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Kayne declares he's running for the office of the president of the united States. With all that is happening right now plus the #blacklivesmatter movement, this guy stands a chance I think!

Before the day is over can you drop a birthday wish or prayer for him?

Ogilinsaka:
Hustle for what exactly

Ego na...lolz

Karlifate:
Nice one!
"Quality men are VALUE HUNTERS".

Thanks friend mi

Ogilinsaka:
What of 'how to attract quality women'? Instead of attracting coded olosho every time in your life..

Maybe u should just hustle hahahahhahaha

tweakdude1:
In addition

Seek ye first the kingdom of God and it's righteousness even other thing shall be added on to you.

That's right!

Kobicove:
People attract their type!

If you want to attract quality men then make sure you're also a quality lady!

I believe I mentioned that too sire. You have judged correctly

Oluromantic:
That self esteem is an issue many of them have and it obscures their emotional maturity. It's low self esteem that will make a girl not know when d hard-to-get behavior has reached threshold till they over play it whether they have a suitor already or not. It becomes funny even to the toaster at times how insensitively they behave in the name of hard-to-get.

This is wisdom! Thank you for analysing from this angle...you're amazing

brainfordetails:
Nice one op.

But 99.9% of ladies are attracted to what a man has. No lady, will never never date a guy that's still hustling despite possessing those things you mentioned.

I thank God for giving me the love of my life who has been so supportive despite all odds. Even her family members have been so wonderful.

You are an amazing man bro. The way you talked about her! Congratulations

HOW TO ATTRACT QUALITY MEN

1. INTENTIONALLY AND CONSCIOUSLY LOOK BEAUTIFUL.

It is no news Men are moved by what they see.

1 Samuel 16:7 But the LORD said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the LORD seeth not as man seeth; for MAN LOOKETH on the OUTWARD APPEARANCE, but the LORD looketh on the heart.

I know you have inner beauty and we are going to come to that in a moment, how then can he know what is inside if what is outside does not attract him. Outward appearance attracts him, inward beauty keeps him. Inner beauty with outer ugly will scarcely attract the attention of quality men.

Make your hair, even your skin tone, paint your nails, wear your gold, Babe, just look beautiful ALWAYS!

2. CHARACTER.

Quality men have strong affinity for moral qualities. Its almost as though they are spelled by them. Apparently, it was not just the beauty of Hadassah that attracted the King to her. And although he was seeing her for the first time, character has this distinctive atmosphere that surrounds its carrier.

Esther 2:7 And he BROUGHT UP Hadassah, that is, Esther, his uncle's daughter: for she had neither father nor mother, and the maid was fair and beautiful; whom Mordecai, when her father and mother were dead, took for his own daughter.

A man of character like Mordecai (Esther 6:2) has BROUGHT UP Esther and inculcated in the special traits that would help her stand out! If you have come across a beautiful woman with Zero upbringing you will discover that beauty stinks without moral quality!

3. AVOID BEING LOUD

Esther 2:15 Now when the turn of Esther, the daughter of Abihail the uncle of Mordecai, who had taken her for his daughter, was come to go in unto the king, SHE REQUIRED NOTHING but what Hegai the king's chamberlain, the keeper of the women, appointed. And Esther obtained favour in the sight of all them that looked upon her.

Quality men detaste loud women and Esther understood that. Avoid Those things that make you appear loud...Shouty and heavy makeup, posting too many pictures of too many places (esp hotels) on social media, exposing private parts, illicit statements, posts and comments etc. If you knew the number of high Caliber people watching you daily. They never tell you but they are watching you!

4. BUILD YOUR SELF ESTEEM.

No one will believe in you if you don't believe in yourself! Most of what your Exes did to you were self-esteem assassination. They made you look unwanted, ugly, unlovable and undesirable. You must consciously build back your self worth, self love and self-esteem. Quality men are attracted to Quality women and what makes you a quality woman is how much you believe that you are a quality woman!

5. VALUE. Quality men are value hunters. Your value is the arrow in your hand and beauty brings you close enough to fire it!

Did you know that Jesus LOVED Martha? Yes, He LOVED Martha! (John11:5). Martha figured out something she could offer Him- a place to sleep, thereby attracting Agape to her self. Figure out the value they need and give it, it is the cheapest way to win their hearts!

So, Take a course, learn new skills, just add value to your life so that you can give value when opportunity presents.

6. GET RID OF EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE.

I know you may have been disappointed, heartbroken, wounded in the past but to face the future, you have to get rid of those loads you're carrying. No man wants to spend half of his lifetime trying to rid you of your past.

I know you have passed through unavoidable mess but hey, you have got to reinvent your self and reappear BRAND NEW! EVERY BODY LOVES NEW! Just make sure you're in tip-top form as quality men pass by.

7. SPIRITUAL GARMENTS.

The bible recognizes that there is such thing as spiritual garments Zechariah 3:1-5. How you are dressed is how you are addressed and this is also true spiritually!

