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MrBrownJay1:
of course i did, because many women dont get married because they KNOWINGLY date useless men... you cant knowingly blame useless men and then turn around and blame them for being useless, can you?!

Apparently you can't.

MrBrownJay1:
this post should be called ....blame yourself for dating useless men

You kind of twisted the whole idea of the post tho

SEVEN REASONS WHY HE WILL NOT MARRY YOU.

1. HE IS MARRIED!
Many of the 'social media lovers' you will meet online are happily married men. You have to be properly guided and make your thorough research!
Also, some of those 'he is based abroad' well-to-do young men are not as single as they claim.
Men know that what a woman wants to hear is marriage, so they tell that to you and play ludo with your brain until you find out!
MAY YOUR BOO HAVE NO OTHER BOO IN JESUS NAME!

2. HE DOES NOT WANT TO MARRY YOU.
Ladies eh, if you like cook 12 square meal per day, give him all the sex positions in this world, wash his grandmother's clothes, if a man does not want to marry you he will not marry you. Most men do not know what they want but they surely know what they don't want and if its not you they want ITS NOT YOU. This truth is painful though. People have the right to want what they want and if its not you they want its because its not you they want. And this goes to both genders!

3. GOD LOVES YOU
Another reason why he will not marry you is because God loves you. He loves you so much not to allow a malicious, insensitive, over pampered wife beater marry you. He might be so sweet now but God knows the end from the start and Any time God wants to deliver you from a future marital disaster, He sabotages the relationship! In my opinion, IN EVERY BROKEN RELATIONSHIP, GIVE THANKS TO GOD, FOR IT IS THE WILL OF GOD CONCERNING YOU.

4. HE CANNOT MARRY YOU.
*Some ladies are way out of the league of some gentlemen!*
You have been soaking yourself in God, growing your spirit, growing your business, improving yourself, hard-working your way to the top and one jobless, senseless, mannerless, Godless, Wordless and Jesusless bobiosko with pink lips shows up to propose to you.
'Bros, EAGLES don't marry Tolo Tolo'

5. HE IS NOT READY TO MARRY.
When God created Adam, the first thing God gave him was a job: when God created Eve, the first thing He gave her was a man. So, for men, job comes before a woman and for a woman, man can come before job. Until he has a stable job and source of income, he might not want to marry.

6. HE IS AFRAID TO MARRY.
The moment a man is ready to marry, the first thing they battle with is the 'fear of who to marry'. What marriage is for women is not what marriage is for men. Women smile any time they fantasize their engagement or marriage, men shock any time they think about it! Most young men (not all) have MarrioPhobia.

7. HE MAY NEVER FIND YOU.
He that 'finds' a wife finds a good thing. But because you're busy flirting from Jerusalem to Samaria he probably may never find you. Since to FIND means to identity or discover something valuable, and you're not something 'valuable' in his eyes, he may never find you. You're with the wrong person that's why the right person may never find you.

@Douglasthesongwriter

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Thank you

I have this friend who made first class...not much have been heard of her but I wonder why all the stress.
I saw her read everyday of her life and it looks like I'm doing better than her since I came out with just third class.
Mind you, she did Medlab science.

Pls are you not ogbanje?

Listen to this man and you will wonder what kind of human being he is....I promise you

A popular gospel artiste Obim Kadosh yesterday engaged his girlfriend while leading worship on the altar. The whole church of over 10,000congrgation didn't see it coming. Some people can be romantic shaa.

The girl is foolish, the young man is irresponsible, the pastor is saving her underdeveloped brain from future emotional damage.

This is why...

THE YOUNG MAN
You came to a church to propose to a lady and you did not inform the shepherd (small s) of the house...
1 Corinthians 14:40 Let ALL THINGS be done decently and in order.
The church is not a shopping mall or a club. If you decided to propose to her in a church you should follow due process.
The church is not a gathering of irresponsible people that have come to waste their time!

Its a show of irresponsibility to decide to propose to her in a church JUST LIKE THAT if you must do it in the house of God you MUST do be decent.

