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K but shey if he sef see bomb he go wait?

Good

Olypeppy:
guy is nt all about Sex.....she is so young to be married Sanusi.That man is educated n should think with his brain nt ass.

But not too young to fornicate abi

PDP National Secretary, Professor Wale Oladipo, says this February Nigerians will have to choose between Goodluck Jonathan the PhD holder and Muhammadu Buhari, the ‘semi-illiterate’ jackboot.

Oladipo isn’t saying Buhari cannot read and write in English, Hausa or Arabic. He isn’t accusing him of not passing through the precincts of some primary, secondary or military school. The former head of state has been forcibly demoted to the ranks of the illiterate because he didn’t attend a university.

Thankfully for the APC candidate that is no hindrance to his aspirations as the constitution only requires him to have secondary school education – a conditions he more than meets.

Given that Oladipo is some sort of professor it is amazing he does not understand that mighty accomplishments are not a function of your string of degrees. Some of the greatest business leaders the world has ever known are either university dropouts or never even had the tertiary education experience.

Names like Microsoft founder and one of the world’s richest men, Bill Gates; Oracle founder, Larry Ellison, worth $28 billion who dropped out of University of Chicago; Chelsea Football Club owner, Roman Abramovich, worth $11.2 billion – a college dropout who once sold plastic toys out of his small apartment in Russia.

But the most interesting example is Britain’s war time Prime Minister Winston Churchill who had a very poor academic record in school. He struggled through three independent schools before ending up at the famous Harrow School.

After leaving Harrow he applied to attend the Royal Military College, Sandhurst. He would make three attempts before passing the entrance examination. Although he never went to university, Churchill is today regarded as one of the greatest wartime leaders of the 20th century. He is the only British Prime Minister to have won the Nobel Prize in Literature since its inception in 1901, and has been voted the greatest Briton ever.

Strong leadership comes from your innate character traits, not the number of paper qualifications on your wall. Enough said.







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http://thenationonlineng.net/new/phd-illiterate/

Op sincerely u need a JOB and you need it badly

Pls op I need a better source not this in door built source



And to all who comment ahead of me u will all com out tomorrow to shout and insult the student if waec release result of 80% mass failure wen u urself are the product of the failure nothing of such was writing in dat news the source is not ok and u are all writing, insulting and campaigning for the wrong reason oga oo

Its as a result of abandon road project couldn't reply u yest cos I was unable to hear from him but now confirmed

Ahhh wat a world Yourba ppl will say "Igba to mor pe o ti ready kilon wan redii fun" when u knw u are nt ready for it then y are u hmmmm only God go save us from this wicked world

Donmarrius:
It's obvious you are a kid,who doesn't know that war isn't fought with sticks,but arms and ammunitions.we av' got crude oil to exchange for arms/ammunitions,what do you av'?.parasite

And u think war is an interesting game I pity u or u think any state alone can fight Nigeria as a country without being destabilize itself mind u most of those who knw hw it start (war) don't usually knw how it end u better pray cos I can't imagine people like u shouting war or u think is going to b like American movie where actor no dey die I will refer u to the civil war to read more and how they both recruit more, how the leader run away living d followers to die like a fowl only for him to come back grow old, die and av a first class befitting burial I sorry for u

Gud at least he his winning on twiter not real life

U mean OFADA

One of my facebook friend just post this and I will like people to comment how wrong his he because of the way they are shouting Transformation this transformation that his post goes thus:

Jonathan has indeed transformed lagos-ibadan express way as TANOIDS do shout on AIT... have been on this road for over 4 hours now despite leaving ondo state early and the returning lane is a nightmare, Its even unqualifiable when you approach redemption camp,The portholes here will sink an average car,They've been constructing it for how many years now?

TANOIDS should stop deceiving Nigerians about Lagos Ibadan express way being flawless,Am presently on the road trecking with my legs,Yes,Am trecking,I will rather treck to Lagos than to suffocate inside a bus that can only move by flying over the array of vehicles ahead of it...

Below are NIGERIANS ENJOYING JONATHANIAN FRESH AIR.....

