Yeah one might be wrong but certainly no harm inTrying, looks like she is into you but just want to take things slowly. Better luck next time. Just give her sometime, i think she'll come around.

illuminated93:
Her nippples are sensitive. At a time she started jerking,she said I wz going wild,she didn't allow me any further. I went for the tits again,she just reacted lyk a child that runs away from an adult tickling her. She was like it's already late,so I subtly tld her I'd lyk 2 spend d nite @ her place,she was lyk no. I didn't want to force it,didn't want to appear too needy. I noticed when I was about igoing,she off'd d bra,I tried pushing it down earlier so I cld taste d nippples,then she saw me 2 d bustop. Then she was lyk if I don't see bike i'd sleep over. You knw these girls,decoding them can be funny @tyms. U might be wrong.

You earlier said the fingering lasted about a minute so she probably wasn't feeling you hence she rejected further actions. Just learn to be patient, am sure all these things you did might have even happen with her clothes still on, when doing a girl for the first time you need to careless about the excitement and observe what turns her on the most, focus of those little details and you could be hearing please make l**e to me within minutes.

illuminated93:
I was smiling reading your writings. From day one,i wrote her that I admired her lips. When I got to her place,i was free with her,lyk putting hands round her waist,running my hands down her boobs. Then she was like what am I doing,i just ignored the question,and I still kept my hands on those sexy parts. Then I moved for the kiss,she resisted abt 3 different times,then d last one,she just grabbed my lips,sucked my tongue. She then played that control game,she was like I don't know how to kiss properly,i know that's a lie. I felt it was stupid arguing with her,so I allowed her kiss,she sucked my ears,my body. Then I moved for the fingering,after a while, she resisted,i was kissing her, sucking her neck and fingering her simultaneously. Would lyk to know how you would have handled this whole scenario?i just feel I didn't kick tins properly and I know she's very experienced,just that she likes me,she knows I don't have money like that,and she's doing all that shit for free. Wondering why I didn't kill the pusssy. she was the one that even invited me over that late,around 7:42pm,she stays alone. Just painted the whole scenario that went down her place to you.

Well when a girl throws up the resistance you need to first know if she really doesn't want it or if she is the bear type that want things rough. From the explanation of your scenario, your case is as good as you tried raping her cos she really didn't want it, that she does drugs doesn't not mean she needs the D at all time, you needed to make her feel relaxed by working physiologically on her before any physical contact. The bottom line is she needs to be ready and emotionally available before you make such advances, in some cases a woman just wanna cuddle so give her that and little touches here and there will get her in the mood. Most times we rush these things and mess it all up, if she kissed you there is a 60% chance she might want more but you have to be slow and gentle, tell her sweet nothing's and see how it progresses from there. So work on your patience and take things 1 at a time. If you need further advice you might have to pay some consultation fee.

illuminated93:
In truth, fingering her didn't last up to a minute,i wasn't really paying attention,i jst wanted 2 burst her pusssy. Then she made me lose my composure with all her resistance. Bro, when a lady throws up resistance @ u, hw do u still manage 2 achieve your aim? I am asking you

Work the angle, if she liked the finger she would have wanted more.

illuminated93:
Broda,it is very easy to criticise someone till you find yourself in such a position. Pls drop an advice as an old G. How shld my finger game look like?

If she doesn't come back, let her be, you should have learnt something from her reaction, your finger game is poor, learn to use it properly and you will get the P next time. Learn the 90 degrees projection and she will ask for more.

Growing beards won't bring the girls, grow your bank account and they will come in their numbers.

Oshiom-ole the thief should just shut up, because the opposition found out his rigging machine, they postponed and he is here making stupid accusations. Edo people know better. His wailing just started, Edo people will bury him with their votes!!!!

I just smell another inconclusive elections at the long run, it's such a shame that after 2 yrs of being at the helms the present government has not conducted any controversy free election.

Stupid man, the daughter will still sneek around on a bike or bicycle with the same boy and he can't do nothing about it.

Hope he knows Federal SARS are now interested in cultists?

Lol i dey vex for you now, you obviously just met the babe and you expecting her to be single upon meeting you or not take any guy's call, no now. You need to make her feel comfortable so she won't have to lie to you about her relationship status, after that, you work on displacing the clown that you are sharing her with u.

Leysco:

oga, fire me small small na

Na wah, so because you are woeing her she can't talk to other men? I dare not catch your type near any of my loved ones o. My friend you are just been insecured, if treat her right she won't have reasons to cheat on you. Focus on been a good lover rather than been a lousy and possessive one.

With those she doesn't need a safety jacket, no wonder she didn't wear 1.