THE YOUNG LADY
You have been in a relationship of that level of commitment, if the pattern of your church is to let the pastor know of such relationships (of which most churches do so as to ensure proper guidance because some young men are just terrible and brainwash naïve women) you should have done noble (except if you were doing something his and seek and never thought it would come to this).

If you see the level of emotional damage most women go through for marrying the wrong men, you would encouraged them to seek counsel and spiritual guidance before engaging.

When ever women are faced with marriage their brains block. After marriage their brains unblock.

THE PASTOR
Maybe he didn't teach them well and made the rules of engagement when it comes to marriage issues clear to his congregation. It would have saved him such embarrassment and embarrassing the young man.

He probably should have just left them see what the lady would do, if she took the ring he'd just free her...her eyes will open if she made a wrong choice.

Have seen so.many christian sisters wish they never got married than marrying irresponsible men!

Lemme guess... She's a slay queen hahahhaha bro you can't rehabilitate those people just forget them. No matter what you do for them they can't help but cheat (they rob salt for their tin in the day they were born)

I use to have this girl. She cheated with her ex of four years 2months into our the relationship and cried...I forgave her and understood she was just coming out of something. Four months later she had bleeeped him several times..as soon as we broke up she went back to him Lolz. Women eh Lolz strange people.

The bad thing there is once a woman can open her legs for another man she will never stop. You can take that to the bank!

Having read all the responses above all I can say is thank you!!!! I'm still praying and I'll take a cue fromm all you have said. Thanks for your time

I dont know the appropriate section to post this but mods pls do the needful.
Okayyyyy, I met this lady less than a three months now and we really connected. She's a strong Christian. Last night she told me a shocking revelation. She showed me a HIV result of two years ago that was positive and the one she did three months later that is negative! She said God healed her in their church! She had shared the testimony and her pastor confirmed.
Now she's never takes drugs and for two years now she's perfectly okay.

I dont know if there is a medical something that can make a HIV positive turn negative or is this a miracle like they claim! I had talked to her ex and he is still positive! I took her to diagnosis myself and she is negative! She dated this guy for 1yr 8months!

I have heard of Miracles! Could this be one? I want to marry her but I need to know if I'm safe.

I believe in God true but then I need to know. Pls this is serious cos I'm thinking of proposing this Christmas.

Thank you fellas

chillex8:
Golden rule of corolla ownership:

Never park a corolla outside the gate, no matter the circumstance, time of the day or predicament.

Sorry for your loss, and yes you will get a brainbox to match.
50% possibility you might even get your old brainbox.

I so appreciate u friend! Thank you thank you thank you

Sellfish:
Hmmmm....Another series in Corolla Stories that touch



The Lord is your muscle Sir....

I think the part number of the new brain box has to match that of the stolen one for it to work well on your car Sir

my brother thank you ooo

An okada man hit my door and damaged it...and though he admitted its his fault I let him go cos of mercy.
Parked my car (Toyota Corolla 2004 model) outside cos there were truvks blocking my gate that night and before morning thieves came and stole my brain box and many other things.

Now I have fixed other things remaining the brain box. The one I got today did not start the car. And the mechanic and electrician assured me that they will get the one that will fit.

My question is this, when I change the brain box will the car start giving issues or it will still work as it was before?

THE CAR IS JUST FEW MONTHS OLD #sobs

spyglaxx:
Saw something like that around Ikeja. It was trying to land. It stays for some seconds b4 landing.

Wow! I'm not mad after all

SKhanmi:
It might have been your point of observation, parallax error, no normal passenger plane can do that. And we don't have ospreys in Nigeria. They are one of the aircrafts that can hover like a copter

Wow I must have seen a ghost plane then. Cos this happened for mins and other people saw it

hatchy:
You have serious malaria which have adversely affected your brain.

See a physician immediately before it's too late.

Parents must stop giving their children phones.

mrfm1:
Very possible. Thats nothing to be surprised about.

Seriously?

vastolord4:
It's possible you saw a white hawk

No no no passenger plane! Probably an international flight.

SKhanmi:
Can you describe the plane?