NUMEROUS CARS AND BUSES ARE SICK OF HAVING OVERHEATING...... SOME ARE FIGHTING......I JUST HOPE I DON'T SLEEP ON THE ROAD TODAY CAUSE I DONT SEE AN END TO THIS STANDSTILL JUST SOON...

Na today

I think something is wrong somewhere cos wen OBJ sent this boys to face d militant nothing like mutiny but y now then something is not connecting I guess

Too bad
Now I know y I was unable to do my registration

Both of them are nt good now for this country

dbranchconsults:
love this report

Yes bro he his right to some extent

Homepage » Marriage » 7 Things Your Muslim Husband Won’t Tell You

7 Things Your Muslim Husband Won’t Tell You

By Pure Matrimony - April, 30th 2012

Author: islamiclearningmaterials.com

Source: islamiclearningmaterials.com

By Abu Ibrahim Ismail
Ever wish you could read your husband’s mind? Western culture encourages husbands and wives to talk to each other and discuss things.

However, in many Muslim cultures, men are raised to be stoic and tight-lipped. Muslim husbands are very often (not always) reluctant to talk about certain things with their wives.

Part of the problem is also that sometimes it is hard to actually formulate our thoughts into the right words.

The only thing more difficult than translating thoughts to words is translating feelings to words.
So, a lot of Muslim men and women go through their marriages with very little communication and never really knowing what the other person is thinking.

This quick list is for the Muslim sisters in my audience. This list will give you good idea of some of the things your husband thinks about, but just doesn’t know how, or want, to tell you.

1. Above All, He Desires Your Respect

I spoke about this in my article “Love or Respect: Which Do You Prefer?”.

In this article, I explained that women want to know their husbands love them, and men want to know their wives respect them.

It’s important that Muslim women understand the value of respect for men, especially Muslim men. In Islam, men are taught from a young age that they are supposed to be the bread-winners and caretakers of their families.

You can imagine how frustrating it would be for a man, who tries his best to care for his family, to be married to a woman who doesn’t respect him. She may declare that she loves him, but without her respect, he will quickly fall out of love with her.

This idea is put forward in the Quran where Allah says:
Men are in charge of women by what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard.
Chapter 4, Verse 34

2. He Desires Your Loyalty

This goes hand in hand with respect.There’s nothing that will ruin a marriage quicker than the idea that your spouse is not loyal. The idea, that he or she is not going to stick by you.I’m not talking about infidelity. This is what usually comes to mind when people talk about loyalty in a marriage.What I’m talking about is knowing that the person whom you’ve chosen to spend the rest of your life with is going to be there for you when you really need them.

You’re better off coming to terms with this and accepting it than having false, purile notions about men.The best way to combat these thoughts are to apply the advice given in the first three secrets:

Respect him.

Give him physical love when he wants it.

Sometimes we screw it up and forget our anniversary. But we really would prefer to remember because we know it would make you happy.

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2. He Desires Your Loyalty

This goes hand in hand with respect.There’s nothing that will ruin a marriage quicker than the idea that your spouse is not loyal. The idea, that he or she is not going to stick by you.I’m not talking about infidelity. This is what usually comes to mind when people talk about loyalty in a marriage.What I’m talking about is knowing that the person whom you’ve chosen to spend the rest of your life with is going to be there for you when you really need them.

Most men won’t admit it, but we do need women. And we do need your support.And it’s very troubling to be married to a woman who may not be around when the going gets tough.If you are constantly threatening divorce or separation or Khula (Islamic divorce initiated by the wife), you can expect your marriage to fizzle out very quickly.

Your husband needs to know that you’re going to be by his side if:

He loses his job and the money gets tight.

He tries to do something (like start a business or go back to school) but fails at it.

His reputation is tarnished or his honor is attacked.

You should be loyal to your husband before everything else except Allah

3. He Wants To Have Sex More Often

Let’s get this right out into the open.Some women might think men are narrow-minded brutes for this, but it’s the truth.Men desire sex. Men really desire sex.

So when you give him the following excuses:

“I’ve got a headache.”

“I’m not feeling good.”

“Can’t it wait till the weekend? I’m really not in the mood.”

Know that your husband is going to go to sleep a little upset with you, even if he doesn’t show it.And do this often enough, he’s going to start resenting you. And that resentment will build up and may lead to him being unnecessarily mean to you or losing some love.

