₦airaland Forum

obembet:
This is the kind of men we need in your society, no all this friend with benefits.i would have remain a virgin if not for......

So you mean you are not a virgin

Justkatty:
Safe delivery to her but don't bother buying baby bed because babies now prefer sleeping on the big bed... You're a good husband may God continue to keep your family.

God bless you,thanks

Eriokanmi:
Another proof tinubu is not popular as his supporters are painting him. He's only using his money and force to grab all he can grab. The opposition defeated him home and away.

but you know him in your region?

mention somoby that you think everybody know in all region like Tinubu in your region

naijapikin2:
Nigeria-1

Apc-0

More wins for democracy

when the election did not favor A.P.c in a win win for Democracy

floret23:
He/she must secure not less than 25% of votes cast in at least two-thirds of all the States of the federation and FCT

He/she must secure not less than 25% of votes cast in at least two-thirds of all the States of the federation or FCT

The two statements above are not the same. And means all conditions must be fulfilled. Or mean one condition is to be fulfilled. Tribunal should not result in "technicalities'' this time around. Let common sense prevail.

common sense you say? when you know is not commonsensical correct

Do you think people in Abj are better than us? In law , everybody is equal except you want to be blinded with the truth

JovialJune:
I'm saying it again that you are most definitely high on cheap drugs,

If e sure for you divorce her na, prove to us say you get strong head, alainironu omo.

aunty "to ni ronu" I know you are part of people that see marriage as an achievement, so don't worry you will see somebody cajole to marry you to take the shame of being unmarried out of your life

if the opportunity comes I will defiantly do what you say, just looking for every opportunity, I ask you what did you bring to the table apart from more responsibilities?


mind y

Nia69:
Women spend on weddings too.

Any man that spends 80 to 90% on a wedding tends to finish the wedding without the support of any lady

JovialJune:
So you are married, yet you created a thread to discourage other men from getting married abi? You must be high on cheap drugs.

I wish other men know what I know now, what did you have to offer? nothing? apart from responsibilities as yet you want the guy to share the house chores with you, Anyway, As you can see I have i have tightened my belt to take the full responsibilities of my house so the woman also should do her duty without involving me

Absuchat:
Hello Islamization....

Buhari will Islamize this nation, as he did it now?

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akube34:
u Dey find slave abi. Oga chores would be 50/50, bills will be 50/50

I love that if this can be preached.let everything be shared eaually

Oluromantic:
He didn't say only delivery. He said the entire antenatal expenses inclusive. Antenatal lasts about 7-8months with all the drugs, tests, scan, blood reception which requires paying the donor, supplements to buy among others and the unforseen should be prepared for: I hope she's not having fibroid with the pregnancy or hypertensive and she should not ignore mild pains etc. I won't even advice he uses a private clinic.

No fibroid by God's grace and she is in her 7months

Oluromantic:
It depends on which hospital you're using. If you're using general hospital, budget 300k for all. Pray for normal delivery. CS will cost you more. If you're using private, budget 1M including CS. Dem mad for private clinic gan.

Teaching hospital

Jossyfine:
Marriage is very sweet to if you’re with the right person Aswear.

The major reason for marriage is companionship which every adults desire except celibates. Every human is a social animal in the sense that we need people around us to function properly. When you are genuinely in love with someone and the person truly loves you back, omo ur heart will always be at peace, whether the going is good or bad, for the fact that you have someone to call ur own makes the burden very light.

But you can’t be sharing all ur dreams and fears with everyone, you need one special person to really complement you in everything.

Just that this woke generation has destroyed the sweetness that comes with marriage. Apart from domestic chores that a woman helps with at home, there is nothing as sweet as seeing ur kids everyday,ur wife organizes ur life.Makin love when you are in love is mind blowing 🙈🙈🙈

Just imagine that kind of rain that fell yesterday in Abuja and you are in our spouse’s hand cuddling and gisting 😊😊😊heavenly feelings my dear

You just have peace of mind as a married fellow. Just shine ur eyes and marry right. This is my 11 years of marriage with 5 beautiful kids💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼

let me learn from you, does your husband washes his cloth himself?
did you involve in the house responsibiktiss

My wife is pregnant and we are expecting a baby very soon. We have registered for antenatal and as a man, I am very curious to know how much I should budget for her delivery and what things to buy

Attached to this is the list I copy from my neighbor that delivers last year

I operate on the NHIS scheme, though I am just new to the system, Does the NHIS scheme cover the list of things to buy? How much should I budget for her delivery and baby things. Thanks

My wife is pregnant and we are expecting a baby very soon. We have registered for antenatal and as a man, I am very curious to know how much I should budget for her delivery and what things to buy

Attached to this is the list I copy from my neighbor that delivers last year

I operate on the NHIS scheme, though I am just new to the system, Does the NHIS scheme cover the list of things to buy? How much should I budget for her delivery and baby things.thanks

Biglittlelois:
So according to your write up, the major reason men marry is because of house chores? Once she refuses to do house chores the marriage is gone? That is what you think marriage entails? House chores? How old are you Op?

