ceaser:


Then he was being childish by demanding back that which he gave willfully and unconditionally. But guess what? You'd have played more mature by handing that back to him. Show him you didn't need it badly. Just remember to let him know that that attitude of his may never get him a good relationship with people generally. An adult should know when to quit, when to assert and when not to.

If I were that guy, heaven knows I will never invest in that place where there is no ROI. I truss masef.

By the way, what does your use of "you don baf" mean? Does it mean "chop craze" or what?

Rexhenrex:
u just made my night lmao;which one be u don ba again? Nothing i no go hear....lol

ceaser:


It's not right that you took that offer knowing fully well that he felt such kind gesture would endear him to you. It's a natural disposition and you could have been more humane to politely refuse the mattress or at best let him know that you appreciate it and you know what he wants but you will prefer that you both remained just friends. Doing that will make him respect you the more. You can then let him make an informed choice whether to still go ahead with giving you the mattress or any other kind gestures for that matter.

He is apparently the kinda guy who may not have the luxury of sweet talk to express his desires to you straightaway. You knew that but you still took advantage of him anyways.

It's not totally right.

ceaser:


It's not right that you took that offer knowing fully well that he felt such kind gesture would endear him to you. It's a natural disposition and you could have been more humane to politely refuse the mattress or at best let him know that you appreciate it and you know what he wants but you will prefer that you both remained just friends. Doing that will make him respect you the more. You can then let him make an informed choice whether to still go ahead with giving you the mattress or any other kind gestures for that matter.

He is apparently the kinda guy who may not have the luxury of sweet talk to express his desires to you straightaway. You knew that but you still took advantage of him anyways.

It's not totally right.

PunterTim:
And A Sensible First Post. You Welcome.*Raises Her Head*. Y U Shy?