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Geez. Weldone Man. But what you need to understand is that what is good for the goose is also good for the gander

CorGier:
Men would always be men nah. We can't help ourselves.

Ok, let me ask you a quick one. How then do most of these women end up becoming the man's second wife if it were purely lust.

lefulefu:
Sure pebbles i agree there are a few nigerian ladies who are independent and i admire and respect them.But what i am saying is that in Nigeria a young lady who dates a married man does so for comfort and money and the married man who is doing it does it for sex.Eh doesn't need any love frm the girl cos he can get all that love frm his wife.Have u not heard cases of married men who are not financially buoyant would use the money meant for their children's school fees on their mistress or use the family savings to buy a car for the mistress.Its not love that pushes such a man to take such drastic step but Lust.

Please stop saying no married man comes afer single girls. Infact being married does not stop them. They want a regular relationship. The one attainable were they single. They want to take you to d movies, go on dinners and do evrything like a boyfriend.

lefulefu:
some of u ladies would just be blaming married men.if not i see what these married men go through frm single ladies then maybe i would agree with this ur post but then i see what they go through and sometimes i even feel for them.NO married man would just just wake up one day and be looking for single girls to devour except if he is a seasoned Aristo.And the aristoes prefer hooking up with professional runz girls.The thing is girls who hang out with married men are either full time or part time runz girls.

Well, they are tryin their best. Advice your men to stick to their wives. Dat is what marriage is all about afterall

CorGier:
Nah, let's not go there. But advice your girls to stay off married men. Temptation is no excuse.

If you want to go Biblical, then I need to remind you that your quote totally speaks of Adam who could not take responsibilty for eating the apple. He had to blame the woman for giving him the apple.

CorGier:
See that Cognitive Dissonance there?
Reminds one of the Biblical Eve and the snake, doesn't it.
Like her, you ladies are never accountable for anything. It's always someone else's fault.
You can blame Mr A all you want. Mrs A is the one hurting, and she knows who she would rather go after.

OMG! I cannot believe this is how low women have sunk. There are so many Nigerian girls that are working hard as to be independent. Look around, I am sure you will see one.

lefulefu:
All what u saying does not happen in Nigeria.i am talking with a nigerian perspective.Lol a nigerian lady with the mind to be independent? Are u located outside Nigeria?

I beg to differ. An average lady wants to be independent and self- sufficient not necessarily date a ready made man. A below average girl falls into that category. Most of the married men do not even offer money to the girls. They offer availability. They want a regular relationship. So it is not like they are paying the girls. So i do not think it is about the money

lefulefu:
but with most ladies at a married man's beck and call i don't see any reason why he would want to force himself on a gal who is clearly not into him.The average lady in Nigeria wants to date a ready made man.That is a man who already has a steady very high paying with a big car and a big house and most married men tend to fall in such category hence the reason many ladies run after them.Yes there are single men with good jobs but their salary scale may not be as fat as that of the older married fellow.So why would lets say a university prof or a political big wig be begging a young lady to date him when he clearly has the financial muscle to sway that young girls world.

Yea that is my name

torres89:
pebbles

is that your name

have a gal named that too

wow. This is another dimension. I totally get you. But lets focus on the ones that do not want but are pressurized and tempted to do it. What is your take on that? Are you going to blame the man or the girl?

CorGier:
Peebles,

You forgot to mention that, most women only want what another woman has.
They feel that since Mrs A is married to Mr A, then they too should be good enough for Mr A.
They would go to any lengths to conquer a married man JUST for the sake of it.

They even see it as a thing of pride to get to wreck a home. To them, it shows they are not only desirable but it makes them feel superior to the wife of the man in question.
They be like "Hey, see I fūcked your husband, I'm definitely better than you."

It's the same ego boost we guys get when we get to seduce and fūck another guy's girl.

I am glad we av agreed on something. Thank you for coming up with valid points. *respect*

torres89:
Na wa o

falling in love as a law

I actually understand your point

ladies are generally weak vessels

some men are go getters, ruthless and mean

speaking from experience.

I just wanted you to outline solid points to support your hypothesis

Do you know the law of falling inlove? If a person consistently show you care and support for a stretch of 20days, you are likely to fall inlove with the person. A normal girl can become powerless and fall prey. It could happen. Like i said, it takes the grace of God to overcome. They live with women. They know all tricks to win a woman's heart.

torres89:
we all have choices in life

even the normal gal does too

it's her decision to date the married man

she secretly craves for him at night

like a quote says it's wat u wanna see that's wat u get....

Wow. I cannot believe you just asked that. Anyways it is because you are a guy. Infact when you tell them pls leave me you are married. They will ask you if being married is a sickness

lefulefu:
why would a married man bother a normal single girl going about her own duty and jus minding her business.Except such a man is a sex meniac.