I'm mid 30.

except you want to lie, part of a woman's prestige is the ability to do house chores

MadarasBlade:
yes, women are to do chores and men are to provide, otherwise what's the need of having a woman around who takes a chunk of your finances and do nothing, better to outsource those chores and live alone.

Aside kids, i do not see any need for women and marriage honestly.

you can easily get kids without marriage

endsarrrs:
Marriage is for mature adults.

Gentleman! I enjoyed your post

what does man tend to gain from it?

doggedfighter:
Nothing at all.




The man gains nothing.

He should stay all on his own.

honestly! how I wishh guys planing to marry can listen,

RamseyKush:
Fear don dey grip them
Let wait till May 29 first🤣

so you believe Tinubu will not be sworn in?

Kobojunkie:
1. The man was probably an imbe_cile hence the reason why he decided to do as others told him to do.

2. If all the man needed for a cleaner, and he wasn't an imbe_cile, he would have a reason he simply needed to pay someone for that and not marry a wife for that.

3. So the man was definitely am imbe_cile to have concluded that a wife nothing more than a glorified house-help/prostitute/baby mama.OP, the problem is that the man, in this case, did not, for reasons that seem to do with his mental capacity, understand the logic behind marriage before jumping into it..

There are benefits for both men and women in marriage but one has to have a clear understanding of what marriage is and what it isn't to be able to appreciate and mine them.

benefits for man pls?

you are getting mature, you are becoming of age, and Families begin to ask you when will you marry, friends begin to see you doing some house chores on your own they begin to say 'Is not you that suppose to be doing this' you suppose to get a wife

you listen you get married, you pay the heavy marriage list given to you by the bride's parents, the bride's parents even boast that their daughter is very hardworking, any work she can do

during courtship, she impresses you by showing indeed she is what are parents called her, she cooks good food, saw your house disorganized arranges it with joy, saw you washing both, collecting it from you, and said "She l
is good in the house chores

You finally marry you thought you have found the complete housewife material you need to assist you where it matters, you spend like "kilode" for the wedding just because you have found a help meet

she started doing all this during the first week of the wedding, waking up very early, sweeping, cleaning the house, cooking, washing her clothes, and other bedroom activities, not knowing is just for the first month

the second month that was when she realize she can't kill herself, the work will be shared 50/50 , she can't wash the cloth again,the house chores is not gender but anyone can do it,if men had known that all she doing before marriage will continue why did he marry? why come back to square 1? Why not just save your yourself from responsibilities. why can't he just continue with his bachelorhood? marriage to a man is a scam joor

Pochettino:
I once saw this woman chasing a full grown man coming back from work and raped him.

She got herself pregnant.

We women are very manipulative.

men took advantage of her

RenaissanceGuy:
There's absolutely no excuse why the South East shouldn't get the senate presidency, unless Orji Kalu is not in good relationship with Tinubu, which I suspect. If Orji hadn't won his election, we would have been hearing how Igbos sabotaged themselves and have deprived themselves of the opportunity for SP, so what's the excuse this time around??

they give A.P.C the smallest vote

maestroferddi:
No lawyer can contradict what an AND means legally speaking...

We are waiting and watching...

What does it mean?

successmatters:
Nigeria will become a better country with Peter Obi at the helms, a lot of jobs and a lot of security.

For igbos

TheFreshVanilla:
Seems you are blind to the several videos online that showed massive rigging for APC.

Send me your mail or numbers to show massive rigging for obi

[quote author= post=122933186]Take your reply below kiddo....

You even have time for them sef.
Hatred is in them.
Thanks for replying the kid anyways.

We have more for him below....

IPOB/BIAFRA VS TINUBU/YORUBA:
TOLERANCE BECOMING A CRIME.


1. Why do we hate Tinubu?
What for?

2. Tinubu never worked with federal or Eastern Nigeria let alone stealing money from Ndi Igbo.
He never worked as Minister or taken any Federal Appointment!