There are young ladies that never attract responsible and reasonable men. Some only attract and are attracted by married men, sadly. What you might just need is a proper spiritual dressing! You don't dine with kings dressed like a lunatic.
Pray this prayer gently, OH LORD, DRESS ME PROPERLY AND SET ME BEFORE GREATNESS. Amen

By Pastor Douglas Jonathan


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HOW TO SELL ANYTHING

7 Laws of salesmanship.

1. DON'T JUST SELL A PRODUCT; SELL A FEELING.

Find a way and make an emotional connection between your customer and your product. It has been proven that Customers purchase a product because they 'feel' good about the product.

Ever wondered why companies advertise products with gorgeously looking women even though most times the products are strictly for me? Sell Joy, sell humour, sell happiness, and your product will sell itself.

2. SELL BENEFITS TO CUSTOMERS

Customers want to know how your product will improve their situation. So when you describe your product, connect the features of your product with customer benefit.

Never sell a thing without first creating an extra benefit to customers. By highlighting benefits in marketing and sales efforts, you’ll increase your sales and profits.
Examples of benefits are, safety, easy to use, affordable, long lasting etc.

3. PACKAGE! PACKAGE!! PACKAGE!!! No matter what you are selling, find a way to package it! A good product with a bad package will not sell. If you have ever ordered a product online you will understand what packaging is! Package yourself, package your products and package your services.

4. BE COURTEOUS!
Please, sorry and thank you have sold more products than you can imagine. 'Please' is not as per begging them to buy your product but being courteous enough to accommodate. Whether products will sell or not largely depends on the customer care services.

Dear employers, train your workers to be courteous, it works miracles! The smile on your face, the grace in your tone and the warmth in your laughter will sell your product in ways you cannot imagine.

5. YOUR ATMOSPHERE

How clean and accommodating is your atmosphere? Even if your product is an online service, you can build an atmosphere of comfort around your product.

One major difference between a 'mama put' and a classic restaurant is atmosphere. Where as the woman down the street is battling with flies all over her food, the fast food joint up street is entertaining its customer with good music, air conditioning and a clean environment.

6. INCENTIVES
Nothing motivates salespeople and employers like incentives! When you offer people monetary benefits, promotion and reward as incentives, they will sell your products, your company, sell you and your whole family!

My way of saying employees can sell anything with the good motivational incentives.

7. SELL PASSION. One marketing blunder is to be beggarly when selling your product to customers. Don't beg them to buy, make them buy! When they see the passion in your eyes and the motivated sound that's in your voice they will buy. Let them see your passion and you will see their action.

PASSION SELLS PRODUCTS.

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duality:
Really?

Then your deceiving yourself. Your claim of being a child of God notwithstanding.

Proverbs 15:27 (KJV)
He that is greedy of gain troubleth his own house; but he that hateth gifts shall live.

ennon92, just made a point and I expected more from a pastor.

Please go and tell the ladies under You to stop collecting gifts from men without defining the relationship and intentions while ensuring it's within scriptural boundaries.

You have some learning to do.

The 'gift' in the scripture you quoted is 'bribe'. Its a wrong rendering in English from the original Hebrew. Use other modern translations to understand that scripture.

You must not throw insults child.

ennon92:
You didn't get my point, was actually asking u.

MY VERDICT
A lady has no right to receive gifts if she can't yield to the demand of sex from the guy.

Well as I child of God I dont agree with you...Lolz

Magnoliaa:
That's what I want to see.

They have started o lolz

24kmagic:
Going by this list, no girl is getting married. Cos I don't know of any guy that doesn't belong to at least one of those groups.

Three things a Nigerian girl looks out for in a potential husband

1. A good height
2. A good fvcker
3. A good spender

Every other thing is irrelevant.

Woman never do that pastor something na why.

Lolzzzzzz there are women out there who are really serious with their lives and destinies o

ednut1:
they then start using diabolical means and husband snatching

Instead of diabolical means they should use biblical means....Esther used it!

ednut1:
Then all you have left is 80% of ladies chasing after 5% of guys.

Survival of the wisest and smartest...

ennon92:
So ladies should avoid guys sexual demand because it's a sin right!...But it ain't sin when guys showers them gifts

Yes that's my point exactly

ennon92:
No fool should quote that epistle above

The post is a masterpiece shebi?

Kingsteve:
I see nothing wrong with being a sexual predator.
Not all sexual predators dump after conquering.

Truth is...
some women are too sweet, sexy and fine to be just dumped like that.
You just want more, and more and more, you end up being an addict!

Every man needs that bit of sexual predator in him to make the relationship exciting.

Most women hate boring and dull men in the other room.
Fantasise and bring it to reality...

I say YES to sexual predators!

Lolzzzzzz this made me laugh so much! Your opinion tho

duality:
Good but let ma add, this relationship or love thing is like a table tennis game. If you serve and the other don't play same, it's a waste of time.

This analogy applies to all your points.

If you think it has to be one person pushing for what both of you want, you'll be taken for granted in the future.

So pastor Jona, same point applies to bother men and women

There is definitely the women version which is on the Fbk page. But your point is strong tho. Kudos!

JustWinniefred:
Yup, I know him, did u attend MOUAU??

Yes I do...use to attend at multipurpose hall...