You get ba.

dacblogger:
lolz...I get ur point.

Like i said, there are girls out there lookimg for watever from men. I am talkin abt a normal girl goin about doing her business. Trust me, d push is almst the same measure as a gun on the head

torres89:
lol
smart move... blame it on the man

did he put a gun on the girls head


all those talk of the guy doing everything in his power is crap

she could choose to walk away or ignore his calls or presence.... but she won't choose any of those.... Y

she wants him....

we know wat IT students do to ogas in office

is it the man that told them to wear skimpy dresses to work ?


Op look for a better reason joor

I expected nothing less. Mediocre

dee02:
Bullshit..... You need a brain transplant!

I know oh. But I want when i pray on his head, let God have a reason ti answer

dacblogger:
dearie, a man that will cheat will cheat whether you do it 2 another person or not, karma has nothing to do with the cheating behavior of men...

You are clearly talking about Aristos. I am talking about a normal girl going about her everyday business

lefulefu:
True there are some randy old men who run after young ladies but then if the lady is not the type who sells herself to old men in exchange for material things she can always say no.But then what i am saying is that nowadays its single young ladies who chase and run after married men.You see a number of young single ladies giving reasons why they prefer dating old married men cos younger men who are single can't provide for them financially.These ladies waste their youth running after old men and when they are past the bloom of youth these men dump them for more greener pastures and the ladies end up at shiloh crying for a husband.Am not judging though but if u were to use a microscope on some of those ladies who go to church looking for a partner u will see they are the ones who wasted their youth jumping frm one sugar daddy to the other.

I have nothing else to say to u "ELDER"(

Softorgasm:
If i slap you ehn!!!!
you have no respect for elders abi..

My sister. It takes the grace of God. And their wives dont know what we pass through.

dacblogger:
o.p I understand what you are saying..they will lure you with every possible means, they even shower more love and care than the so-called bfs...you ve 2 be very strong in other to resist their advances. one offered 2 get me a car just for me 2 sleep with him, they can call you day and night and so on..

Lol. I believe in the law of karma.

jeyselassie:
lol...tiri gbosa anyways for the marriages u saved.

I agree with you. But not totally. What of the married men that claim polygamous in nature thereby going after any thing under a skirt. A girl will just be on her own and the man will view her as the carrot in his vegetable salad that he must have.

lefulefu:
OP the reverse is the case.Its mostly the single ladies who don't want to let married men to rest.All in a bid in their quest to buy the latest phone gadgets and clothes they will be running after married men upandan.

So that is all you could deduce from this post. Your orgasm is not just soft, I think your brain is too.

Softorgasm:
Click like if you think the op have a sugar daddy...

Married men are the most desperate men. They can go any length to get a girl. Infact eh, if a married man means you, it will take the Grace of God for you to not fall. They have all kinds of tricks down their sleeves.

When I see married women cursing on girls who fall for their husband, I actually feel sorry for them. They are attacking the wrong people. You do not know how many times the girl has said no but your desperate husband does everything withing his humanly power.

Things single men dont do. Once you tell a single man no, he moves on already. So this is cheers to all the sisters that have not fallen prey to all the married men's tatics. You guys are strong and I commend you for that. And for those that fell, I cant blame you, but I urge you to be stronger and they will not succeed again. And for the wives, pls try and start apportioning more blames to your husbands .They are actually the problem.

Yea. You are totally right.

kinggogo:
Yeah it comprises of both genres buh nevertheless it's still an interesting show. Characters dah brings d comic side of d show are Toby, Kate cuz of her funny appearance, Kelvin, Randal's dad nd smtyms Randal

18 episodes has bn slated 4 dis current season

Is it really a comedy show?I feel it is more of a drama.

kinggogo:
It's a comedy show dah centers around d lyf of 3 siblings who were all born on d same day

This show is growing on me. I am loving Toby. I dont know why I feel Randall's wife will be a problem

. I can't stop laughing. See how he is sleeping peacefully. The girl must have done a good job . I jst pity his family especially his children. Wonder how dey will feel seeing their perfect father helpless like dis

Exactly. Our parents practiced that and the parents before them. Our generation has spoilt. Buh some people still practice it. They may be seen as old fashioned but then that is the right thing. Another factor that played a major role for them back den was early marriage. These days , it is almost impossible coz most men wait til dey ar 40 before they get married. Imagine how difficult it wud be to abstain.

elnino2015:
Yeah, I know.

Does it mean a guy who does not want to indulge in premarital sex should wait until when he is ready for marriage before he goes into a relationship?

Ok. I wil try it now. Thnks

Jalal:
dont give up dear, the site is going now and easier to do all at once rather than 18 pages.

It hasnt o. He has gone bak to school. Guess when he comes bak. Thnk you for chekin

Jalal:
u welcome Pinkpebbles has it been done?