lol. long distance relationship hurt atimes you know, but I think you can start by owning a terrier, they are small, active, fearless and friendly.

Resurgence:


Really? I so adore some of them but from afar....

I know it's a fear I can overcome, but I haven't got an opportunity to do so yet. Matter of fact I will love to have one in the future. But for now, we are keeping the long distance relationship going

You really don't need to be scared of dogs, they are very social animals and all they need is tender loving.

I know u asked the ladies, but I don't mind lending my voice here, cos this is a man's issue, the first and most important thing is communication, she needs to talk to him about the way she feels and things she thinks he can do to satisfy her, it might take time but he will learn with time and practice, the only mitigating factor might be if he is 2 to 3 inches. I don't know if there are safe natural ways to enlarge. Less that, talk to him and he will upgrade.

My brother, apologising to woman you love in times of dispute doesn't make you a weakling, it only show how much of a man u are and your ability to face issues head on. The only issue you should be having right now should be why you always have quarrels with Bae, do you feel she is getting tired of the relationship or has the love gone cold? This should be your worry right now because I do not see any reason to call it quit when you already told her you couldn't raise the funds right now, she could have postponed the program to a later date and you guys work out how to raise the money against that date. From your side of the story the breakup was uncalled for, so I will advice you sit her down,1st of all sort the issue regarding this money then really probe her to know if she is still into you then work out a good financial plan in case of next time.at that point if she doesn't love you as much as she used to or if anything Changed about her feelings, simply move on, there is no time to waste over any1 that doesn't love you as much as you do.

jideniceguy:


Thanks brother for the advice. But the question is won't I look like a weak person if I go settle with her again? Like I said before, we just settled a disagreement last week and I was the one dat apologised to her and settled things then. So calling her to settle again now, wouldn't I be a weakling to her? Secondly, as for the NYSC thin, the truth is I already have some money I kept with someone to start business but waitin till I finish service. Infact, the money is enough to start two different businesses at a time. And I just wanna use this service period to learn about the businesses well so I would just start straight after service. The money was what I talked about in the writeup that she knew wen it was with me up till wen I no longer had it and dats cos I kept it with someone and I can't just request for a dime from from now till till finish service. I'm serving at a ministry in state secretariat.

I learnt a very bitter lesson some 5 years ago, I refused to forgive some1 I loved so deeply because I was too proud to accept her back after 1 year of break up, she even came begging after NYSC and I played with her emotions just to get back at her , the funny thing is she left the country the same day I decided to make things work between us last year, now i realize it was the greatest mistake of my life, because I have struggled to truly love again . Pride kills!!!

Just saying mhen, looks too good to be true

kiddoiLL:
you haven't meet amazing ladies then..not every lady out there is as bad as Nigerians make it look

Yeah I said anonymously because the facts need to be established before there can be a confrontation from an outsider, this will prevent the worst case scenario of the victim been murdered in case the man suspects his wife is reporting him or something.J ust don't know what else to think, the issue is just getting rampant by the day.

Resurgence:


This your own solution is making me laugh

Government should set up organizations for abused wives to report to "anonymously"



You are implying she should secretly report. What's the secrecy about when she is the only suspect to the report


You try sha! At least you trying to find solutions...

this guy seem so pained. dude, are u ok, abi the guy scam u?

Gosh!!! what is happening to men of this generation? what pleasure do they even derive from hurting these women. I think the government should come up with legislation that will curb this menace, setup up organizations where abused women can anonymously report and punish the men after proper investigation. This has to stop. These Men are weaklings and feel the way to show their superiority is by abusing their spouse.

OP, they do, you are not just doing the right thing or probably not getting the angle right. You need to study more.#experience

BoiledHead:
It's very urgent.

I observe that nigeria ladies don't squirt like in the movies. I was watching some porn vids and saw how the ladies were just dishing out some liquid like it's an unlimited tap they open. Which i find sexy.

I ask my gf to do it.. she didn't really have an idea on how to. I also ask my neighbour gf to do it she also cannot do it. And I made a survey and found that 75% of Nigerian ladies cannot do this thing no matter how hot the sex is.

Why?

