Hi guys,

I was with a man for three years. We decided to get married and in 3 yeas being friend and engaged we had bought lots of gifts for eachother. But he started behaving weird 6 months before marrige and it really made me mad. In new year eve we were together at a restaurant (expensive) and after 12:00 PM when couples started kissing, hugging and celeberating the new year he was kissing other people and completely forgot about me. It really pissed me off and it was the beginning of the end. 10 days later he said ON THE PHONE he does not want to marry me and he did not want to marry since the beginning! then he disappeared for three weeks. I wrote him an email and asked him please send my books and cloths I had left in your house by post and I will do the same with your cloths in my place. In the answer he called me and said I will bring them one day and take my stuff and I asked about his stuff ! he said well I want my gifts back! It really made me upset. I returned the ring and other jewlleries he had bought me but I did not return birthdate gifts. He returned most of my gifts, birthday gifts, marriage gifts even my parents gifts! For me it meant so childish, foolish, and humiliating. What about the memories we shared! Interesting point is he has kept few of my personal stuff not gifts over there in his place! The way he acted was interesting he did not want to marry me but he pretended it is me breaking up with him! so he should return whatever I have bought for him and I should do the same. Men are so strange sometime!