If you are still living with her, then you are pushing your luck to far, the best thing is to pack out of that house. Remember, you are not Joseph....

zolapower:
@op are u a gay ? Since u said u don't av time for single lady. If u are a born again xtian ,is quite understandable . So am thinking otherwise !

i'm no gay, a lots of things on my mind now but that isn't my major priority

Never ever try it. Once u do, u'll never stop even if u want to and the whole thing will never end well.


Get out of there asap. Use your head.

Billyonaire:

Clap for yourself bro! You are one smart dude!

Though your write up is fantastic and intelligent, I still do not buy your idea.


Op, please don't you ever sleep with another man's wife

My broda.... My advice to u.. Is to "flee" just lyk Joseph in d Bible

id911:


thanks bro i understand. anyone u don dey for my shoes and was able to pull thru shld let me know how he did it

They've given you the advice you need. That is not a place to be staying unless you yourself want something. Go away immediately otherwise you will be jumping from frying pan to fire.

id911:


I'm only narrating what I'm experiencing never said you should accommodate me bro. Pray u don't have an encounter in this life where ur so confused and need advice but someone comes up to say ur lieing

Half of your mastery of power comes from what you do not do, what you do not allow yourself to get dragged into.

smithsydny:
I can relate to it brah.. But I no fit talk am shaa..

how do i get to knw d details bro

id911:
I'm very confused. I don't know what to do but I need advice from nairalanders, serious one on how to navigate safely through this stormy waters.

I'm in my early thirties, unfortunately not working at the moment but still searching and believing I'll get one soon. I had an accommodation problem and someone who is like an aunt offered I stay in her house until I can sort myself out. I didn't have any other alternative still don't have at the moment so agreed and moved in due to my situation. She's a close family friend. Her mom was my late mom's best friend.

She's married with two kids and her husband is a state agent; he works with one of the Federal Security Agencies. Please I don't want to be specific. The husband is far way from us here in Lagos and comes home once in a while so it's always two of us especially when the kids have gone to school.

She wants me to sleep with her and has been disturbing a hell out of me. I've tried to let her know why this isn't possible since she's married but it's like I'm talking to a stone. She practically naked herself recently and held unto me but I used an extremely diplomatic tone and much pleading before she could let go of me. But she told me I must look for her soon; don't know what that means.

I never have a thought of sleeping with any married woman because I don't just think It's a right thing
to do. Me self wey no gukuma get time for single ladies na married woman come dey disturb person. Me don tire for this kind thing o

. Pls assist, i no dey come romance section often but i need more people to advice me pls

if na me, I go do am and make her forget her forget her father's name sef.

id911:


how do i get to knw d details bro

I've experience your ordeal bra

bro will u mind staying wt me. I av a 4 bedroom apartment in Sambisa forest . Com n keep my company while we find job togeda

austinosita:


Clap for yourself bro! You are one smart dude!

Though your write up is fantastic and intelligent, I still do not buy your idea.


Op, please don't you ever sleep with another man's wife

I do not take advice from Human Beings. I do what I feel like doing, welcome to my world.

Kai see free toto. Why me no dey get dis kind luck?i go fok her buratiously with anger both front and back sotey I go film her to blackmail her for her to get me better job, accommodation and monthly allowance. Please send her number to me

galaxy2020:
If you are still living with her, then you are pushing your luck to far, the best thing is to pack out of that house. Remember, you are not Joseph....

pack to where? You too dey fear jo

smithsydny:
I've experience your ordeal bra

hmmmm... How u take free yaself cos dis woman don dey ma neck. I won commot sha but never see whre to stay yet

sammydirectly:


What's ur bloody problem? Why are you derailing his thread? If you dont believe, abeg swerve to one side

alright sir

enemyofprogress:
Kai see free toto. Why me no dey get dis kind luck?i go fok her buratiously with anger both front and back sotey I go film her to blackmail her for her to get me better job, accommodation and monthly allowance. Please send her number to me

nothing like free toto bro, singles ladies dey no be another man's wife. Me never reason to do that kind of thing

Sunofgod:
Is she shaggable?

That is EXACTLY the question! Some unattractive after 4 ugly worworish somebody want to shag fine nice youngman!!!

id911:


nothing like free toto bro, singles ladies dey no be another man's wife. Me never reason to do that kind of thing

me I go do. Na my prick no be your own

id911:


hmmmm... How u take free yaself cos dis woman don dey ma neck. I won commot sha but never see whre to stay yet

option 1 move
Option 2 read option 1.


Ryt now my still dey ring and begging me to come.. I bind and cast ooo. Kai mana.