This has to be setup, any bae that gives you all this for the night especially if she doesn't do a shift job has an ulterior motive.

kiddoiLL:
Best BAE

The question is can you make a good husband? She met you at the club too. That you met some1 in the club does not make them bad, if you dated her this 12 months without having issues with her personality or her clubbing life style, I see no reason why she can't be a good woman.If you live in the same city and at this point of your relationship, you do not know if she is good for keeps, my brother you need to learn more.

With the way this guy is going and groping her breast on camera, I won't be surprised to see your sex tapes in a few months.

OP, I will advice that you do your search within the school, i think the first thing you should do here is to visit your school's MIS or Multimedia office, I don't know about your school's structure but back in my university days at ABU, MIS was at the senate building and it is a section where you have the database of all the student and applicant for every program the school offers, with just 2 to 3k you can have them run this lady's pix on their database and if it comes with a hit, you can get all her details and information to enable you locate her 1 on 1 and get this thing sorted out. I have check all the online databases(voter's register and national id) possible and the pix could not be recognized. therefore do the above and see how it goes. The offices in your school are meant to be used, use them.

Hmmm, witchcraft is not far fetched. what happened to letting go and moving on without hurting the other party.

Vinshu:


What? The guy never loved me. Promised me marriage and all sorts meanwhile he was screwing my best friend. So I had to play along until I milked him of all his money and wrecked him. I didn't do it well. He is still rich

I wanted to reduce him and reduce him to grassroots. I wanted to keep him there and put his name on poverty. It hurts that I failed at that.

You Don't need to abandon her totally, just keep checking up on her once in a while and have a sincere talk with her one of these days to know if she really likes you, she probably has some1 else and has not made up her mind to be with you. More so it will amount to more pain if you know sincerely she doesn't have the slightest feeling for you and still believe she will come around. So talk to her and know where you stand. No time!!

OGA it's not evoque ooo, it the all new RR sport

chelseabmw: This is Range Rover Evoque

I don't understand why a transaction that was done by NCCA is been credited to the minster, NCCA is a subset of the ministry of aviation and does not have to right to make procurement for the minister any procurement made by the minister is not supposed to go through NCCA but should be credited to the minister's office directly. I think this sahara guys are high on smtin, let them return to the shahara desert where they belong and stop fooling people in our cyber space.

Oga go and make good money, love will follow after that

ABU had that since last year.

This is simply waste of money, Bale is an average player that shouldn't sell for more than £40m, though madrid's attack with Bale and Ronaldo will be deadly, but i see Ronaldo returning to United if that kinda amount is paid for Bale.

contactwale: When we talk of Cristiano Ronaldo and Lionel Messi, it is believed that no other player in the world is of the same calibre. But this past season, Gareth Bale at Tottenham has proved otherwise.

The Welshman has had an absolutely sensational 2012/13 campaign. He has not only been scoring a lot of goals, but has also developed his game in a variety of ways.

Bale joined Spurs in 2007 from Southampton for a fee of £7m.

The 2012/13 season began with Tottenham challenging for the Champions League spot. Bale proved to be extremely important in Spurs living up to their ability.

The Wales international has scored 26 goals and picked up eight assists in all competitions this season and has rightfully been named as the PFA Player and Young Player of the Year - and also the Football Writers’ Player of the Year.

It's going to take a word-record fee for Real Madrid to prise Gareth Bale away from Tottenham but is the winger really worth £100million?

Real Madrid think so. They think it would be money well spent but some analysts disagree with the Spanish giants.

What about you? Do you think Bale is worth £85m. Yes or No?

Click "Like" in the YES and NO posts below so that we can have your opinion.

you sound like the Devil himself, from all indication the OP is a reckless spender and his girl wants him to stop that(though asking for his pin in on the extreme o)but the investment part makes some sense, OP use u brain!!

50calibre: Why should you give her any money, was that part of the agreement?

@OP look this world is a very tough place, survival of fittest, learn to back-stab anyone, don't be afraid to hurt anyone's feelings as far as you get what you want, the end justifies the means.

the guy is becoming very daft by the day with His crazy actions oo.

atlwireles: So you think shutting down the airport will affect anybody, other than Edo citizens and businesses This man call Osho is not as smart as I thought.

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