Bebe4u....Hmmmmm a man needs to be responsible for some things even without telling him,i want you to have a rethink of this and no matter what still keep your humility....in other words since you dont love him and you are not sexually attracted to him,please drop the relationship except you are in fear of the age you are.....i mean the fear of OMG i am thirty (you know all those rushy thoughts,my mate,my this,my that etc). Stay focus in your in whatever you do and God will not let your man who will care and take you for who you are pass you by.

Hmmmm,Transparency matters a lot when it comes to getting married,you both must come together to deal with the past and move up to the future,some past are capable of rearing out their ugly heads unknowingly and if you dont open up when you are suppose to then be ready for the beautiful penalty that might befall you. Imagine how it will feel like if both ends finds out one drop of your past which you refuse to tell.....obviously the trust will shrink and trust me you are building a problematic ladder to the futre.... If a man or woman hears your past on a truthful and faithful ground and dumbs you,then He or she is not meant for you,i believe there is somebody God has prepared for everybody irrespective of your past. Its really so hard this days to spot a truthful man and a woman that is ready to really go the extreme with you without pretending.