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Thank you so much

Verysmart101:
Lemme advice you.The best way to stop all this shit is to withdraw ur love, attention,money,care etc from her.Have other girls too.She isn't the only one that can have multiple partners.She knows u can't do without her that's y she's treating like rag.Show her ur a high value man and it works like magic.

We are dating for 8 months she told me someone hurt her before, I did everything to make her believe in love again. It pains me when people keep saying I am childish because they are nkt in my shoe. I intentionally told her to do that to know her reaction but she fells me instantly.

goodman55:
Sincerely, I do understand what this guy is talking about. It pains when you so cherish your partner and he/she is not doing much to show it but you understand that ladies are the receiving end of almost all hurts in a r/ship except the ones caused by them. Don't expect much from your partner but they said to whom much is given; much is expected. If I may ask how long have you dated her bcus love at the starting point is much on your side than to her. She could be doing that based on her past experiences. R/ship is all abt patient and understanding but you marry these two with continuous communication.

You are a fool I am 31 so dont see it as childish because if u read my post well you will understand the reason. Why I told her to post it. It was a test.

tctrills:
I am not sure you are up to 21 years. See what you are complaining about.
Clearly, you don't have problems.
Trust me, when you get older, you would see that this was never an issue

Help me tell am o

Verysmart101:
Ur still asking when this evidence is quite obvious.U should have asked him the name she used to save his number if u were a detective instead of supporting her

Goat

shiwex:
You be real fool....I suggest you start watching freshandfit podcasts on youtUbe. so you go fit get some sense.

You are right dear she does those things, she told me same thing you just did. After reading the comments her yesterday I we to apologise toher and promise not to talk of it again, she was happy and me too. My dear the problem with me is that I am jealous type I don't want to lose her.

tragergeorge:
how's she hiding you,,she no de go out with you?abi she no de come see u,or she no de hang around with you her friends family or so which if them abi na for the what's app

30 bro and please stop using that word childish because u have never love a girl so much with your heart

Emperorx:
You are a small boy tell me how old are u?

You are a fool

Emperorx:
now I see why she not proud to ur picture up on WhatsApp ,from ur write up baba u talk like someone without sense or better still you are not matured yet to be in a relationship

My own name, if you are in my position won't u be angry

Siwel25:
I don laugh tire. Ure funny man. Shes most likely cheating if she saves a friend's name as 'My Heart'. If it were her brother or close cousin, it would make sense. What did she save your number as?

You are afool you are stupid do u know what I have done for her.

Enemyofpeace:
See James Bond claiming ownership of wetin him never pay dowry for. You are behaving like a baby bro, the girl should dump you and look for a real man and not cry cry baby.

Thank you boss

tegrianonigltd:
Oga
From what he explained, the werey Dey chest back to back... she is Aggressive one, she Dey cheat. No Dey use English confuse the young lad, as an Old Gee, boy wherever you are, run from that relationship it will ruin you, mentally.

God bless you for saying the truth

brandsoncharlie:
There's nothing childish about posting someone you love. No wonder yahoo boys they use these girls without knowing who he's.
Celebrities post their boyfriends and girlfriends who will receive more public backlash than you.
Stop giving irrelevant excuses does not worth it.

You are right I am childish you are a fool for saying that where you here to understand what made me conclude on that

Oblongatarh:
Your girlfriend must have seen a very bad trait in you and is not proud of you. She's just trying to see if you can change or not before you get dumped. From your writeup, I can sense that you are a kind of childish for assuming that your girl friend is cheating on you for being reserved, and generalizing that all Catholic girls are cheats because of your girlfriend's action.
Grow up brother man!

Mind your words mr man i am 25 if u dont know what to say you keep quiet and stop displaying your stupidity

sleek82:
you sound like a 16 year old boy....how many relationships have you been into? Like seriously Her body changing is a sign of cheating? . What will Musa not see in Nairaland oooo

Thanks

cumoverna:
Stop sucking her kpekus, jeez.
That thing signify that she has total dominion over you.