Please keep the following hadith in mind:
When a man calls his wife to his bed, and she does not respond and he (the husband) spends the night angry with her, the angels curse her until morning.
Bukhari and Muslim.

Something to think about.

4. He Thinks About Other Women

Okay, first of all, calm down. Don’t unsubscribe from my mailing list just yet. Let me explain this.
All men thin

You’re better off coming to terms with this and accepting it than having false, purile notions about men.The best way to combat these thoughts are to apply the advice given in the first three secrets:

Be loyal to him.

Why do you think men like buying women gifts?

Because deep down, we really just want to make you happy.

So when your husband buys you a gift, accept it, rejoice over it, thank him profusely, and use it as often as possible.

If he buys you some jewelry, wear it.

If he buys you a new smartphone, use it.

If he buys you a car, drive it.

And don’t be so quick to nag him about the things he doesn’t do right. Because then he’ll start feeling that you don’t respect (there’s that word again) the things he does do for you.

6. If You Nudge Him, He Can Be A Better Muslim

Nobody’s perfect.Perhaps your husband isn’t a Muslim scholar. Perhaps he’s not the best Muslim in the world.You can nudge him to make him better. But you can’t force him.

Do little things to get him to improve his Islam.

Offer to wake him up for Salaatul Fajr.

Encourage him to make Salaah at the Masjid.

Tell him how much nicer he’d look if he grew his beard.

This takes deliberate words, a soft touch, and careful action. No one likes to be preached to.But if you do this right, you’ll be getting a double reward:

The reward that comes with living with a righteous husband. And the reward in the next life for encouraging your husband to the truth.

Except for those who have believed and done righteous deeds and advised each other to truth and advised each other to patience.Chapter 103, Verse 3

7. He Loves You, Even If He Doesn’t Always Show It

I know, this one may be kinda hard to swallow. But it’s true (usually).
Men are just not that good at showing emotion (unless we’re talking sports or politics).
We don’t tell our wives “I love you” often enough.

We’re not perfect. And constantly comparing us to Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) ain’t helping.Of course, we are supposed to emulate him (pbuh) as much as we can. And for most of us, we are doing the best we can.

But we just can’t treat you the same way he (pbuh) treated his wives. Similarly, it’s unfair for men to expect their wives to behave like Aisha (RA) and his other wives (RA) did.

Just because your husband doesn’t treat you in the way (you think) the Prophet (pbuh) treated his wives, doesn’t mean your husband doesn’t love you.

It just means he’s human.It is very important that you understand this.

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If he sincerely tries to solve your problems and helps you in the best way he can.

Then chances are he loves you. A lot.

Now move from in front of the television and go make me a sandwich.

JUST KIDDING!

http://www.muslimmarriageguide.com/2012/04/7-things-your-muslim-husband-wont-tell-you/

ObiChiz08:
Not surprised at all. I think Kaduna should come 2nd, †нε rate at which drugs(igbo, weed, marijuana, codeine etc) are consumed by these guys ®ëåll¥ baffles me. Some are so addicted to it in such a way that during Ramadan, they can't cope without taking †нε drugs. Ya Allah! Do have mercy on their souls.


Finally, you'll hardly see a northerner(rich, poor, literate, illiterate) that doesn't do drug.


BTW, if islam permits drugs, Ɣ doesn't it permit alcohol? Question for another day

Point of correction islam doesn't permit drug its a no no. For anything that can intoxicate that's y some say a no to cigarette because it can mk some high

mukina2:
sekem sekem

No worry this is just d beginning stokecity don go draw blood them no fit drink nd must see d repercussion

Its only one united





It’s a choice.  To be positive and free, or to be imprisoned by your own negativity.  To live in the past, or to be hopeful about the present.

Its only one united


It’s a choice.  To be positive and free, or to be imprisoned by your own negativity.  To live in the past, or to be hopeful about the present.

sammondonpoint:
Just passing

Broken bottle dey ground o

Is not there duty to protect whatsoever and y divulge this is it for the hatred to grow more btw the two or what I still bliv the best person for that post is PASTOR ADEBOYE

Sincerely u av to b careful wen taking pics those guy bad o if u are cut u b gunners o

good for her