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jesicajonna:
#back when.....

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abdeiz:
Why don't you lodge a complaint to jumia tagging the the vendor or however it works in there?

Next time trying making a video of you unboxing the package and testing it. Might be stressful but worth it for high value products.

Better luck next time.

Seems that helps in such claims?

Eze2000:
North Korea not South Korea

Yea North.
Oversight.

blackboy:
When did you take the statistics accross Nigeria? The number you interviewed or you got the statistics.

Its more like you think but not a fact

Oga spare him.

Don't you know about deductions?
It's true. I am a Christian, in case.


Well christians are more liberal than every other religion.

In North korea, watching porn alone attracts death sentence. Imagine when you act it or do the do

China banned many pornographic websites; about 3000 sites at at 2018.

This picture just broke my heart. It's a pity. A pity because Nigeria is a country that cares for no one.
The able bodied are struggling and barely surviving let alone the impaired.

How many banks have access for those in wheel chairs?

How many institutions make provision for them in Nigeria?

Afflictions of the poor and the impaired have made me doubt God's omnipotence.

Some have opined that God's omnipotence shouldn't be interpreted literally. For God shouldn't be expected to do nonsense; like making a square circle, creating a married bachelor etc. I agree with this view.

I will stop here so as not to confuse some people.


Methinks no miracle can replace her lost limbs.

We can only help them people like her go through this meaningless life.

I know some people would choose not to be born at all if they had the option.

Dont wait to help only when it's on social media so that you will be praised.

See Jesus in everyone. You can help put smiles on their faces. Life is fleeting. We will leave here one day.

Don't brag. A simple accident or misfortune can make a cute pretty person an invalid.

Tears...

JayEntaur:
Yes, while she can withdraw a civil case (instituted by her against the Senator for damages), she can't do same for a criminal case, since it will be The State or FGN vs Elisha Abbo & not her as an individual vs Elisha Abbo.

So a criminal charge cannot be withdrawn at the behest of the prosecutrix, (the victim and complainant?)
The prosecution be it the ICPC, EFCC, POLICE, ETC will do the withdrawal. But the main meat is that the victim wants it.


I can forgive a man that stole my phone and tell the police and court so.
He will be discharged, not acquitted. Matter struck out.

Be humble and learn.

See this:

https://www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2012/02/29/threat-to-life-complainant-withdraws-case-from-court/

kingkakaone:
Like seriously?
You need to behave like a human please.
If this lady was your mother or sister I believe this wouldn't be the same thing to say.

Do you know how the law works?

Be humble and learn.

The woman is the prosecutrix( female victim)

Under s 75 CC she can decide to withdraw the matter even in court.

Assuming this senator apologises, takes her to the hispital etc and she feels satisfied. She can approach the court for withdrawal.

Seems I will stop commenting here.



That's the settlement.

Say thank you for a free lecture.

He overreacted. He should be tried except if he settles with the woman.

But some shouting are just hypocrites.


MODIFIED FOR THOSE QUOTING ME:

kingkakaone:
Like seriously?
You need to behave like a human please.
If this lady was your mother or sister I believe this wouldn't be the same thing to say.

Do you know how the law works?

Be humble and learn.

The woman is the prosecutrix( female victim)

Under s 75 CC she can decide to withdraw the matter even in court.

Assuming this senator apologises, takes her to the hispital etc and she feels satisfied. She can approach the court for withdrawal.

Seems I will stop commenting here.



That's the settlement.

Say thank you for a free lecture.

Is it everyday that her kids graduate?

laudate:
Would you still say this, if Fatoyinbo had assaulted your sister or daughter who was still under the age of 18? In many countries, having sex with a minor or an under-aged person, is considered a felony and classified as rape.

And if you talk to rape victims, you would realise that there is no standard response in such a situation. Some victims of sexual assault, gain enough strength to fight back and possibly escape. While others become paralysed by fear and remain frozen, all through the encounter.

As to why she is just speaking up now many years later, kindly talk to a psychologist. Some victims live in denial trying to pretend it never happened, because that is the way they can process the trauma. But then something suddenly happens to awaken the dormant memories, and inner pain.

Others remain silent out of fear, shame and confusion. It is like being in a state of suspended animation. Until one day, when they feel sufficiently healed to confront their pain. There is no timeline, to these things.
#SayNoToRape.

Bringing in -- if my sister was raped blah blah blah... is lame.
Address the issue and avoid ad hominem.
Which rape victim would associate with his assailant for years. Someone raped you and you still went to his house to attend to the wife?

You still joined him in his car?

He got you out, did it at the car trunk then took you to the bonnet to gain more access? Yes "gain more access" Those were her exact words.

My 12 year old niece wouldn't be that stupid.

Your rant about in many countries is hollow.
For in many countries too watching porn alone attracts death sentence. Example is South Korea.

WHAT I analysed above is exactly what transpired. You can take that to the bank.

Zubi10:
The day I fall in love to this wrong who after bringing her to Abuja got exposed n Left me for another guy... she's still jumping from one relationship to another up till now... igala girl from ayangba

How really did this happen?
What and what did you do for her?
Were you the one that forced her to leave?

How did you guys meet?

Be a bit detailed if you dont mind.

AccessME:
pls try find a way to stop it. Masturbation can destroy ur destiny. If u watching porn stop it cos that's the only way out.

How does it destroy destiny.
Be detailed please. Empirical proof will also be appreciated.

I know only omoni oboli

dyydxx:
Do you have a phd studying abroad?



she was naive and taken advantage of by a serial sexual predator. And this is someone that's supposed to guide her in the way of the Lord. Dont sound like a pervert apologist, making excuses for perverts who take advantage of young naive girls.



Your view about why Busola is speaking out now is so myopic and very disappointing for a well learned international law expert. what about the violation of her soul? what about the trauma? what about the shock of the abuse? what about her inner healing. And why can't she tell her story anytime she has the confidence too? why can't she reveal what happened to her if it's indeed true and especially if she hasn't totally healed from the process. You write up is skewed to totally apologizing for this pervertt.



I think the forever tarnished reputational damage is enough. That's the purpose of the revelation anyway.


Sexual assault can be proven in a civil case

From your reply, it's obvious we aren't on the same intellectual wavelength.I can't argue with you. That would be to deign.

As per legal issues, God forbid that I join issues with a layman.