Its a normal passenger plane. I guess it was gonna land at Ikeja airport. I'm not the only one that saw it. We were driving by iju ishaga

Is this possible? I just saw a plane suspend mid air like a helicopter without moving for minutes!

I had this idea before but I didn't have a laptop

Timi

sreamsense:
Surely, they will not go with your bag after emptying it, but you may not know where they will drop it except you are lucky if you can trek in search of it. While looking for your empty bag with vital credentials unimportant to them, although, depending on the area they ran toward after robbing you; there are so many bushes and canals they may dump your empty bag with other paper credentials; first check nearby bushes left and right towards second gate Iwaya and then follow first bank toward faculty of creative art/ fss ( faculty of Social Sciences) and check nearby bushes. Once you get to where their is no bush, go back towards DLI/health center to faculty of science. Ask for a narrow road that lead from faculty of science to faculty of engineering; check buses around that narrow road as well, they usually dump stolen empty bag around that side too. On getting to faculty of engineering, ask for direction to lagoon front, check everywhere around that side as well as akintude ojo/ main library areas. Cameras are in major areas in the school and ways leading to most bushes, but not sure if they will capture at close range. Just report first at security unit and ask for cctv footages, you may be lucky. Another time, even if not in the school environment, avoid too early journey, wait till 6:00am before stepping out on early journey, though robbery or bad people can rob at anytime of the day, but early in the morning and late in the night are too common with them. If you can still not find them after your efforts, then switch to plan B, go and do affidavit at nearby federal high court to begin process of getting back your important credentials lost. But it will be good first to write down statement at security unit and even take picture when you wrote the statement and lodge complaint for future refrencing claims.
Regards and goodluck!

Chai thank you so much. The God that will bless you is the real God in heaven. Thanks for taking out time to help me. God bless you brother. I will do as you have said

spinna:
Your story isn't clear were you driving or walking .If driving how did they stop you ?

Okay here is it.. I was driving past a street to enter into another street..you know normally I had to slow down and boom! They were there. I even thought they were security or came to snatch my car. Many thought then on my helpless head. I had to comply cos they got me unexpectedly

sreamsense:
Go to security unit (Alpha Base) first toward education faculty and report and write down your statement first and valuable collected. Ask for CCTV footages of the area, there are security cameras around that side since you know the time and date of incidence. They maybe students and they may not, bad students do rob while people come from outside to rob also especially from Iwaya and bariga areas. If you are lucky and the cctv footage picked their clear faces, there is probability their faces will be familiar to school community on campus if displayed as wanted.

This is so helpful for me Sir. But lemme ask you...are there cctv cameras everywhere in the school? In case they droped my bag at a corner of so

Freestainworld:
Sorry, drive by 7am next time .

Unfortunately...

Thanks so much dear

reccy:
This is bad.....

Thing like this don't happen in recent times here

daddytime:
How did you conclude they were students?

Why didn't you activate the DNA in your signature on them.

Bro if you have been there you know what fear can do to a man standing alone without weapons against bad blood

Pls unilag students or staffs how can I go about this? Was just driving past the street after DLI few hours ago and these two STUDENTS approached and robbed me of my valuables. Its was just 5am!

How do I go about it? I heard there is CCTV everywhere in unilag how true is this and how can I get the footage?

Pls someone help...

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PLEASE READ TILL THE END!!!! ...And so this renowned politician "Chief Okey Ikoro" invaded one of the largest churches in the city of Owerri (Owerri Gospel Hub of Rhythm 5 Int'l) located at plot 455 nkwere street, works layout Owerri, Nigeria, that is dominated by youth and students with over 20 thugs carrying guns and cutlasses on a faithful Sunday morning at about 1:15 am.. Burnt a 1000 capacity tent and hundreds of chairs to ashes, destroyed all the church sound equipments and many other church properties.

These thugs beat up all the young men that slept over to watch that night with those dreaded weapons to almost the point of death.
This happened on 28th April, 2019 after which he had destroyed another 1000 capacity tent that belonged to the same church on 18th March, 2019 at about the same time.

Please good people tell me what should we call this? I advocate this man be brought to book.
Please let's join hands together to do what's right!!!