₦airaland Forum

What exactly is ur biznez in this? Why are you taking PANADOL for their HEADACHE? Don't DUll.

OK i am beginning to hate SANUSI. *hissing*

Yoru_Igbo:
Summary of what not to include

1. Do not list salaries for the job or any previous job
2. Do not include personal information such as date of birth, marital status, religion, ethnic group, height, weight, or health
3. Do not includes names of supervisors or references. You may end your resume with statement "References available on request," but this is optional and can be omitted if you have space concerns.
4. Do not use the word Resume on top of the page

Things to include

1. Include a career or job objective if it's specific. If your objective is general, instead include a summary of skills and qualifications.
2. Include all work experience and education.
3. Include any strengths and accomplishments in your job description.

I remember asking an applicant in an interview that 'can you tell me when you have demonstrated a leadership quality?' the answer I got was I was the student union president is that a demonstration of leadership quality?

R u serious bou number 3? won't it disqualify u?

@topic. So it's a crime to say d truth in NIGERIA now? This man has seen it all cos he's been there b4, breeze don blow fowl yansh open. Na so dem go dey expose diaself lil by lil.

Yankee01:
This is for pple that made lower gade out of school. If you are first class or 2:1 material, you would be proud to put it in your CV, mehn!

@yankee01, u dont nid a soothsayer to explain wat i mean(t)! We both r saying the same thing.

@op/topic. no difference. they are all the same!!!

@topic. Yes it can at times, cos even d things u have in common with ur partner maybe wat would seperate u both!!! #talkingfromexperience

@Topic. Never put what you graduated with, let them find out! u put ur grade and u get dis-qualified especially if they r looking for sumone with a grade higher than urs!!!

@All. Why are u all rooting for a bridge? We need so much more than a BRIDGE in NIGERIA. Don't u guyz get it?

@topic

She is so ungrateful, hence she needs to be dis-qualified. #myopinion

M M M:
Op
Re u a dog dat goes bäck 2 his vomit?

It did work out d 1st time so it will never work out no matter want u put in and d effort .

dats relationship / love 4 u.

@M M M. I don't/didn't go back to my vomit, the vomit is the one coming back to me!

TheCongo:
Yes, age could be a factor. You indicate that he told your folks he is coming to Nigeria to marry you. In my opinion, the younger he is, the more likely he is just coming to play with you and then leave you for good this time after getting what he wants.

Just be cautious with those americanas.

@Thecongolink. My thots exactly since he hasn't parted my "BLACK SEA" lolz

Spyker:
Yes if the reason for the breakup can be overcome by present situation. He traveled out and was acting funny, did he promise you marriage? If No, why then are you acting like you guys are engaged. If I were him, the only way I could get a girl off my back is to tell her I was involved with another (which might be the case) but does it stop him from loving you? I don't think so.

No, if he cheated on you before the break up, I always say that once a cheater, always a cheater. If he is serious about you, accept him back with certain conditions like "no s.ex., make preparations for you to join in or even do a small family introduction where native law and custom marriage rites would be done. If he is for real, he will certainly agree which I doubt he would.

@spyker. Yeah he did promise marriage, He never cheated before the break-up, infact according to him he met the girl 2 months after he broke up with me and 4 months in2 dia relationship he came out openly wiv dia pictures. So ----------- watchu fink?

F/marshal360:
What i understand is that you dont meet his/her standard, he/she is just pretending to have luv you and will do anything when he/she sees who meets his/her standard at any time,whybcos he/she dont need going any where else if you do.so if you still want to be interim pending the time he/she will see better person you can go back.

@f/marshal. I dont think so. He initially dint meet my standard wen he was still in nigeria, now he cos he is in US and making himself sum few bucks he feels he's up to my standard.

Mynd_44:
Everyone who replied her disappointed me. The only reason the OP plans to go back to him is because he said he wants her to join him where he is

@mynd_44. I beg your pardon, what is all bou joining him there, by the way he is still schooling there, i av finished and i have a wonderful job here, ime well to do, my family can afford to send me outta d country. So it has got nothing to do with him saying i should cum join him der. Mind u i dont plan on-going back, if i did i wouldn't be here asking questions, i ll just do it. COPY?!

TheCongo:
@OP, how old are you if you don't mind me asking? And how old is your ex?

@congo. Is dat a criteria u'ld use to respond? Well ime in my early twenties, less than 25, a graduate and working already, he is in his late twenties, less than 30 tho' ?! So --------??

tblacker:
OP
don't be carried away with whatever wealth he might have amassed when he comes back and obviously some new swags.Having said that,i would ask that you don't write him off totally,someone you see everyday can leave you for another person let alone a dude that lives across the sea.

Test his motives and see how genuine they are.Let him know that the legs are close for now and the keys to them is wedding(if you see yourself spending the rest of your life with him).

