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[quote author=Miss_Ife link=topic=392919.msg5452541#msg5452541 date=1265365749]If both of them are employed they shoul share the expenses of the house, save some money for the family and keep the rest (if any) for their personnal expenses. I believe that we marry to join hands, not to put a heavy burden on our partner's shoulders.

However, there are some situations when things are different: for example if the man (or woman) earns much more than the wife (or husband) and has enough to provide for the whole family as well as for his/her personnal expenses, then he/she should do so and let the other spouse keep his/her money.  Things can also be different if the woman stops working to have/raise children etc, But as long as two people work, they should put the money on the table and decide together how to spend it. Women are not kids, if they are working they are supposed to also take responsibility for their families' expenses [/quote]You have raised good points in your post though i don't agree with some part but you really made brilliant points as a woman.

Okay.

hmm

^^ I was referring to you jare