Billyonaire:
Then you dont know women. Nothing will stop her from sleeping with him and if she cant she will feel threatened, she will feel the moment this OP finds his footing that he will share the information with her husband. So, if you agree with me, then you know the OP is in more danger than he thinks if he didnt do it. Listen, you guys need to stop looking at the world using religious lenses. If you believe in Karma in the lower dimension, then you will agree with me that if the woman's husband had slept with another man's wife, someone's wife whose husband trusts him anytime in this life or prior, then nature's laws take effect, someone he trusts, have to sleep with his own wife. And it presents the situation that the OP's comfort is threatened, he will have do it or go homeless, and we are damned sure he will choose not to go homeless. So right now,the onus lies on the OP. If he is a smart guy which I doubt, he will use this one stone to kill too birds.

He will make that woman an offer she can not refuse. Tell her you accept, but not in this house, it has to be hotel. When you get to that hotel, then put her in a tight corner when she is half UnCloth, NOT fully, cos she will think he cornered her. When she is half UnCloth, then tell her that you will do this one only one condition. That he cant look her husband in the face, and that if she promises to give him (N000,000.oo put any amount she can afford) to rent yourself a nice place she can always come if she choose then you will proceed. If not, that you wont do it. All it takes is a promisory note from her, and when she promises and gives her timely, then tell her....after this, it wont happen until she gives the rent money) ...then you better be good in the 2 hours on her case. When you get that money from her, then you rent a house where she will NEVER find you.....cos if you go back, you are earning your own karma, but in this case, you helped nature fulfill its karma. You have not sinned. You didnt ask for it, you were cornered into it. That is how you know you are creating creator, or atleast a part of it.

Uncle Billy your entire premise is flawed, you want OP to assume this woman's hubby has slept with another person's wife

If that hasn't happened nko

Smh...be careful the kind of advice you give...you sef get wife.

I like to take my references from the bible, there's always truth in it. Your story is similar to that of Joseph in Genesis 39. He was also tempted but no one's promise surpasses God's. If you overcome this one, you sure will be heading to victory at the end of it all. Your choose, ruin your life or step into God's plan for your life? I will advice you leave the house as soon as possible to avoid falling or stay and avoid being with her in a tight corner. Don't forget to pray. Her husband trusts you enough to allow you leave with them. Don't break it.

you don see her unclothedness but you no won do, my brother if you can leave the house this night better leave because you are at a very high risk now.

magni2016:
bro will u mind staying wt me. I av a 4 bedroom apartment in Sambisa forest . Com n keep my company while we find job togeda

hahahaha... Sambisa weti? From frying pan to fire be that o, i no wan. Thank you

My advice? SCRAM while there is still time left! She sounds like a woman who knows how to get what she wants. Do not say you were not warned. If you did not know her will you not find somewhere to squat?

Amarabae God bless the new seed and your fam

Behave like Joseph in the bible my brother! Flee with all your might.

LadyJasper:

D gist no tire you?

I no really see am like that. I go read later

bros abeg just do the thing, later you can blame the devil. the devil pushed u into doing it.

id911:
I'm very confused. I don't know what to do but I need advice from nairalanders, serious one on how to navigate safely through this stormy waters.

I'm in my early thirties, unfortunately not working at the moment but still searching and believing I'll get one soon. I had an accommodation problem and someone who is like an aunt offered I stay in her house until I can sort myself out. I didn't have any other alternative still don't have at the moment so agreed and moved in due to my situation. She's a close family friend. Her mom was my late mom's best friend.

She's married with two kids and her husband is a state agent; he works with one of the Federal Security Agencies. Please I don't want to be specific. The husband is far way from us here in Lagos and comes home once in a while so it's always two of us especially when the kids have gone to school.

She wants me to sleep with her and has been disturbing a hell out of me. I've tried to let her know why this isn't possible since she's married but it's like I'm talking to a stone. She practically naked herself recently and held unto me but I used an extremely diplomatic tone and much pleading before she could let go of me. But she told me I must look for her soon; don't know what that means.

I never have a thought of sleeping with any married woman because I don't just think It's a right thing
to do. Me self wey no gukuma get time for single ladies na married woman come dey disturb person. Me don tire for this kind thing o

. Pls assist, i no dey come romance section often but i need more people to advice me pls

Better return to your home and figure out next accommodation while there at home.Otherwise, there's no telling what's coming your way should you insist on staying.

parisienne:


Uncle Billy your entire premise is flawed, you want OP to assume this woman's hubby has slept with another person's wife

If that hasn't happened nko

Smh...be careful the kind of advice you give...you sef get wife.

Sh.iit happens bro. Life goes on. It is not life threatening. It is just a demand for rent from a woman who houses him. He has a choice, and it is going homeless. I wish him luck under the weather. LOL

my bro, just get out of that house now!