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People don't understand this 'calling' of a thing. Everybody is called but few are chosen. You can decide to open a ministry, and if that works for you, then fine. If not, your calling might just be helping others without erecting a building. All in all, it's still a call. We have have different capacity of calling, not necessarily being a Pastor on the pulpit.

God doesn't call out these so-called 'Pastors' audibly. They make it sound as if God called them with a microphone. But no, it doesn't work that way. They understand one thing though, they take chance and believe it'd work, which is faith. If you have sweet mouth, able to convince audiences, a natural motivator, then being a Pastor or building a Church shouldn't be your problem.

University of Utah researcher Nicholas Wolfinger reckons that marrying in your late 20s or early 30s reduces your risk of divorce.

Wolfinger studied data from the National Survey of Family Growth, says that divorce risk seems to go up for couples who marry in their late thirties or later.

Wolfinger says, ‘For years, it seemed like the longer you waited to marry, the better.

‘That’s because the relationship between age at marriage and divorce risk was almost linear: The older you were, the lower the chances of divorce

“Although teens still face an elevated divorce risk relative to older adults, my analysis of more recent data shows that those who tie the knot after their early thirties are now more likely to divorce than those who marry in their late twenties.’

This Ooni is scared of the palace. He got himself involved in rituals and wants to live rest of his life away from those herbalitical powers he inherited.

If Ndigbo are allowed to have their own country, anarchy will be the order of the day. Fraud, drugs and rituals will within 6 months destroy such country. With the mentality of getting rich quickly, 80% of Igbos are guilty of this.

You guys better stay in Nigeria. This country is saving your a.s.s from embarassment. Plea from Nigerian govt have already saved thousands of you guys from getting executed in other countries. Albeit, more are still dying like chickens everyday.

Wise up and follow Nigeria. Be comformists and not children of the disobedient

She cannot be arrested. She's on that protective passport sh*t. She's very smart. No US court would grant any arrest warrant to arrest her.

Nigeria is just a laugh. Extraditing a non-violent offense? And of all places, UK? The United Kingdom wouldn't even listen to Nigeria let alone extradite their own if the accused was a UK national.

Stop going to Indonesia, and stop the drug habit. What is wrong with Igbos and the mentality of getting rich quickly and overnight?

These killings are just senseless. Our deplomatic relationship with this law-monger country is just pathetic. Our govt is so corrupt and inefficient that a country like Indonesia wouldn't even listen to our pleas.

Igbo parents should also stop putting high demands on their children. They should teach them ethics, honesty and hardwork. Igbo parents should also stop marketing their daughters for selfish gains. Unmarried Igbo girls should be able to provide for their parents and be independent. This way, their guys won't have to resort to criminal activities in order to pay dowries.

IffaCatchYouEhn:
Who she pep abeg??


Laila Kor

Ilala ni

porn star on your mind

Not athletic at all. Look like olumba olumba

Before opening this thread, I already suspected they must be Yorubas or something related. You see my people, Yorubas, expecially those who doesn't attend New generation or English speaking Churches knows nothing about Christainity. They are ignorant and doesn't even understand the basic things as a Christian.

For you can never taste the goodness of the Lord, I said never, and return to your vomit or change faith. These people often go to white garment Churches where all they do is either see vision or learn how to dance. Typical yoruba ladies like those mentioned are very conscious of themselves. You see, white gatment Churches is money...and you have to adorn yourself with the most expensive see-through garment, and bleach your skin, and have gold jeweries and be ready to commit loads of adultery. The holy spirit is often missing here, therefore, they cannot be grounded in the things of God.

Christians (Christ followers) and not those born in a Christian home understand the Bible and God purposes in their lives. They live by it and will die by it.

When I hear people saying a Christian converted to Muslim, I shake my head and always say..."they aren't Christian in the first place, they were just born into a Christian home". People often confuse both. Your parent's faith cannot save you. And going to White garment Churches cannot save you either. For these Churches professess that they worship God, but also worship something else. They use all sort of herbs, and everything associated with a herbalist to solve issues of their members. For you cannot serve God and mermon.

And for those saying they did it for monetary gain, no you're wrong. They did it because they aren't real Christians in the first place. For to a true Christian, no amount of money in the world would make them lose the sweetest thing God has ever given to man...Jesus.

...pls don't say "don't judge". It will make you look silly and ignorant.

Becareful for fake rice everywhere!!! Just saying...

