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MNDY:
It is not simple like that.

Naturally, a man needs a woman and the woman needs a man for sex. The issue is why have Nigerian ladies/women monetized it. Or are you saying what you are saying because it is the man who goes for it. Have you not seen/heard of women wanting and going for it too even as they are naturally pretentious.

Ok! Maybe not simple like that.

Sex?!
Please I wanna understand well.
I'm sorry for disturbing you too much. I thought we are discussion about money and love?
Now sex?

My opinion is some peoples have sex for love.
Some peoples have sex for money.
Some peoples have sex for just having fun or just for satisfied their sex drive.

I have a one friend who always think men are for only money and sex.
Sex is like sports to her.

iamadonis22:
Conquest is like a win over another person; victory even!

Give and take is the unspoken social rule in your country. That’s nice.

Unless you roll with people from the upperclass in Nigeria, you won’t see such “give and take” happen.

I think I understand meaning conquest now. Thank you so much for teaching me!
I appreciate you!!

Yes, unspoken social rule, something like that. Appreciate and In return is important.

iamadonis22:
Good question.

The answer is conquest! There is no greater pain in a man’s life than the one he feels when he sees or suspects that the woman he loves is undressing and submitting her body to another man.

The foolish men amongst us, because of this, naively try to outdo themselves. Try to impress and tie their worth to how much they can offer their women. Let’s not blame ourselves; our society is structured to make broke men feel inadequate. Nigerian girls cannot survive 2 full days in a country like Poland!

Oh! That is good question?!

Conquest? This is difficult to me.
Is this meaning use money for get partner? or something like that?

I don't think foolish.
Someone who playing other person's feel is foolish and evil.
But in my country, if someone who spent money for other person and complain about it after is not cool.

So, better to say no or pay separately.
Like if you and me go to restaurant together, you pay your order and I pay my order.
Or if you paid this time, I will pay next time.
This is common in my country.

And I think my country also still common about men and older person will pay.
But peoples who knows manner, will not ignore what they did it to them.
They will in return for them. Like give and take.

MNDY:
On this subject matter, it is women we are talking about.

Ok!
I just want you to know that I can agree and disagree both men and women.

Please what is difficult to say no if you don't wanna spend your money for that kind of women?
And why choose that kind of money money women?
You don't wanna spend your money but you spent it, then complain about that?
This is very confusing.

If you don't wanna spend your money, don't spend it.
Is it not symple like that?

I think I wrote this before that if someone who truly love you, she will not happy to see when you are using your money for meaningless.
But I think money money person happy to see when you are wasting your money for them.

MNDY:
Do you know that if you condemn something with your voice and others join you to do the same, especially something relating to your gender, it will gradually solve the problem.

Unfortunately, you women (Nigerian women) don't do that.

Why gender?
I can agree and disagree both men and women.
There is no gender.

MNDY:
It is this defend that you keep defending your gender that makes the matter worse and make it remain the same. In this Nigeria, women have made men see them as people who like money more than love.

Why do you think those 2 guys returned to the OP to impress her? Keep defending your gender you hear? They should not earn and spend their own money.

I'm making something worse for Nigerian women on here?!
Oh! No no no! I never ever meant making something worse for Nigerian women. Never!! Why I should do that?!

If I'm making feel bad for Nigerian women on here, I'm apologize them. I'm very very sorry.

MNDY:
He is saying you (Nigerian) women should be campaigning aggressively that your fellow Nigerian women/ladies should stop putting eyes on a man's money and get a job and spend their own money on themselves.

Men have spoken too much on it but it is ignored. So, maybe if it is coming from the mouths of same women, it will be taken seriously. You cannot pretend not to see it everywhere around you. It is what shaped the mentality of the two guys who returned to the OP.

Only Nigerian women/ladies carry a different mentality. European ladies are crying out for help to get into relationship because work is affecting their social life. Naija ladies no dey work, na man money dem dey use. The ones working still put eyes on the man's money.

I'm really really confusing again

Women can't talking about love in Nigeria? Is it so bad things or taboo in Nigeria?
Talking about money is bad and talking about love is also bad?

Putting eyes on man's money?
I think this is not only about women. Both men and women.
And I think every where have that kind of peoples both men and women.

purples25:
Oh don't be sorry! I'm very glad you're asking about me.

I'm fine. Please stay safe too. Hugs!

Thank you so much! You are always very gentle and very kind to me!
I really appreciate you!!

I'm very happy to hear that you are fine!
Thank you so much! I'm keeping safe.