I tire for this man o, you were caught flaunting your dick on camera instead confirming or denying it was you,you are there calling people for open debate. This guy is such a clown.

MrSmith007:
Ogbomoso weed in action... support a cheater that did not refute a cheating claim attached to the family name?, instead he is bringing up issues he has with other lecturers?...

Oga, is dat you in the sex video or not?, we're not concerned with who you have beefs with.

it is a colorless, odourless and tasteless Aphrodisiac used for sexual stimulation in woman. The funny thing is that some woman take it to increase stimulation and sensitivity.

Africa Padding Congress!!! liars of the century... they are loosing their popularity by the day.

thank you my brother, my thoughts exactly

emeijeh:
"Women should not get married to men who do not have a job" - Adeboye 2016

You welcome dear, make sure you share the good news after the moment of truth.

worriedgirl:
thanks dear, that should help... I appreciate

Well.. If you can't stand him or say a word whenever you meet up then take the easiest route, which is sending him a detailed email or text message, as for the text message do it when he is at work cos I wouldn't want his wife to see such, it will spoil everything. I still insist hoping he doesn't come up with the topic again will still complicate things because he might be more daring the next time he brings up the topic. Give him a piece of your mind via email or text without been rude.

worriedgirl:
I can't even talk about it in his presence cause I get so motionless and speechless like a zombie... I feel so embarrassed that such topic should be discussed between us... the last time I went to his office, I went to clear things with him and make him understand but I couldn't utter a single word, I ended up looking like a zombie while he hugged me, it's just a very uncomfortable topic and I'm praying he doesn't bring it up again... and I wasn't trying to convince, I was only stating the fact... for crying out loud, he is old, he is retiring in 5 years time and lecturers retire at 70, plus the whole mago mago thing, he's definitely close to 70 or more sef, he's married with children that are far older than I am, so I wasn't just trying to convince anyone there, I was mainly stating a fact... I might have had a crush on him and mistaken it a little but I guess it's all clear now, I'm a sucker for intelligent men and that was all the crush was about - his intelligence
thanks for your contribution, by the way

This not really a difficult situation, he is learned and should understand simple English, so except you want to play with fire, just tell him in clear terms that you are not sexually attracted to him and that you just adore him cos he is your mentor. You did a good job trying to convince us you ain't interested in any thing s*xual with him in your post, therefore you can convince him with less effort. Your last paragraph said it all, you shouldn't spoil this beautiful relationship with s*x, make him understand that, avoiding him will complicate things because been out of sight will make him want you more.

God, you people can lie sha, those pics were shot in Benin city, how on earth does this resemble Lagos expressway.

24hourNigeriane:
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My brother you take her back at your own peril, try avoiding anything that will bring back the emotions.

Peugeot 504, I learnt how to drive using one.

My friend go make some money and stop whining.

Gosh, you people are wicked oo, how will you sub 1.5g for just N50 and expect it to work, abeg if na your papa get airtel you go fit get mind use that data plan?

He gave you condoms to use in camp that night yet you had unprotected sex with him because he promised to take responsibility if you get pregnant. Ok oo lemme complete your story before further comments.well the only thing I blame you for is having unprotected sex and not taking any pills afterwards, am so sorry you found yourself in this situation but the truth you need to move on and get the abortion guilt off your mind, you made the right decision.

faustinalove:
part 2. they r in 4parts. pls girls, read. especially d igbo girls.

I thought he was joking but he kept on saying it but insisted that i want to go and when he noticed that i wouldnt change my mind, he stopped talking abt it. Nysc camp was to open on April 27th (batch A, stream 1), so he asked me to come to lagos so that i can buy d things i need and also so that i can go to abuja from lagos.
I went to lagos on the 24th and started buying my camp stuffs. The next day was 25th which was my birthday. In d evening of my bday, he bought things and celebrated my bday with his frnds and everyone in d house. That night, to my surprise, he brought out a beautiful ring and proposed to me. I was very happy and i accepted and we kept on celebrating into d night. When we went to bed that night, he said something shocking. He said he will like me to carry some condoms with me to camp 'in case' anything happens. He said he loves me but he doesnt want STDs! I was so angry i almost returned d engagement ring. I warned him never to say such words again to me and he apologized. He wanted sex that night but i told him that day was dangerous as i could get pregnant since that day was d begining of my 'fertile window'(day 11 after my last period). He assured me that he would take responsibility if pregnancy occurs and that i should trust him with all he has done to prove that he wants to marry me. I relaxed after hearing all that, i agreed and we made love and we slept. I travelled to abj the next day(26th).