They've caught him too. Well, he's an illiterate and doesn't understand the full scale of what he's doing. The spirit world of cross-dressing has entered him too. This dishumanize and tend to obliterate the male gender as the lead person.

It also dives into the world of fetishism and gayism (whatever that is).

Was Don Jazzy the one taking the picture?

Just two possible ways of saying it...

*. One second

* One half

I believe this girl is dirty. There's nothing stopping her from shaving off those hair. Yes, she can shave them and maintain it. Hairs generally grows back on female after 3 days. Get the best shaving cream, not stick, get wax towel and gel. After shave will do her good too.

It's going to be a hard job shaving every 3 days, but atleast, she'd get herself a man. And she'd look good too.

Because he was born abroad, his date of birth and age is visible for all to see. But brother Kanu and Uncle Jay Jay still dey hide their birth certificate till today.

Nigerian Celebrities with " I turn a year older today". Were you not named on a certain day and year? Pls!!!

I believe by now she understand that you don't play with God. Pentecostal Churches (New Generation Churches) plays with fire too much. One minute they are praising God, next minute they are fraudulently milking money out of followers.

No more moderation in the house of God. People go to Church to show their new acquire cars, latest fashion and new make-ups. Pretending to be lifting up holy hands but stylishly looking at who is wearing what. No more genuine love..instead of helping the brothers in need, they would openly display their tithes and offering.

God does not require or desire your tithes and offerings if you don't have a good heart.. a heart that will seeking to honor Him and help others.

So, I'm just wondering... whatever happened to trusting one's own gut? Is it unfashionable to do so? Politically incorrect? Fattening? There must be a reason that so many people have stopped doing it.

I hear this kind of thing all the time: "My husband is constantly texting a female co-worker. He says they're just friends, but he guards his phone like it carries state secrets and leaves the room to text her. When I tell him it bothers me, he says I'm controlling and accuses me of not wanting him to have any friends. Now he's locked his phone and won't give me the password. He says I'm paranoid and it's my problem."
Or this:

"My wife has struck up a friendship with a man from her gym. They're constantly texting back and forth and sending workout pictures of themselves. She says I'm insecure and they're just friends, but yet she instantly deletes her text message history after they've texted. If I ask to read their texts, she says that I don't respect her privacy."

Look, I strive to be unbiased, but there comes a point when behaviour becomes conspicuously shady. And the dialogues above would seem to fit onto that shelf.
Yet you might be surprised how many people don't -- or won't -- trust their gut and accept the strong possibility that their spouse and their texting buddy are more than "just friends." Or maybe it isn't really about trusting one's gut. Maybe it's just about living in denial. The truth is, many opposite-sex friendships are sustained because of a simmering attraction between two people.

Or maybe it's about falling for all the manipulations and insults that a committed person will use so that they can continue to indulge in a "friendship" that they know is inappropriate and disrespectful to their primary relationship. The truth is, many opposite-sex friendships are sustained because of a simmering attraction between two people. If circumstances were different, they could easily be sexual partners. And they know it. This underlying current of attraction makes talking, texting and spending time together as "just friends" all the more exciting. It has an erotic edge to it.
Of course, it's only a matter of time until a person's spouse begins to notice this increasingly intimate friendship and get worried. They may ask "Who are you texting?" or "Why are you texting so-and-so all the time?" or they may say, "It bothers me that you're texting him/her all the time."

And that's when it starts. The defensiveness, downplaying and deflections. The insults and indignation. Too often, a committed person who knows that an extra-marital friendship is inappropriate will deny, deny, deny that it is. Instead of respecting their partner's feelings and addressing their concerns, instead of quickly and clearly putting their primary relationship first, they'll do everything they can to ensure their "friendship" continues. Unfortunately, this often involves turning the tables so that their partner's behaviour looks problematic, not their own. To do this, they may employ any number of "drop it" tactics.

This person will act like their human rights are being violated when their spouse asks them to distance themselves from their opposite-sex "friend." "It isn't fair! I didn't do anything wrong!" Or they'll put on a show of feigned bafflement: "Why are you worried about this? I'm married to you, what does it matter what she/he texts me?"

