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Estellar:
We are

I'll find Time to send you a pm.then

Estellar:
Bauchi. Thanks. Good to know

Bauchi? You really don't look like a northern lady. My stereotypical assessment though. Let's be friends.

Estellar:
Maybe its fake..lol.. Its Estelle actually. Thank u. U r cute... The pleasure is mine Emmanuel

Hmmm, Estelle. Nice name. Thanks. What's your state? I wanna know you. Don't mind me, I like meeting people. its my hobby. It helps me cope with life. Lol.

Estellar:
lol... Where's d cute face? Definitely not my face. Let him watch at least not mine

As if your profile is fake! Stella! Haba. You are beautiful, and modest about it. I like that. I'm Emmanuel anyway. It is nice meeting another cute lady...

Estellar:
wish i knew

Lol. Come around here and let's see that cute face. Who knows if Nigeria's bill gates I watching?

Estellar:
Ok will b right back

How long will it take you to be right back?

Tapout:
bro u never talk wetin u dey find this early morning

Lol. Lol. Adventure!

missclasssy:
No you can't.

I know I can't. Just figurative and rhetorical. #sneer

missclasssy:
A relatioship should never be a parasitic one where on partner feeds and gains at the expense of the other.
It should be a symbiotic one which benefits both parties.

I don't know what attracted the guy to the lady but that's the defining factor as regards this issue.
If all that attracts a guy to a lady is her sexual appeal, then I don't see why he would be expecting to gain something else from her.

There are other things that should attract a guy towards a lady, such as the level of education she has attained, her wit, a talent she has, the way she relates with people, a vocational skill she has acquired, her wealth, etc.
When the some of aforementioned is used as criteria for attraction coupled with her physical attributes, then definitely there wouldn't be need to ask this question.

You just hit the nail! can I hug you?

Summer1:
Hey there, retrace ur steps, lol

*walks a bit back* I asked an harmless question. From a very innocent heart.
(what goes in a guy's mind)

Wow... You look really cute... Are you single? lol

let me be the first sane guy. I'm coming. .

OK. I've uploaded. Don't bash. I'm just OK. I don't hold beauty as superfluous. I appreciate skills and quality instead. Everyone is beautiful cos God created it that way.

How to Keep any Relationship Healthy

By: Cucan Pemo
With all of the advice out there on how to rebuild your relationship, why not look at tips to keep your already healthy relationship in tact? There are plenty of things that you should avoid in order to make your relationship with your wife or girlfriend from unnecessary miscommunication as well as arguments. In fact, these tips can help you in every relationship that you have - read on.

DON'T be right all the time

There's nothing more frustrating in a relationship than a person who insists that they are always right. No one is right all of the time, and it's time that you realized that. It takes a much stronger person to admit that they were wrong than it is for someone to not admit that they may have made a mistake. Don't be the know it all.

DON'T refuse to apologize

You will have something that you need to apologize for at some point, even if you don't think that it's a big deal. When you allow your partner to hear that you are sorry about something, you allow them to see that you are willing to move past something in order to have a healthier relationship. And even if you don't think that you are wrong, apologizing is a great way to start fixing the situation instead of making it worse.

DON'T know the other person better than they know themselves

If you've ever been in a fight or a discussion when another person has claimed to know what you want, doesn't that feel upsetting? You want to avoid doggedly trying to prove that you know more about the other person than they do - because that just isn't the case. Take the time to consider their feelings and thoughts when they tell them to you. To not let them have a say is to make the conversation one sided.

DON'T assume anything

When you start to assume something, you start to chip away at the truth. IF you want to know about something, the other person is going to have to tell you what you need to know. Assuming that someone feels a certain way or that they want you to do a certain thing is only going to set you up for possible problems. Assuming is really just guessing.

DON'T rub it in

If you do find out that you are right about something, you don't want to constantly rub the fact in long after the discussion is over. Your relationship isn't about someone being right; it's about the two of you being happy. If you're right, you're right, but then you need to move on. Your partner will not appreciate being reminded that they were wrong.

DON'T put your priorities first

While you both want to have your needs and wants addressed, when you try to focus more on your own needs than your partner's needs, you will be seen as selfish and uncaring. A relationship means that you are putting someone else's needs before your own, and in doing so, allowing your needs to be fulfilled as well. Seek out their needs to see how you can compromise to make both of you happy.

DON'T interrupt them

When you're trying to make a point, you might feel that your words are more important than theirs, but this is not helpful. If you are interrupting what someone else is saying all the time, two things happen: one, you're not hearing what they are saying, and two, you are showing that your opinions are more important than theirs. Instead, stop yourself and make a mental note to bring up your point when they are finished.

DON'T make promises you can't keep

You aren't going to be perfect, but when someone is counting on you to help maintain a good relationship; you need to be able to hold up your part of the bargain. This means that you need to be able to make promises that you can keep. And when you do make a promise to someone, they need to be able to expect that you will follow through - every time. If you can't make a promise, then let them know that you will try your hardest, but that you can not promise it. This allows them to have realistic expectations of you.

No relationship is perfect, but there are plenty of ways that you can keep it from becoming unhealthy.

Mhizizzy:
I can't remember much

Infact anyfn at all

I only dreamof my intending bf

Lol. Nice one.

For me, no ex

Mhizizzy:
Nice one missghost

I better find a date here too

Seriously? Who do u av in mind?

SAZZYSKOLY:
Not reallly.... jus didn't believe she cld walk....

Eyah. I've experienced that too. Got me writing seriously.

SAZZYSKOLY:
Did u jus say AGIDI,,,, u need to meet my EX.... 1 tin 4 sure I will never give her d plesure of a TEXT like thiis

Lol. Haba. You must av felt really bad when she left.

Qmab:
OP, are these lines really your brain child? If yes Kudos!
Its just that I dnt make use of ready made texts, i like to create them myself.
But it's lovely anyways.

They are and thanks for the compliment. I do encourage originality at all time for as cool as this writeup may be, it won't work for everyone. You may get ideas from this and many others to write your own apology though, its allowed.

Midehi:
hey! thats for a LovePeddler, a girl who knows what she want wont cheat or decieve his bf with the little hes providing her with except shes not ready yet. there are still few girls who respect & adore their relationship alot.

Exactly. Bottom line, the guy should not be stingy, and the lady should appreciate and even understand when the guy is broke. And reply my pm too, Midehi

Vikky014:
Yes. hw i wish i know d gf

Lol, So we can go together and beg her in the name of love. Bless your soul. Lanretoye, Now you see how nice vikky is.

Lanretoye:
thanks bro,i swear i no go do am again.

Vikky014, You hear that? I hope she hears, I mean ur gf

Mancity26:
u no see pesin wey u talk? Genevieve...well i understand u but money still follow, see true luv..true luv na wit money o

Lol. you are right