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Dear nairalanders,

I really need ur help! Ihave been goin out wid this guy for the past 3 years! The first 1 1/2 years were beautiful, we met eachothers family and even thought about settling down after finishing university! We went on s holiday and just had loads of fun together. Until he started to change towards me and confessed tht he was having a 7months relationship wid a ugandan girl at his working place! .my world fell apart, particularly when the girl started harrasing and insulting me, tellin me all the nasty things which she used to do wid my bf ans how ugly I was and god knows what!! Althougj I was hurt I decided to forgive him and got pregnant, but lost the baby after all the stress!he at first tried his best to make it up to me after his affair and went back to treating me like a queen, !but he later on started to become obsessive and paranoiid and started being violent and abusive to me! He once even raped me! I thought tht I was pregnant after that incident and told him about it but all he cud say was: don't bring any bastard into my house, I can't be the father of this 'thing'that u may b carrying.I cried myself to sleep on that night but - was lucky tht I wasn't pregnant after I tested negative for a pregnancy! Ireally want to break up wid this boy, because I feel like I have lost all my dignity,self confidence and pride- but - don't know why I still luv him and believe it everytime he tells me that he loves me and can't live without me! Guys I need ur advice concerning this issue

IT DISGUSTS ME THAT THEY JIHAD BOMBERS, IN HEAVENLY REWARDS ( VIRGINS?? HEAVEN IS NOT SUM SICK BORDELL, ) AFTER KILLING DOZEN OF INNOCENT HUMAN BEINGS( CREATED BY GOD FOR A PURPOSE),

why won't u post ur crap, in the muslim forum,  i AM SICK AND TIRED OF MUSLIMS, TRYING TO CONVINCE US TO CONVERT INTO ISLAM.
LIFE WOULD BE BETTER WITHOUT THEM, THEY ONLY CAME TO KILL AND DESTROY, ( BELIEVING THAT THEY CAN TAKE THE VENGENGE OF GOD INTO THEIR HANDS)

the best thing is to move on with ur life,
i was once stupid enough to take revenge and cheat on the guy, which made me the loser at the end of the day, I didnt gain anything out of it.
JUSt be happy and find a GUy that looks betta than him, that is more educated and has got a future, believe me he will regret the fact that he ever let u go!!!!!

many CCC parishes are filled up with hypocrites and wolves behind sheeps clothes, but those kind of people also exist in pentecostal and catholic churches. The reason why people fornicate and commit adultry in CCC is because the majority people share the yuroba background, I AM sorry to say, but most yurobas are known for their rough lifestyle, having women/or men here and there,

u hardly find sheperds or elders commiting adultry in CCC parishes in edo state or other parts of nigeria