Big big hugs!!(о´∀`о)

purples25

How are you?
I hope you are good and stay in safe!!

I'm sorry. I think I'm too much disturbing your this topic again

SimplyFacts:
Ko t'ope, ma.

Sorry, I can't read it
I will check it. I hope I can find out how to read and what is meaning!
Thank you for taking your time again.
I really appreciate you!!

SimplyFacts:
No problem, I can tell you the meaning if you would not feel hurt.

It's a Yoruba language (one of the tribal languages in Nigeria) which literally means "who brought a novice here?".

Oh! That meaning is like not welcome?

I'm not feel hurt. I'm glad! Because I learned new thing!
Thank you so much for taking your time. I learned from you! I appreciate you!!

I wanna try to write Yoruba language to you too.
Oga mi, Ese!!

aynerodcirus:
Of course not.

Oh! Ok!
I'm glad I didn't make you feel bad
Thank you for taking your time. I appreciate you!!

aynerodcirus:
Wow..., that’s so nice.

Thank you so much!!

SimplyFacts:
Don't mind me.
It's just a slang we use for a stranger.

Oh! Ok!
Pidgin English? or Nigeria language?
I wanna know about meaning. Please can I learn from you?

aynerodcirus:
Is you husband a Nigerian?

Yes!! My husband is a Nigerian man!

aynerodcirus:
Oh! Don’t mind me. I’m jux being sarcastic.

Ok!
Sorry, I maybe made you feel bad?

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djon78:
Money can't buy love

Because once that money is not there
The true nature is revealed
Even wealthy guys know this

That's why the rich always likes marrying themselves
Because they know that
A poor person coming for there kids in marriage
Never really loved them
Love is very rare

So in real sense
Money can't buy love
Even greedy girls
That go for money
Most times
Get played by the rich men they go for

Except in rare occasions
But the rich dude
Always watches his back

Money can never buy love
Nevy

Yes! My opinion is money can't buy love too! I wanna believe that.
But maybe, maybe can buy love for money, but can't buy love for him or her.

Kingsean:
You're very correct pls ignore some of those guys. Money can't buy a woman's heart. If any man succeeds in buying a woman over with his money, he has just signed his death warrant because she would be banging someone else outside and be chopping his money steady till he goes broke

I can't ignore. I'm sorry.
I'm learning! Exchanging opinion with peoples is very interesting and very meaningful to me!

Money and love is different things to me.
Everybody need money for life.
But buying women's heart, I maybe should say women's love, with money?! I still really can't understand.

Banging and chopping meaning is that kind of women hit someone outside and cut money like vegetables or meat?
Violent women? Hurt men?

walkingshadow911:
i understand u are not from Nigeria thereby having problem with English which is d general language here. mind u, Nigeria is a very difficult country, and majority of our ladies uses relationship as a source of income and a mean to survive. therefore it very difficult for men find love here. relationship is all strategy and transaction. true love is rare here , so sad


Domo arigato gozaimasu

I'm from Japan. Nice to meet you!

My English skill is still very bad. Reading, writing and speaking English is still very very difficult to me.
But I'm trying!

I asked my husband about money and love in Nigeria before when I have exchanged opinion with some peoples on here.
Because I wanted to understand very well.
I asked him many many questions and he explained to me. But I couldn't understand well.
Then he told me that I can't understand and I will never understand.

Thank you so much for taking your time for explain to me! I appreciate you!!
And Thank you so much for writing Japanese to me! I'm feel so happy!
I really appreciate you!!

Arigato gozaimashita!!(о´∀`о)

PUSSYHOE:
Wetin i want use her heart do? Them dey _fuck heart?

Sorry, I don't understand.
Very difficult to me. Pidgin English?

zanshi:
Everything is money, you berated us in our early years calling us broke, no problem.
We went to double our hustle and now we want some action all of sudden, money is not important.

Rest abeg.

Don't blame it is the dating cues Nollywood showed to us on how to get women.

Everything is transactional these days and we men love it like that.

I'm sorry, I can't understand.
When did I berate you? and When did I call you broke?
Did I make you feel so bad or hurt you before?

Please I wanna understand very well.
Did I do something wrong to you before?

SimplyFacts:
Talo m'egun wa?

Sorry, I can't read it and I can't understand it.
Please I wanna learn! What is this meaning?

aynerodcirus:
Duh! Money can buy definitely buy someone’s heart..., why else is there heart transplant

Sorry, I don't understand.
Surgery?

Very interesting topic! I love it!!
Thank you for sharing. I appreciate you!