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PLS KINDLY MEET THE LADY IN PERSON B4 U GO ON,PHONE/CHAT IS NOT THE BEST,LOVE IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER-DISCUSS.
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HI,
LET ME BURST UR BUBBLE,I AM A RELATIONSHIP TEACHER 4 THE PAST 8YRS(I WAS MENTORED BY BISHOP OYEDEPO.PST KUMUYI,PASTOR BIMBO,BISHOP JAKES ON THIS SUBJECT),HIS TRADITION IS STRONGER THAN HIM,HIS FOLKS IF THEY ARE NOT GOD FEARING WILL MAKE LIFE HORRIBLE 4 U,THE ISSUE THAT HE WILL NOT BE LIVING IN AFRICA IS A LIE,U CAN'T PIN HIM DOWN,HIS CULTURE THAT WARRANT TO MARRY AFRICAN GIRL FROM HIS OWN PEOPLE WILL MAKE HIM TO STAY WITH HIS PEOPLE TO PERFORM HIS CULTURAL,SO U WILL BE ON THE LOSING END/BCM FRUSTRATED.
IF HE IS REALLY IN LOVE WITH U,LET HIM FORGET THE CULTURE THING STAY WITH WHERE U ARE & MARRY U,IF HE CANT DO THAT FORGET HIM NOW,BUT ENSURE HE GETS CLOSER TO GOD.
I WILL TALK ON EMOTIONAL HEALING LATER U NEED THAT,UR LIFE IS MORE IMPT 4 HE CREATE A GO SLOW 4 / GET STUCK IN THE WAY.
REACH ME ON 08055831857,037771221.
PHI,

HI GUYS,IN ANY RELATIONSHIP THAT WILL STAND THE TEST OF TIME,1ST U HAD TO DEFINE IT,(2)DISCUSS WHERE U ARE COMING FROM ONCE ITS GETTING TO ABT 3MTHS INTO THE DATE(3)RAISE THE ISSUE OF FAMILY BACKGROUNDS (4)TRUST UR INTUITION TO GUIDE U.NOW LISTEN,I UNDERSTAND THAT THERE IS AN EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT ALREADY,SWEET HEART,LISTEN THE GUY IS MEANT 4 U IF U TRY TO GO FURTHER U WILL REGRET CRYING/LOOKING 4 LOVE COS THE PEOPLE WILL HATE U THAT U ARE TRYING TO STOP THEIR CHILD FROM PERFORMING HIS RIGHT.
IN CASE,U NEED FURTHER INSTRUCTION RESPOND TO THIS,I WILL FORWARD MY PHONE NO.
JUST TRUST/BELIEVE HIM 4 THE BEST.I TRIED TO ADDRESS THE LADY'S PROBLEM AND IS NOT REALLY A CASE OF WHY DO NIGERIAN MEN LIE,I WOULD ADDRESS THAT LATER.
PHILEOLOVE

I had observed that quoite a no of ladies & few guys find it difficult when it comes to the issue of relationship,this has to do with Background influnce: this simply the hold of a terrible past.Now,a lady that was not appreciated,tried her best to curry favour and appreciation,going all the way out from a guy.In the process,she had worked herself up and hit a wall in the process.
Another guy,cos of early childhood sexual assault,tend to prefer elderly ladies and big,  despite the fact that he is happily married and he had related his expertience to his wife.
All these are a result of background influence,what did you observe in your own life.Watch out for a way out mid week.

Yes,its not just the issue of romance,it damages the trust and affection of the person concerned which invariably will affect the relationship concept and love lifestyle.For instance, for a lady(true life case)- she find it difficult to trust men and she had horrible mental torture.The way out will be to relax,trust God for the best,seek for a confidant that will bring in hope and restoration where necessary.Dating such a person,you need to understand where she is coming from ,appreciate her fears and clears her doubt.It has to be a real man that will do this.