After sucking her, she nor give you sex , and your happy in the relationship. Rubbish

No

Dayveed23:
I don't know if I'm the only one but I don't like people posting my pictures ...for any reason in particular ...the funny thing is I take alot of pictures myself ...and I'm a private person ..if I was dating someone ...I wouldn't post your pictures and plss don't post mine ..

BTW...is she the one on your profile?

I am very serious I want to marry her

Berezuski:
Mad man
What has Catholic got to do with a pussy nigga like you?
What is your level of seriousness with her?
do you want to married her?

Omg are you serious I hate lesbian but she told me Bleep only once in 2020 withone guy that now she don't want Relationship that involves sex

fashionnisir:
Lol, that is selfishness, she is a lesbian for your notices, stop and quit the relationship, no good guy desires to be treated that way or desires to be with a lesbian.

Both because I does that many times

jakizio42:
Ok profile? Your title is different

I thought it was status, i came here to say she's not wise iykyk.

Wow best advice thanks bro, I really appreciate that I will work on it with immediate effect, she won't smell my 1k again

Daniel7543:
Don't listen to those broke feminists advice o.

You too gan... You need to change your ways. You had sex with her once since 8 months of your relationship. don't you know she's fucking her side dude. Abi she be virgin? Yet you dey suck kpekus her.

You no know say you dey suck another man sperm from her kpekus? Oga stop sucking the kpekus you don't trust and don't spend your money on her.

What are the tools because I have not seen them can u list what I will do

Wisesaying001:
All I will say to you is this:work on yourself.

Thanks boss I am working on my self to get stronger mind because I have soft mind that's why she takes me for a ride

posty56:
think say na only am they run the babe ,una go learn the hard war idiot,if like no wise and stop taking these girls serious, you they form lover boy.

Ok dear I am working on it I want to kill my love for her before quitting I dont want later I go back if I start missing her

Wisesaying001:
You need to see a relationship counsellor.
That's some weird excuse though.if I may ask what are you still waiting for?
Why not call off the relationship since you already have enough proof that she's cheating?

For 8 months we are dating na only once I bleep her and since she keep given me pussy to suck. I always give her money yet I don't see the love

Daniel7543:
But she sabi chop the guy money abi?

Are both of you ho.rny? Then come to my church programme tonight. #THEME

She is cheating on me even her Tommy is coming out but it is not pregnant sha but a lot has changed in her body, her booty becomes bigger.

Wisesaying001:
It's cool to be suspicious but the question is what do you think?
She is cheating on you or you are just being suspicious?

God bless you

2braithe:
She's not wise.
She should have posted it and set her status to be viewed by only you or your friends whom you could confirm from.

We have done that severally I open up to her, I hide nothing from her but she tells me the one she fill like, cannu imagine she save a guys number with MY HEART that was when my trust for her started shaking, I confronted her she said he is a friend. I told her to change it but she didn't. The other day I came her house I saw two plates of ice cream yet she didn't explain it. I felt bad.

Wisesaying001:
Have you heard of respecting your partner's choice?
Love and Respect are the two prime pillars in a relationship.

Come what may, of both of you love and respect each other, trust each other and be loyal to each other, nothing in this world can create differences between you. Best is to sort out any kind of problem be it small or large in front of each other by talking and hearing out each other’s points with patience. This will give each other the confidence that the partner is ready to listen to each and every thing and thus enhances the bonding and understanding between the two.
Is that understood now?

Please explain better

Wisesaying001:
And don't you think you are the one misunderstanding her here?

Wisesaying001:
And don't you think you are the one misunderstanding her here?

She doesn't talk too much she only said nothing I ask why she shouted at me that there is no reason

Wisesaying001:
Have you thought of discussing it with her?

I feel uneasy when she hides me

Wisesaying001:
That doesn't mean she's no longer into you,she definitely might be a reserved person.

I told my girlfriend to post my pics on her Whatsapp profile and she refused to do so, but I post hers telling the world how proud I am to have her.

I was very angry I want to end the Relationship. You see all this Catholics girls na now I fear them wella. Full of games and cheating.

This davido will never see heaven hell is waiting for him, he can enjoy all he wants to eat drive cars but death will end it. Useless fool he can never make heaven