Strolling down the streets of predominantly white neighbourhoods almost cost thousands their lives. I mean black lives. Imagine driving to a restaurant with your family and get pulled over by police for fake 'broken tail-light'. The thing is, you are never allowed to come down of your vehicle to see for yourself. You get told to put your hands either up or where visible. You obeyed as told. You are then at the same time asked to produce your ID which ofcourse is either in the glove compactment or at the back of your pant. You then told the officer about your intention to get what he requested. But then, before you know it, its already a set up...the excuse to kill you. Soon as you reach for your wallet, 4 shots perforated your body...dead man!

Scenario you read above is far too common in the America of today. Police are not only menace to the minorities, they are killers too. But then, you begin to question your sanity. You begin to blame the dead guy and buy into the lies the officers always told after incidents like this. The thing is, no matter how pleasant you appear to that racist cop that just stopped you, he already had the intention of killing you that day.

Cops are trained by statistics. The statistics that shows blacks as violent people. Statistics that marginalize minorities. Statistics that disproportionately target black people. The statistics that is bias and fearful, and evil and dark. What the statistics doesn't tell you is that white people commits 40% more crimes than minorites. They commit murder 60% more than minorities, 50% more treason, 70% more rape amd 80% more suicides.

Media coverage excalate and target predominantly minority neighbourhood. Chicago for instance, accounts for more black deaths than anywhere else. Statistics is then taken from this one neighbourhood to judge the entire nation. White children are trained to hate. 95% of cops are white. 60% of these cops are either member of the KKK or have affiliations with white supremacists group. They train their children and tell them lies about black people.

American police are the dumbest, laziest and most corrupt in the world. How can you not be able to de-escalate situations evrytime a black person is involve. Same crime committed by white people always go unpurnished. If a black person owned a gun and have licence to carry, police would still go ahead and kill that person. FaceBook is buzzing with evidences and examples and instances of events where cops kills black people and spare white people for same crime committed. Pls watch videos on FB and see for yourself. They murder black people in cold blood for minor offenses like traffic offence, but would resolve such incident amicably when whites are involved.

Police culture is very deep and ruthless. Its either you're with them or you're not. Slavery of the mind still exist in the minds of these officers. They dont see black people as human being. They'd rather see an Ape kills a child than they killing the ape to save the childs life. Its a cultural thing deeply evidence in the lives of their children.

White people always come up with dump excuse when a black man get killed... " he should have raised his hands"..." Why did he not obey traffic?", " he shouldnt have resisted". The thing is, regardless, they still get killed.

Who kills another person for traffic violation? Who kills a human being for selling CDs outside of a mall? Who kills a teen for playing with a toy gun? Who shoots a person in the back 6 times for traffic offense and running away from the vehicle? Who strangled a woman to death for traffic violation? who who who? ..American police and the entire justice system. They are killers. Police knows that if they kill a black man, the corrupt justice system is there to protect them.

UK police don't even carry guns except you belong to a special unit overseing a terrorist operations. Polish police use their fist to defuse situations. Infact, no nation kill their citizens for traffic or minor offenses, except American cops.


Time to wake up. Time to come together as one, and time to fight the systematic endemic cancerworm called the police.

Its not SS, the wife should be responsible. Women are heartless. If SS buys the maid stuff and dresses up nicely, the wife would kill the maid and start accusing SS of sleeping with the maid.

Women generally are like this. No matter how nice they are, a maid would always be a maid and treated like one.

He probably bought the certificate. The Okoyes love attention.

danla44:
May Allah touch your heart to accept islam .

So she can become slave and possibly No. 3 or 4 wife. Get a life

This morning I mistakenly transfered 200k to a wrong phone number via GTB mobile money transfer. After thinking of away to stop the person from withdrawing the money, I came up with an idea of sending a text message to the person's phone number sayin:

"Hello dark and worthy initiate, I hope you are ok?. I believe you have received the money I sent to you. It is for your initiation into the eternal mystical order of glorious satanism in the Ogboni Fraternity scheduled to take place tomorow by midnight. That money is only your transport. I will send you more for shopping. There are riches awaiting you in this Kingdom. You see, 2 weeks after we complete your initiation, a family member very close to your heart will die, this will unlock your Ticket to wealth. You will have the ability to Fly at night to any part of d world".

I also told him that in case he is not ready to join, he should immediately send back the money to avoid sudden death. 5 minutes later. I got an SMS saying... "PLZ send another 600k, three of my friends are interested". I Just faint!!!

LordVoldemort:
Good point buh when a black guy kills a white man that's not a racist kill? How many white man hxave died in the hands of blackmen buh u don't see them scream racism cos to them it's a crime and not a race issue.

