@lara if you can answer these questions correctly,then it will help me about how the advice to give. 1.Has your brother-inlaw$wife given birth to any child?Reason is;if NO....He may be impotent and therefore a planned work between your husband$couple. 2.Is your brother-inlaw not always around to give the wife sexual satisfaction? 3.How well do you know your husband?Have they dated before? 4.Since she ran out of your husband's room,don't you think she must have been seducing your husband?.....TheParrot