Dannieln1:
Women don't even know what they really want

Some do actually!

Mstick:
All the men you listed are coming to attack you.

I'm so waiting for them hahahhaha

Braintrain:
And gays too

Hahahahhahaha no start wetin you no fit finish o

JustWinniefred:
Pastor Douglas Jonathan?? Does he pastor at Rhythm 5 church, MOUAU, Umudike, Umuahia??

Lolz yes you know him?

Got this from his page! I love that guy!

PureGoldh:
Some people no go like dx post...(adjusts my glasses)

I swear my brother

SEVEN MEN YOU MUST AVOID AT ALL COST.

1. WICKED OPPORTUNISTS.

They prey on weak moments. They show up when you are in a bad shape. There is a weakness in almost every woman that makes them most vulnerable when they are in one kind of emotional issue or the other.

Generally women are like that. When you show a woman consistent unusual benevolence, especially when she is emotionally frustrated, she will try to look for a way to support you back and since a woman's body is her biggest treasure, she is tempted to use it. She may not offer it, but may not resist if you try.

Again, when a woman is emotionally frustrated, she begins to crave for a shoulder to lean on and this is part of what makes her vulnerable.

Wicked Opportunists take advantage of these unguarded moments and use and dump the women.


2. SEXUAL PREDATORS.

They ruthlessly exploit women. These are the kind of men that see women as trophies to be won rather hearts to be loved.
They act like predator wild animals-THEY CHASE and they are good chasers!

They do everything to get you and when they do get you, they have their fill and dump.
You need the Holy Ghost to escape these ones.

One common thing about women is the fact that they love to be chased. Even when they are married they want their man to maintain that initial energy. So these men get their preys, devour them and leave them bones and carcasses.


3. WOMEN BEATERS

'Woman Beaters' can apply to men who verbally, mentally or physically abuse women to make up for their own weaknesses and insecurities. They usually don't have much going in their lives and it makes them feel better to pick on women to make up for their failures__Urban Dictionary.

In our world today, there is a high increase in domestic violence.
Women are created to be loved and cherished not to be used as punching bags.
Listen, once a man lifts his hand and beats you for the first time, he may never stop.
To men there is always a first time but scarcely a last. If you find out he is a women beater, RUN!


4. INSECURE AND OVERLY JEALOUS MEN.

It is usually the insecurity about a man's position in your heart and life that fires up his jealousy.
But then, its becomes a big problem when jealousy turns to rage!
He wants to be your google map, hack your phone, set you up to see if you are faithful, always asks you who called etc.

They want to be your all in all, i.e your dad, mum, elder brother, teacher, pastor, they just want to play all the roles in your life. It is doubtlessly good to make efforts to keep your woman but you must also know that there are limits since she is an entity herself.


5. CHRONIC CHEATERS.

Let's get this straight, cheating is NEVER a mistake, its a choice. People know exactly what they are doing when they are flirting with the opposite sex.
I mean, look at all the processes involved in the action. You should forgive your partner if he/she cheats but quit when it becomes a lifestyle.

This guy confessed to me one day that he 'accidentally' cheated on his spouse and I asked him, "you mean you accidentally paid for hotel room, accidentally collected your balance, accidentally texted her the room number, accidentally removed her bra, accidentally removed her underwear?" And to the shock of my life he said "YES SIR" I told him "you are accidentally mad".

First is happenstance, second is coincidence, third is devil's action. Don't ever imagine that a chronic cheater will suddenly transform into a faithful husband because he is married to you. What a man is before the wedding day is what he is after the wedding day! Wedding does not change people, people make decisions to change.
So, until you see that change you hoped for, don't go that road as yet.


6. AKA GUM (STINGY MEN).

My dear sister, love is demonstrated not only in the other room (which you must avoid because its a sin) but also in the giving of gifts. Its understandable if he does not have the money but if he has it and cannot spend a dime on you without a fight, he is stingy, avoid him.

Ladies, avoid rich men who would prefer to take you to a traditional doctor than to fly you to London for child delivery, e get why.


7. COMMITMENT-PHOBIC MEN.

Please and please, STAY AWAY FROM THESE MEN! They just want to waste your precious God-given time for nothing. Stay, they will not stay. Go, they will not go.
They are just hanging there like a dry leaf in a rainy season.
He is never ready for commitment but he is always ready for the other room.

I have found out that men with commitment phobia are very sexually active and perhaps even promiscuous. In all your falling in love, never fall in love with a man with commitment phobia, it is nightmare.


BONUS:
EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE MEN.

Truth is, some men can be strangely cold hearted. They treat you like their fellow man. Its no news that women generally are more emotional and men more rational. Women need attention.

A woman needs you to call her for no reason at all. Men must therefore learn how to be a bit more emotional and women a bit more rational. When a man is distant, does not ask you about yourself, does not call or text, is self centered, treats you poorly, it is either does not love you or he is cold hearted.

Getting involved with such a person who is emotionally unavailable can be so frustrating and often leads to heartbreak. You deserve a healthier and a happier relationship, stay away from them.

By Pastor Douglas Jonathan

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