.

3. Social Media Stalking

Does it really matter who she is dating or married? Is it really that important to see what she looks like or what lifestyle they're living? Friend-emies are not healthy to have. Be real.

4. Backhanded Compliments

Engaging in back handed compliments only allows negativity to live on. Don't be spiteful when you give a compliment because you're only tearing someone down.

5.Flirting With Taken Men

It's not right! You wouldn't want another woman flirting with your significant other. Flirting is not a game and shouldn't be done when someone is in a relationship.

6. Measuring Up

When you compare one woman's physical feature to another, things get ugly and feelings get hurt. Be your own person and love who you are. God made us all different for a reason.

7. Being Fake

You're not required to like everyone you come into contact with. But instead of being fake - just be polite. Don't be someone that you can't look at in the mirror. Being fake will weigh on your conscious and will cause you to be two-faced. Be honest with yourself and those around you.

Joyce

shazy:
Hello everyone,pardon my long time absence in here...
trust ya'll are doing fine.

Where ve u bn? How ve u bn?

Henrypraise:
Dear anger counsellor,

I felt angry wen a female friend I av not met but have huge attraction 4 told me her bf is cumin to visit her, in an instant I felt angry n cudnt decipher d reason I was angry, wat do u tink was d reason, how do I kip talkin to my female "friend" n not tink abt her bf cumin around her?
How do I control dis anger? I don't even want her to knw I felt angry.

N:B I don't knw if she has same feelins I av for her. She is an angel in human form.

Smiling as I read thru ur post.
I think u r only jealous (which is natural) and not necessarily angry. Since u know she has a relationship she's very committed to,U need to do reality check.
REALITY CHECK
When you start getting upset about something, take
a moment to think about the situation. Ask yourself:
Is it worth getting angry about?, Is it wort ruining
the rest of my day? Is my response appropriate to
the situation? Is taking action worth my time? By
the time you think over these questions, you would
have decided what the most appropriate response
to the provoking situation should be.

Henrypraise. Life is just a moment. Don't let urs pass u by.

olempe:
its to cure loneliness na

No be only loneliness. Y won't they be lonely when dy live individualistic life.

I never hug human beings finish, na chair com remain. Abeg, make dm shift go one side.

SlyIg: Our Nigerian policemen would rather need the google glasses that will screen through drivers and passengers wallet to know how much to "obtain" from them.
Sad.

U funny. Lolzzz

I don't ve any problem with a broke guy, but I hate it when a broke guy is stingy with his little. I will work with a generous broke guy to become rich.

Truly inspiring. I'm touched.

It's not anybody's fault. Whatever position u are and chose to remain in life is a function of ur own decision. He chose to remain a pauper. It's his fault.

Just like a friend will say "God nominated us and we de nominated ourselves". It just seem to me that the enemy distracted the church with irrelevant issues and stole the power and the authority that she once had. The church is not experiencing d demonstration of God's power like it once did because her focus has shifted away from the original purpose. It's my prayer that God will open the eyes of every believer to this truth so that we can join hands together to pull down the wall of hostility and take back all that the enemy has stolen from the church of Christ.

Purpose. The Meaning of life is one of the difficult things.

Clone2020: Nigeria is the only country with so many official and unofficial holidays... New Year, Id el Malud, election day, good friday, holy saturday, easter day, easter Monday, workers day, children's day, democracy day, June 12th day, Id el fitr, national day, I'd el kabir, Christmas eve, Christmas day, Boxing Day and New Year's eve Lord help us

Yeah, its one crazy thing that provokes me in this country. I wish they know how much they lose on all these useless holidays. I know some lazy bones will be happy abt this.