Know your history man. When a black man kills a white man, its not racism at all, its defending yourself against the oppressor. Racism is only one way. Some people call it reverse-racism when blacks attack whites, the intellectuals refer to it as 'justice'.

There are no component problems when these things happens. The only problem is, when whites kills blacks, it always racially motivated, but not always so the other way round.

There is only one race...the human race. And when defining what a human is, it always stem with a perfection of an unblemish figure..white. Why do you think everything bad is always labelled as black?

When you're in debt and bankcrupt...you're in the black. When there is a big hole anywhere, its called the black hole. 'good' angels are white and 'bad' ones are black. A special bargain day that happens on fridays is actually a good deal day but because of the nature of violence asscoiate with it, the term 'Black Friday' was preffered. White ice is good but black ice is bad. Black cats brings bad luck. The night is dark and something is always lurking, but morning is bright and white.

The dehumanization of blacks by white folks is done intentionally to ridicule, control and subject blacks to harsh and unpleasant experience

LordVoldemort:
Honestly the world will be on fire if reverse is the case. It's high time we stop playing this black n white card, if they call you black call them multi-colored, if they throw banana at you pick it up an eat and throw the remains back @ them, if they call you monkey, call them lama

We need to get out of this captivity of negativity

The world can't be on fire. We all know black people dominate this sh*t. Team was selected based on who can perform and win that gold. Only ignorant people who dont understand how things work would complain of this selection.

Easier said that done. Pray you don't experience racism. Not just the abuse, but death itself. Say that to Freddy Gray, advice that to Sandra Bland, narrate that Trayvon Martin, say it to the face of Oscar Grant and thousands of other blacks and Latinos who meets death daily based on the color of their skin.

If you just want to be a comformist, its your choice. But pls be very wary of this thing you preach. Civil rights activists know and understand that you don't have to provoke and commit crime before death comes. Being black alone is a death warrant in America

Rest in Peace. Blacks don't do adventures. Whites die every minutes doing extreme death defying stunts and play. Too dangerous to go camping with your white friends too. You just might have yourself killed.

Don't be fooled. Britain Got Talent, American Got Talent, and both UK & US X Factor are rigged. Producers hand-picked winners and uses the Judges as camouflags.
They dictate your song and make you look silly.

Been with my wife for 11 years, married for 4yrs and 6 months. Gone throught the toughest times together. Sacrificed alot for each other. Enjoying life together. We walked around our house naked so comfortably. Think alike and agree with decisions together.

I just can't imagine myself starting afresh a relationtionship should my wife cheat on me. I am so relaxed and comfortable with her. She told me earlier that she'd prayed that God should bless our union for eternity. She loves me like crazy that even cheating wouldnt make me to take drastic action. "If she loves you that much, she won't cheat".. Heard this quotes time and time again. But I've seen situations where a tiny mistake or misjudgement has led many faithful women into committing adultery.

Guys are lions and can persuade the unpersuasive. Women just have to get out of uncomfortable situation anytime a guy wants to woo them. Its better not to stop and listen than to stop and listen. Some guys have the sweetest coated lyrics ever that can win over even the angelic faithful ones. And when such situation arises, and temptation was yieded into, and remorse and regrets comes in, I'll gladly forgive such woman.

Just my own opinion and stands.

Time without number, my woman forced me to have s.ex with her. Do I call it rape too?

Bunch of teenagers ranting it is rape. Thats what you signed up for when you were both joined together. Enough of the Western ideas playing on your minds. It is not rape period.

Bible admonish that wives should never deny their husbands sex except if she's fasting. Women now have alot on their minds than sex. They fantasized about material things that would take ages to acquire. In a nutshell, if you want regular sex with your wife, give her all she needs.

Here in Africa, its called deprivation. In Western world, it's called rape.

deji47:
Op, I do not see the Yoruba translation of "stab, climb and pound" as single words. Meaning the "o" & "gun" are separate. The former been a pronoun and the latter a verb. I stand to be corrected.

when pronouncing the 'stab' part, it comes with just one syllable. Its Ogun and not O' Gun. Even in a case where the O is used in isolation just as you mentioned, it is still marked in a vocative case... e.g O Canada ( National Anthem entrance). Such character are usually seen as a vowel that complement a word. Oh' would be more appropriate and would mean two seperate words.