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Romance › Re: Was I Wrong To Abandon My Pregnant Girlfriend? by phemmyfour: 11:33pm On Feb 10, 2025 |
Lakebib: Good morning romancelanders, I would love you guys to help me judge a complicated situation. My girlfriend visited me early this year, we had unprotected sex but before she left I personally bought contraceptives for her to take whenever she gets home. She travelled back to abj where she's serving and we kept communicating.
Fast forward to three weeks later, she complained to me that she missed her period, she opened up that she forgot to take the pills as at when due which led to the pregnancy. I was mad at her but the deed was already done. I told her that it was her mistake and she would have to fix it because I obviously don't a child now, she also agreed to terminate the pregnancy.
An incident occured while we were making arrangements for the abortion that led to a serious issue. We had a minor misunderstanding and didn't speak for a day, she called the second day around past eleven at night sounding a bit tensed, before I could ask her what the issue was, I heard a guy's voice asking her who she was talking to, she ended the call immediately. I called her back twice without response. When she picked up later she denied that she wasn't with a guy bla bla, I simply told her to stay away from me till she's ready to tell me the truth.
She sent me a message after 4 days about missing me and all, I asked her if she was ready to come clean about what happened that night, she still denied everything even contradicting herself in some parts. I insisted that she was lying while maintaining my stand that she must come clean before we settle any issue. She then asked me about the pregnancy because it was beginning to get obvious, I informed her that I'm not sure that the pregnancy is mine because she's obviously seeing other guys so she should do with it whatever she deems fit. She proceeded to insult me calling me stupid and all. I asked her if she thought insults could solve anything, madam told me that I should know that she can easily sleep with any guy she fancies and pin the pregnancy on him so I shouldn't think that leaving her would make her stranded. I wished her goodluck and she went into another barrage of insults, I just blocked her everywhere and deleted all her contacts.
My friend asked me about her last night and I told him what happened and he said I shouldn't have blocked her, he insisted that I should have taken care of the pregnancy first before cutting ties with her. I would love to get other opinions on the matter.
I'm sorry for the long post, please ignore any typos, I typed on the go and yes all insults are welcome. Even without any preggy, you can't trust her now or in the nearest future. She's a true 304 boasting about her prowess |
Family › Re: Is It Ok To Start Life All Over Again At 46? by phemmyfour: 11:27pm On Feb 10, 2025 |
Sirchiboy: Just clocked 46 yesterday. And nothing to write home about Age is just a number. Even at 50, you can begin again |
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Education › Re: Nobody Will Teach You This In School by phemmyfour: 11:25pm On Feb 10, 2025 |
Philogeny4: Life is all about the application of Wisdom. Things Iike this have made some people stranded. This may look simple, but it's not. This may not make front page because it's not about Snake, dogs, wizkid, Davido or a naked Tiwa Salvage having sex How much is hose again |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Rolls Out Contactless Passport Application System In Europe by phemmyfour: 6:27pm On Feb 10, 2025 |
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Crime › Re: NDLEA Busts Drug Kingpins, Suspects Excrete 125 Heroin Wraps by phemmyfour: 6:25pm On Feb 10, 2025 |
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Crime › Re: New Anambra CP, Urutugu Assumes Office, Promises To Find Killers Of 3 Siblings by phemmyfour: 6:22pm On Feb 10, 2025 |
Fish them out asap, they rendered the couple childless |
Politics › Re: FG Gives Civil Servants Ultimatum For IPPIS Update by phemmyfour: 6:21pm On Feb 10, 2025 |
Elvis2kay: Clearing of ghost worker's.,,, The worst many are JAPA's and they're Still collecting salary month. They approved their leave in the first place |
Politics › Re: Grant My Father’s Wish – Iwuanyanwu’s Son Appeals To Tinubu On Nnamdi Kanu by phemmyfour: 6:18pm On Feb 10, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Reps Move To Protect Niger Delta Environment, Ask FG To Halt IOCs Divestment by phemmyfour: 6:15pm On Feb 10, 2025 |
Long overdue..enough of the environmental pollution |
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Education › Re: FG Seeks Reversal Of Mother Tongue Policy In Primary Schools by phemmyfour: 6:10pm On Feb 10, 2025 |
Pelicanbrief: This policy is because yorubas can't speak proper English You must be living in stone age. That's the most educated tribe that even add their mother tongue to dictionary |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Police Force Denies Return Of SARS by phemmyfour: 6:06pm On Feb 10, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: 2027: Atiku, Tambuwal, Imoke in closed-door meeting with Obasanjo by phemmyfour: 6:05pm On Feb 10, 2025 |
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Food › Re: What Did You See? (picture) by phemmyfour: 6:02pm On Feb 10, 2025 |
Mariangeles: I saw this on Instagram, so I decided to bring it here.
