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mine was an sms he sent me when i moved to start a new job "since u've been gone there's this feeling of emptiness inside me as if i'm no longer complete. i miss u so much" i cried.

:oGirlfriend instead of obsessing over getting him to forgive u or talk to u i think u need to get a life, new friends, new hobbies whatever it takes to keep u busy all the time and just forget about him. u're hanging on to a man that obviously doesn't love u and hurting yourself in the process. From ur recent posts i get the idea that your self esteem must be in shreds by now. Get strong for God's sake u're a grown woman and getting independent is long long overdue 4 u.
Please leave the poor guy alone he has a right to move on with his life and come to think of it, so do u!
@title, u didn't HAVE to do anything, u chose to. a very poor decision if i may add.

i'm not THAT silly. finishd school and started my masters. At least i still have a career to concentrate on.i actually met him when i was 15. guess i was too idealistic.

i learnt the hard way that to trust a girl is a VERY VERY big mistake. i have many 'friends' but i always always keep my personal life private. going to ur girls for advice about ur relationships only gives them more details for gist. their advice is almost always off track an worsens ur situation. I only trust my big sis cos she's my blood and will always have my back. childhood friends sometimes turn out to be very good, trustworthy friends but its wise to test them first b4 trusting them.

Would really like to get ur input on this. I just broke up with my 1st boyfriend. it lasted 8 years and down the line i lost track of why i was even hanging on. he was a habitual cheat. the type thats all about promises and sweet dreams but runs after d nearest girl whenever he feels he has a chance of doing so without getting caught. i turned into ashley cole. Marking him so much i lost track of me and concentrated on keeping him from cheating. Pathetic se? i think i hung on because i truly believed your first relationship is supposed to be special in a way.i've heard so many sob stories from friends that were burnt d 1st time. i've never heard a story as stupid as mine though. i think we are all naive and vulnerable the first time and tend to tolerate much more than we usually would. i'm just so angry with myself for staying so stupid for so long.