3. He never joined APGA let alone sabotaging our Party's interest?

4. Tinubu didn't meddle in Igbo internal affairs either!

5. Why do we call him thief?
What did he steal?

6. We call Yoruba "slaves".
We never reflect on what it means to be slaves in the true sense of the word.

7. We are putting mouth in Lagos politics without caution, yet we have a proverb that says it is the foolish housefly that follows the corpse into the grave.

8. Can Yoruba man become an Association or Local Government Chairman in the East? Let us be sincere with ourselves.
Yet, we enjoy all these privileges here including Assembly Membership!

9. Why asking for what we can't give?

10. We are here helping the "slaves" to develop their land. Who then is a slave?
10b. You call their city a no man's land so that we can further be enslaved slaving to develop it, and our generations are wasted gloating over mere privileges.
Who is a slave?
Do we actually think?

11. Can Yoruba tell Okorocha "o to gee" in Owerri?
He doesn't even need it.
He is too intelligent to die for a pot of ofe manu or nothing.

12. After the civil war, for many of us who were old enough to have witnessed it, the Yoruba were the first to open their arms to receive and accept us as we were, crude savages in search for means of survival.
It was regardless of what we equally did to them before and during the civil war. No party to the civil war was innocent!
I also remember not paying any rent among Yoruba guys without a penny for my first 3years in Lagos and another 2 years in Ibadan.

13. Can we survive Yoruba attack in Yoruba land if they actually mean to?
Will an Mbaise man cooperate with the Nsukka or Afikpo, or the Imo with Anambara?

14. If we all decide to relocate at once, Babangida send me home phenomena is still in the memory of some of us who survived the incessant and uncontrollable spate of robbery across the Onitsha bridge.
How many people will want to go in spite of our empty pride?

15. If Yoruba people are as foolish as we foolishly think, why agitating?
How will agitating be to our benefit?

16. Why not "O to gee" in Abia, Enugu or Owerri?

17. Can a man from Aba become a Commissioner or Perm.Sec. in Enugu State Civil Service?
Yet it happened here!
Why not be careful.

18. We adopted APGA and but "wisely" voted PDP.
How was Tinubu our headache.
Was he the cause of our downfall?
Why always blame others for our inabilities and want to take glory for any small thing we think we have done well and even overblow it?

19. We claim we were so creative during the civil war.
Now history.
We also claim every made in Nigeria is from Aba.
But go to Oyo and Osogbo to see what "lazy" mechanics are doing quietly in the automobile industry, yet we make noise that other ethnics are either mumu or lazy except we (alagbara ma mero baba ole; the most hardworking humans who cannot develop their own land unfortunately).

20. Why looking for avoidable problem? Why?

21. It was you in the North being attacked, in Malaysia being killed, in Gabon and Ghana being molested. 99.9% of Nigerians killed in South Africa are of Igbo extraction, and sometimes by fellow 'hardworking' Igbo. Why?

22. We choose Kanu and he dictates to us without consultation with any one of us. They choose Tinubu who becomes a hero among them by bowing to or adopting the choice of their majority.

Why are we angry?
We chose Azikwe and they chose Awolowo.
How are they more mumuish followers than ourselves?
Zik became a President and we gained from it, Awo was only a Premier, but we are only struggling to beat their records in all ramifications including education till today.
How are they mumus?
We chose APGA and they chose APC, why agitating?

Yoruba are yet to say Tinubu is their problem why do we want to die for nothing?
Why working in APGA but planning to collect salaries in APC?

If your Biafra comes, but do we still remember that as Igbo we will automatically become foreigners on the streets of the Lagos we call a no Man's land?

How many of us will actually want to relocate home, should Biafra actualises or if citizenship is on the condition that you relinquish all other citizenship in Africa?

We leave that answer to the individual.
Nwayo nwayo biko unu.
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FalseProphet1:
Tinubu will not be sworn in come May 29th.

This I have seen.

From your dream

BossGerald:
if you think Lp and Peter obi presidential ambition is for SE, I'm sorry for you.

And the Lparty chairman of Sokoto state is an igbo man.

[quote author=Hotwest post=122911052]like he won


Did they rig the election in your state?
Who won in your state be sincere?

NoFucksToGive:
These are fake pics 😂😂😂😂😂😀my baby sis and her husband live in port Harcourt, nothing like this. No one came out to welcome Tinubu anywhere ..

Everyone is indoors

Tinubu supporters are so shameless 🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣

Think now, All wike supporters will be there. To reminds you,like has 100thousand special Advisers