Kindly share yours. I saw a dollar moved from N230 to N1500..infact still remembered saving $1000 @ the rate if N700/$ in 2023 |
Travel › Re: Lagos Red Line Rail Service Expands Capacity To 9 Trips Daily by phemmyfour: 6:00pm On Feb 10, 2025 |
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Celebrities › Re: I’m A Single Mother – Lil Smart’s Mom Breaks Down In Tears, Begs For His Release by phemmyfour: 5:58pm On Feb 10, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: How I Sacked My Daughter Over Lateness — Obasanjo by phemmyfour: 5:54pm On Feb 10, 2025 |
ppogba: Stop. uneccessary argument to justify your ignorance .
Shey na only Lagos and Abuja bankers dey for Nigeria. ?
It took you over 10 hours to react to a mention and all you could come up with is this watery beans.
Rest this case abeg and learn to think before commenting on some topics. Not everyone is jobless like you |
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu Vs Binta Nyako: Details Of What Transpired In Court by phemmyfour: 5:51pm On Feb 10, 2025 |
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Celebrities › Re: Chika Ike Is Pregnant, Shows Off Baby Bump by phemmyfour: 5:50pm On Feb 10, 2025 |
nlfpmod: Nollywood actress, Chika Ike announces first pregnancy, shows off baby bump.
Sharing her maternity photoshoot, the actress wrote:
Recall that Chika Ike lost her pregnancy to alleged domestic violence while she was still married to her ex husband.
She was married to Tony Eberiri (between 2006–2013). Finally she found peace with the right man |
Politics › Re: How I Sacked My Daughter Over Lateness — Obasanjo by phemmyfour: 5:46pm On Feb 10, 2025 |
ppogba: Bankers that resume before 7, shey na shift dem dey shift? Not in Abuja, only in lag such nonsense dey happen |
Music/Radio › Re: 2Baba Holds First Musical Performance After Separation From Wife, Annie (Video) by phemmyfour: 5:45pm On Feb 10, 2025 |
geechy: People wey talk "The older the sweeter" "The sweeter the merrier" "The merrier the knackered" Are wise people. You nor wise pass dem  Why are you in 2025, you can go back to 2024 |
Music/Radio › Re: Nigerian Idol Winner, K-Peace: I Was Not Given My ₦7.5M & Car Prize (Video) by phemmyfour: 8:19am On Feb 10, 2025 |
Nigeria idol, BBN et al with audio prize money |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Portable Is Under Spiritual Spell By Family’s Member – Singer’s Sister Claims by phemmyfour: 8:18am On Feb 10, 2025 |
What a joke...he's the curse |
Politics › Re: How I Sacked My Daughter Over Lateness — Obasanjo by phemmyfour: 8:16am On Feb 10, 2025 |
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Celebrities › Re: “My Wife Was Sending Her Nudes To Other Men” — Gospel Singer, Paul Nwokocha by phemmyfour: 8:14am On Feb 10, 2025 |
Jennyclay: Men need to up their game in bed, Biko 
Probably, the gospel singer is not good in bed.
I’m not saying you shouldn’t sing for God, but still have time for other physical things God created
I know money answers all things, but there are some additional things men need to do to make his marriage/relationship work. 
Money Sex True love
If I’m not going enough satisfaction from this 3 things in listed from my man, I will definitely look elsewhere. I’m sorry  It's not an excuse to misbehave. We all don't have same libido. You should learn to control your sexual appetite Continue to look elsewhere until you got infected |
Politics › Re: Trump Shuts Down DOJ Team Investigating Abacha’s Stolen Billions by phemmyfour: 7:08am On Feb 10, 2025 |
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