I guess he was just carried away with the new environment plus you girls do play your insecurities out like there is no tomorrow when your man is away from you. You are definitely part of the problem if you can be sincere with yourself and look inward.

As for whether he would do it again,I doubt if he would stand that chance if you truthfully close them legs.But trust me,don't push him away.I feel you still have a thing for him that you have to come online and seek for some encouragement.Unless-of-course you have someone better now and you guys are seriously considering settling down together. My little piece.

@tblacker. To some extent i second your opinion, you hit the nail on the head at some point, BTW he has never gone in-between my legs before, now i think dat is wat he is hell bent on getting dats why he is trying to come back.

M M M:
Nope.

@M M M. Whats your reason?

deniyor:
It's your call. When it comes to love and feelings, people usually do the irrational and stuupid thing. I said it wouldn't be ideal to take him back. From my own experience, people hardly change really. I took a lady back once, but she left again eventually shattering my heart to pieces then. The thing is we always want to believe the best in the people we love. My advice is don't take him back but it's your call.

@deniyor. I no longer need a prophet to spell the words out loud to me, i'll just take cue from wat apuned to u. Thank u.

dare2think:
"Never leave someone who will never leave you"

Some quote I encountered a while ago. But in your case, he left you and got involved with another person. Long distance can affect people's mind sometimes and their priorities shift, but if he is coming back to 9ger to stay, test out his commitments. Pls be sure he is coming to stay ,else he just wants  someone he can service easily before going back.( Most guys in diaspora do that when visiting 9ger)

The disadvantage is the fact that he has left you once, thereby de-valuing your union. This means he has a very high probability of doing it again compared to someone 'new' because if you get back with him and the going gets tough (which is inevitable in all relationships), what would he do?

Some men learn from their mistakes and adjust. Only you know this person and only you can truthfully ascertain if he has the capabilty of repeating a mistake.

The ball is in your court.

@dare2think. I get your point, never trust any1 so i really can't vouch dat he wouldn't repeat d same thing. Thanx all d same

Spyker:
Yes and No, it all depends on how and why you broke up.

@spyker Why YES? and Why NO? in your opinion, we broke up because he travelled out and was beginning to act funny, we wer always having series of quarrels after sumtym he called and said it was over dat he had gotten sum1 else. shikena

omega25red:
pepperoni

i took a look at your profile pic and yes you are cute but trust me there are lots of very cute girls here in the states. If he met a chic already and dumped you he will surly meet another and another and another. Some girls here only need applebees to lay on their backs lol.
He seems dumb as zhit too because other guys cheating on their chics in Nigeria do it on the low they dont put their new girls pic on FB (i guess i give him props for his honesty)

@omega25red. OK i get u now thanx, he's juz toying wiv my emotions right! Well he's in a jonzing world. Tnx

@iice. He is telling my family he is coming back in november to get engaged to me bla bla bla, he was initially planning on me joining him buh wen he met dis girl, he stopped buh now he's talking bou it again. Aldoe he told me he's gun be having sex wiv other girls buh he's not in love with dem, juz using dem to unwind!

@deniyor. So i should not accept him back right?

@omega25red Yeah i know, so in a nut-shell u saying he's lieing bou everything i.e he aint for real?!

@iice He says he wants to come back because i seem to be better than the other Girl and that he thot wrong. Actually he isn't based in nigeria anymur, he went to US and met sum girl, he initially used his pix wiv her as his profile picture but he has since taken it off and gone back to putting a solo picture. Basically he's pleading wiv my family members to forgive him.

@iice Why? what if you still like/love the guy?

I just wanna know, because i kinda have sumtin similar happening to me.

Nairalanders do you all think it is advisable to open an account in my BF's  bank? I've got account with 3 banks presently but he wants me to open one in his bank. I feel it will affect his generousity toward me. Watchu all think?

I go for the three points mentioned by the poster. Rant all you can Nairalanders it wont change anything. That my choice so deal wiv it!


1. Appearance/Handsomeness
2. Character
3. Money

I cant suffer now, i have suffered enough!

I thot i was the only one that noticed! No lie. hehehehehehehe! GUYS! GUYS!! GUYS!!! Later they gun put the blame on GURLS!!!

Why won't africans love rice? it's another way of getting away from "The Real African Culture" of EBA, IYAN, AMALA, SEMO, LAFU, e.t.c. Geez I LOVE RICE TO A FAULT be it White + Stew, Fried(favourite tho'), jollof, ofada, e.t.c dats if der are others!

ak47mann:
which light do you switch off in Nigeria? were is the light

@ak47mann. Lwkmdfh!!! there is always light in his house,if there's no official light, they run on GEN 24/7, so that's the light "HE" switches off in nigeria!