₦airaland Forum

Ebenezerk2:
Curses have nothing to do with riches, you might be rich and still be under a curse or spell, it could be a spell of not having a child etc

infogenius:
N30bn? Holy Cow!
I go reach that level & surpass it.
What about u?
If u go reach & surpass that level click like and if u want to stay broke click share.

Sunofgod:
Is she shaggable?

obikirinoni:
Guys please read carefully


WHY FATHERS ARE NEGLECTED IN OLD AGE.
-ITS A MUST READ FOR ALL FATHERS! (and mothers too!)

Take ur time and read through.

1. In the lifetime of most Nigerian family settings, there are 3 Dispensations of Power.

2. The 1st is the first 25 years in the life of the family (father, mother, children) where power indisputably rest with the father.

3. The 2nd is after the kids have grown & started working when the power shifts to the mother.

4. The 3rd is when the kids move out of the family house or start their own families when the power moves to the children.

6. We'll start from the 1st Dispensation. Total dominance of the father. He is the Lion of the Tribe of his House. The boss.

7. During this dispensation, the father rules with an iron fist. He barks orders & determines what does or does not happen.

8. The father often mettes out corporal punishment to the recalcitrant children. They grow to fear him more than they love him.

10. The father is the provider for the family & everyone is aware of that fact with all attendant consequences.

11. Then the 2nd Dispensation sets in. The children have finished school and have started working. Power shifts to the mother.

12. When the children start earning their own money, for some reason, it's their mothers they decide to look after. They are closer to her.

13. While the father was in charge, he was busy with the business of providing. He didn't have much time to be a friend to the children.

14. They spent more time with their mum and invariably grew closer to her. They also see their mum as co-victims of the father's tyranny.

15. The mother takes centre stage at this point. She is the first to know what's happening with the children & she has advantage.

16. Should any of the daughters give birth, she is the one that goes for babysitting and the children spoil her with gifts.

17. At this stage, the father is wishing for some bond with the children like they have with their mother but that boat has sailed.

18. Because the mother doesn't rely much on the father for her needs at this stage, she is less likely to tolerate his lordship. Friction.

19. Then the 3rd and last dispensation. Power has shifted to the children. They are self-sufficient, live on their own & have own families.

20. More often than not, whenever there is a quarrel between father & mother, the children side the mother.Years of joint-victimhood at play

21. Children have been known to come to the house to warn their father not to 'disturb' their mother. Next thing, extended visitations.

22. Woe betide the father if his finances are precarious at this stage. You will be humble by force. The gang-up is real.

23. This causes most men to fall ill & develop different complications. By the time the forces are arrayed against you, you will think well.

24. Stroke, Hypertension, High-Blood Pressure. The man has a large family but no relationship with them in later life. Troubling thought.

25. Moral, dear men, while the power lies with us, let us wield it with posterity in mind. It won't be with us forever.

26. With the way you are treating your wife now, how will she treat you when power shifts to her?

27. What relationship do you have with your family? Loving dad or despotic, tyrannical provider?

28. Remember, the children always side with their mother. Aim to do enough to at least get a fair hearing in future moments of family strife

30. Invest wisely for the future so that you won't have to beg to be taken care of if despite your best efforts, you find yourself alone.

ADVISE TO CHILDREN:- IT IS NOT GOOD TO ABANDON YOUR FATHER WHO DENIED HIMSELF TO GET YOU PREPARED FOR LIFE & WHO SACRIFICIALLY SOWED TO MAKE YOU WHO YOU ARE. HONOUR YOUR BOTH PARENTS AND TAKE GOOD CARE OF THEM IN THEIR OLD AGE. THAT IS HOW YOU TOO WILL SOW INTO YOUR FUTURE. DONT LET NEGLECTING YOUR FATHER (PARENTS ) BE A CURSE ON YOU INTO YOUR FUTURE.

ADVISE TO MOTHERS :- DON'T INCITE YOUR CHILDREN AGAINST THEIR FATHER.

*Parenthood is not easy despite its joys. There is no manual on how it works. May God help us

blackfase:
Disturbing stuff. Make I kuku add my own. Lost my modem with sim so I went into this gloworld office for a replacement. Fulfilled all righteousness, time for me to pay and oga tells me, your money is N2,200.

Me: What? Goodness me!
Oga Glo; this is 4g sim I'm giving you
Me; oga, I don't have that type of cash on me
Oga Glo; how much do u hav
Me; I hav less than N1k for....
Oga Glo; how much do u hav?
Me; 700

Nigeria truly needs divine intercession....

blackfase:
Disturbing stuff. Make I kuku add my own. Lost my modem with sim so I went into this gloworld office for a replacement. Fulfilled all righteousness, time for me to pay and oga tells me, your money is N2,200.

Me: What? Goodness me!
Oga Glo; this is 4g sim I'm giving you
Me; oga, I don't have that type of cash on me
Oga Glo; how much do u hav
Me; I hav less than N1k for....
Oga Glo; how much do u hav?
Me; 700

Bro na divine intervention brought us to where we are now! What we need, I don't know.

I left after paying N700. From N2,200 to N700....smh

Nigeria truly needs divine intercession....

lilfreezy:
Wickedness na them

ALAYORMII:
Congrats


Their first lady looks pretty tho

ikechizoba:
but wait o,must every relationship involve sex,what if what they had didnt involve se.x.Adesua is a very decent girl and a devoted Christian.

Shortyy:
Banky is girly! Simple! I'll pick Paul pogba or Balloteli (hope i spelt the name well) over Banky any day, any time.

0955eb027:
But what's the essence of this story nah?
When she no be politician.
We need to re-strategize in this country o, and focus on some more positive things.

EastGold:
Keep quiet.


Must you talk

Nma27:
Jesus is the ultimate Healer.

paradice:
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Contact on signature!!

veacea:
Here you go

chisco82:
The anti christ is here. Please let no one listen to this.

grandstar:
I can bet my last dollar that overspeeding was the culprit.

What makes it even worse st times is that the passengers will be urging the driver on..

The other day I almost got killed in a bus when the driver started swerving roughly for no reason.

Quite sure he was drunk

paradice:
Good Evening People!
$50 Bitcoin available Whatsapp now!

DadojoReloaded:
Some people are still trustworthy and reliable here.
Someone paid for goods for me with PayPal. I didn't get my goods, so I asked the guy to request a refund from PayPal and return my money.

I actually was not expecting the guy to return my money, incase PayPal finally refunded the money to him.

But shockingly, after about 1week, the guy called me this morning that PayPal had refunded the money and he sent me back my Naira.

I can't recall his moniker,